I think this is something that women who didn't get fatherly love as children do. hunger for love and attention... The female body is precious. If a woman reveals her body to everyone, it shows that she is like a free lollipop. it has no value. but if a woman hides her body from other men, that makes a woman valuable. only a man who deserves that woman can see that body. I think a woman is valuable when she is covered.
I agree with you on this one, why do they show their body on the Internet I just want a woman or girl who has a kind heart, I'm not worried about her shape, size, eye color, hair color and I do like your username
Here's the thing many women don't understand: if you want to impress him, know your way around his beliefs and hobbies better than he does. Or at least well enough, that he sees you as a somewhat equal.
Earn his begrudging respect, and he'll be more open to wanting you as a life teammate, not merely as a glorified sex robot.
Any dude with an active account on DeviantArt can turn off the filters, and view all the ass they'd ever want.
But if you can redesign my custom superheroes I created for use in The Sims 4 better than I can, and can design near-1:1 scale replicas of real buildings with an accuracy and efficiency that I can't match, and can effortlessly mod into existence that one feature I had to use five other mods plus a week of Photoshop to pretend to have, you're practically a goddess in my eyes. Treat me like a prince after showing your skills, and I'll want to make you a queen.
Failing that, be good at something else I believe in. Give me reason to want you to succeed at it, even where I couldn't. Get me to respect your passion.
My Chinese ex never realized her cheerful demeanor, encouragement, and openness with me would cause me to develop feelings for her. She thought she was enjoying friendship with a foreigner, and advancing herself in her company by using me to learn US geography for sales faster.
But I admired her passion for selling those silly robots that spy on fish. I revered her dedication to her nephew's well-being. Her commitment to family. And while I initially helped her because it was a fun distraction from my GAD, I fell in love with her before I knew what hit me.
@Jamie05rhs : Generalized anxiety disorder. I had an issue back then. Had some very shitty coworkers, and a lot of family and money and health problems. Stressed out all the time, until it started driving me mad.
Women who post naked pictures of themselves all over the internet have low self-image and are looking for others to "approve" them. It doesn't work, but these women don't learn that.
An inborn need for attention and validation of beauty. A need that's never sated but must be indulged daily. Some women may blame societal standards and pressure, but there's no going around that posting lewd or loosely dressed, overdone pictures on the internet is your active choice and your choice alone.
It's psychological. Most women want to be sexually desired by men. It's what makes the world reproduce. I find that the loneliest, most desperate, or most unfulfilled women exhibit themselves this way. Also, since the beginning of sin, some women make money from using their bodies this way. Instagram is just the new tool to do so.
I also don't get why a woman posting a basically nude photo of herself that shows up on my Facebook feed (a picture I really didn't want to see) is empowering but if I were to send an unsolicited dick pick...
because they have been fed this perpetual delusion that having zero dignity somehow equals power they donβt get the truth that it actually removes all value they have as a partner.
I think it's because they want a sense of belonging. I personally find they want a fan base of people following them to make them happy. Its a fact the more skin you show and the more prerogative the more people follow you it's sad in my opinion but to each their own
100% agree. I also think everyone should try to see their body as special, because it is. I try to take care of mine and am waiting until marriage to show it all off. I think everyone should do that.
You ain't old fashioned at all, you're like wine, the older you get the better you get 😁 A special lady with a smart brain and precious body and a mythical spongy forehead 😬😬
Thanks, I'm more like aged whiskey today🥃🥃 lolol drinking and cleaning and cooking... Although probably won't even be able to eat the chicken I made cuz I made it way too spicy than what I can handle.. Still cooking like my family here 😔, they would enjoy it, I'll probably have to eat the leftovers from yesterday or the pork loin gonna make
Don't worry sponge, i can be you're whole family or at least i can eat as much as them 😂😂 How's you're mom and sisters, also daughters and scooby? Are they all good sponge? 😁
I must meet you're mother to see how did she bring an awesome rare lady like that and why she became so special 😊
When it comes to a role model and the wise things you say, i consider you as my big sister becane i don't have brothers and sisters, that's why i always end up agreeing with you on the majority of things, not because you have nearly the same views but also because you're my big sister when it comes to experiences but still i'll bite that naughty spongy forehead so i relax 🥴
Actually the weather here not too bad, but yeah last day off, so stuck close to home... Cleaned and cooked, OMG the chicken turned out yummy, haven't eaten yet but did try a bite just to see lolol I'll probably have that and the Spanish rice I made for dinner.. Save the pork loin roast I made for tomorrow
Nah but I'm an okay cook lol least won't have to cook this week, which is good cuz who wants to cook after busting ass for 10 hours... Yesterday went too fast, gotta head out in 30 to go to work😔 at least feel better than I've been feeling, and down 5 more pounds, even with all my food posts this weekend🤣
Don't bust you're ass off naughty sponge,. enough busting 🤣🤣 You made me hungry as much as you have posted all these meals being cooked and made me pay lots of money so i eat delicious food the past week 😁
STILL you're lucky to be far away so you don't see me daily at you're house sponge 😬
Really? What'd you eat? I had chicken and potatoes for dinner.. Tried to have a drink, but just so tired, it was a long, stressful day... 10 hours felt more like 20
All kinds of delicious meals 😋 When you're tired you won't enjoy you're food, you have to be comfy and happy than focus on you're eating so you get the pleasure from every bite 😜
Meh, why the hell you gatekeeping anyway? Jealous much?
