Why does my friend keep doing this to me?

[Anonymous]

She keeps following the guys I’m dating or whichever guy I’m dating at the time and messaging them behind my back. Now I see the most recent one that I was talking to has been exchanging messages with her even though she has a boyfriend already. She also likes his pics. What’s wrong with her and why does she keep doing this to me?

[mark000h]

Sounds like she's making it some kind of competition. Doesn't sound friend-like.

[Asker]

She has said she feels ugly compared to me before but I didn’t think she would act out in this way

[Anonymous]

That’s horrible I think to fix this is by YOU unfollowing her and make your IG private !! Don’t f care about her. Look after yourself

[Asker]

Yes I will I’m so angry right now, I think she does it for some sort of validation that she can get the guys I can get. Some “friend”

[Anonymous]

If she has a boyfriend you need to confront her about what she is doing and, than let her boyfriend know it’s unacceptable

[Asker]

I know, if I find indefinite proof I’ll confront them both.

[Asker]

She also hits her boyfriend and he hits back, she has massive issues

[Opinion Owner]

What in the world they are abusive towards each other they need to break up

[Asker]

I know but she’s so desperate for a relationship she can’t/won’t let him go

[Anonymous]

She ain't your friend. Get rid of her and don't share anything personal ever. She needs to learn the hard way. That is NOT a friend.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Jealous of you

[Asker]

It just makes me feel sick to my stomach because some of them give her attention back, which means they ain’t shit. Like the most recent one recently also liked her pics. I think she does it to prove she’s attractive or something

[Gwenhwyfar]

Exactly!

[Asker]

I also don’t understand why they respond to her advances when she’s that bad of a friend, and is a horrible person. She’s also not pretty she’s just cute

[Gwenhwyfar]

Cause they’re horny and she puts out. Or at least encourages them.