In younger women it's more a power trip showing their "better self" to an ex or their detractors. In young mothers it's more empowerment to show they've "still got it". Likewise in others it's more to show a person or group, than to show off to everyone.
Which is why I tend to laugh at people who go on about it, as no doubt it's their ego which has been hurt more than they say.
I'm not jealous🤣🤣 I'm jealous because I'm trying to tell women they're more than boobs and titties, yeah okay lolol keep thinking that, don't mean it's true. And women can get attention without baring everything. I get way more attention than I want, just dressing normal, I don't seek attention to validate myself, so what exactly am I jealous of🤔 lol
Oh YAAAYYY!! CONGRATS🎉🎉🥂(well no alcohol for you little momma, but don't worry, I'll celebrate with a drink for you 🥃, well when I'm off work that is) Seriously though, so happy for you❤️🤗
@Apple1996 you clearly have no respect for you're husband or kids and on the top you don't have respect for yourself since you're last photo where you're nipple was visible and erected under you're shirt and you didn't give a f*ck...
@TonyMetal___86 everyone only noticed my nipples in that pic cause I'm attractive they wanted to say that I was attention seeking when I'm not. If I was fat and ugly nobody would have even noticed my nipples. So it's either hey you attention seeking hoe or ew your gross and ugly. There is no in between for women they can't just post a pic of themselves without getting a negative response
@Apple1996 believe me i had respect for you without seeing you when i 1st knew that you were a devoted housewife and loves family and kids...
Recently you're comments made me change my opinion about you, don't know if you were like that from the beginning or have changed with time for some reasons...
Personally if you didn't showed up like that, i wouldn't have given you a negative opinion, no one is perfect, if you're chubby so what? If you're ugly so what? Who cares! What matters to me above all these is that you're a good mother and a loving wife and you physical looks, well you ain't ugly be sure!
I respect every girl who appears in modest outfits and respects herself, what if she's a wife and a mother who have kids? She must think before she acts...
Anyways why do you care about how people think about you, just love yourself the way you are, make you're husband and kids happy cause that's what's important...
"Honestly it doesn't really matter to me if he's okay with it or not since It's my choice if I want to post those type of pics.". @Apple1996 That's really disrespectful. I'm sorry, but I have to call you out on that, my friend. This is your life partner we're talking about. And not only that, but he puts a roof over your head and pays your bills. And not only that, but he puts his life on the line to go to war and fight for all of us -- including you, your babies, and even the rest of your family. Please think about this.
@Jamie05rhs I cannot see how it is disrespectful. Any pictures out there of me is the real me like how I dress/look in real life. And I wouldn't be talking about my husband like that he is in the army for a different reason than you might think. For sure he puts a roof over my head cause if he didn't he'd be paying me child support for 3 kids... Anyways yeah I don't get the disrespect thing if that's just how I already look day to day when I'm out and others see me
@Apple1996 The point is you completely disregard his feelings on the matter. That's the disrespectful part. That's not how you treat someone you're in a relationship with.
@Jamie05rhs it's something we talk about. There is no ignoring anyone's feelings. I'm just saying that it doesn't matter what he thinks cause if he didn't like it then he could easily choose not to be in a relationship with me
@Apple1996 No, he can't just "choose not to be in a relationship with [you].". That's the most absurd thing I've ever heard. He already CHOSE you. And you have CHILDREN together.
@Apple1996 she can take photos of herself as much as she wants but if she wants to post a photo of herself than she must be wearing something modest and all her private parts are well covered...
Also i won't be with a woman who says that my opinion doesn't matters or does things against my will...
She can't live her life as if she's single cause marriage means that we are one and believes that the man is the head of the house, if she doesn't have respect for me and my views than she can't be with me...
There are some things in life which doesn't need to be told, such as appearing in non respectful outfits in front of people and strangers, i do not have to tell her that she can do this and that, a respectful lady knows how to act without having her husband telling her if she can or can't do it...
In you're case, it's not only about the husband cause you have kids too, are you happy if someday you're kids grow up to see that their mother cheap and showing herself in a disrespectful way to others?
Love you're body the way it is and do not wait acknowledgement from random strangers on the net...
If you're husband and kids loves you the way you are than this is more than enough...
Being given attention and feeling valued are basic human needs/instincts, we're pack beasts. Getting attention with your brains is extremely hard. You can be an award winning physicist with great accomplishments, but without charisma, no one gives a fuck. This is what works for them to be given what they need. However, we did evolve to realize there's 1000s of girls with bigger tits and a cuter face within 15km. That devalues their feeling of importance, as being "like others" is the exact opposite of the wanted result. So, they take to the illusion that there's "more to them" than their bodies. What? Let's not think about that and don't make them think about it.
Sex sales. The more followers you have on social media the more you get paid per pic on instagram, some of these ladies are escorts, strippers, dancers, wannabe trophy wives or wannabe celebs hoping to get their first dm from a photographer, director, or celebrity. Not gonna lie she looks good though whose the surgeon 😂. Get the coins girl get the coins ok
I think they see you as insecure because you are pressed over these women not wearing clothes. Me personally I don't care. If they look good salute girl let me know who thr surgeon is and y I ur workout routine 😆 🤣. I met a girl at a party who was so pretty. We chatted, she told me who did her cosmetic procedures, I went lol. I'm curious what's your issue what them not wearing clothes?
They love the attention. But hate the men. 😱🤣🤔 Why dress with so little and expect men not to look at your nudity? Stop being a prude and admit you dress that way to get attentoon
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I think this is something that women who didn't get fatherly love as children do. hunger for love and attention... The female body is precious. If a woman reveals her body to everyone, it shows that she is like a free lollipop. it has no value. but if a woman hides her body from other men, that makes a woman valuable. only a man who deserves that woman can see that body. I think a woman is valuable when she is covered.
I agree with you on this one, why do they show their body on the Internet
I just want a woman or girl who has a kind heart, I'm not worried about her shape,
size, eye color, hair color and I do like your username
Thanks!!
@Brainsbeforebeauty You're Welcome !!!
For an ego boost. I wouldn't do it, I'm too timid to post pics of my ass in a thong all over Instagram.
You don't need to do that to get attention or feel beautiful
Here's the thing many women don't understand: if you want to impress him, know your way around his beliefs and hobbies better than he does. Or at least well enough, that he sees you as a somewhat equal.
Earn his begrudging respect, and he'll be more open to wanting you as a life teammate, not merely as a glorified sex robot.
Any dude with an active account on DeviantArt can turn off the filters, and view all the ass they'd ever want.
But if you can redesign my custom superheroes I created for use in The Sims 4 better than I can, and can design near-1:1 scale replicas of real buildings with an accuracy and efficiency that I can't match, and can effortlessly mod into existence that one feature I had to use five other mods plus a week of Photoshop to pretend to have, you're practically a goddess in my eyes. Treat me like a prince after showing your skills, and I'll want to make you a queen.
Failing that, be good at something else I believe in. Give me reason to want you to succeed at it, even where I couldn't. Get me to respect your passion.
My Chinese ex never realized her cheerful demeanor, encouragement, and openness with me would cause me to develop feelings for her. She thought she was enjoying friendship with a foreigner, and advancing herself in her company by using me to learn US geography for sales faster.
But I admired her passion for selling those silly robots that spy on fish. I revered her dedication to her nephew's well-being. Her commitment to family. And while I initially helped her because it was a fun distraction from my GAD, I fell in love with her before I knew what hit me.
Which made it hard to let go.
@ObscuredBeyond What's GAD?
@Jamie05rhs : Generalized anxiety disorder. I had an issue back then. Had some very shitty coworkers, and a lot of family and money and health problems. Stressed out all the time, until it started driving me mad.
@ObscuredBeyond Oh, I see. Thanks for explaining, bro. And I'm sorry you went through that.
Women who post naked pictures of themselves all over the internet have low self-image and are looking for others to "approve" them. It doesn't work, but these women don't learn that.
Right!!
An inborn need for attention and validation of beauty. A need that's never sated but must be indulged daily. Some women may blame societal standards and pressure, but there's no going around that posting lewd or loosely dressed, overdone pictures on the internet is your active choice and your choice alone.
It's psychological. Most women want to be sexually desired by men. It's what makes the world reproduce. I find that the loneliest, most desperate, or most unfulfilled women exhibit themselves this way. Also, since the beginning of sin, some women make money from using their bodies this way. Instagram is just the new tool to do so.
So they can brag (I mean complain) about how many thirsty men are messaging them, lol.
They can post whatever they but of course men are going to comment/message you when you are basically naked in all of your pictures.
Right!!!
I also don't get why a woman posting a basically nude photo of herself that shows up on my Facebook feed (a picture I really didn't want to see) is empowering but if I were to send an unsolicited dick pick...
Exactly!! These men defending women who do this don't get those same women would call them creeps or pervs for doing the same thing
a man is automatically labeled a douchbag if he has a shirtless picture of himself as his profile picture 😂
Not by me lol especially if he has nice muscles🤣🤣 or he being thirsty for attention like these chicks are lolol
because they have been fed this perpetual delusion that having zero dignity somehow equals power they donβt get the truth that it actually removes all value they have as a partner.
Well said!!!
I think it's because they want a sense of belonging. I personally find they want a fan base of people following them to make them happy. Its a fact the more skin you show and the more prerogative the more people follow you it's sad in my opinion but to each their own
100% agree.
I also think everyone should try to see their body as special, because it is. I try to take care of mine and am waiting until marriage to show it all off. I think everyone should do that.
“although some women wear dental floss and call it a bikini🤣”
*laughing with you* 🤣🤣
Those things are trashier than simply being naked.
🤣🤣
You ain't old fashioned at all, you're like wine, the older you get the better you get 😁
A special lady with a smart brain and precious body and a mythical spongy forehead 😬😬
I agree 100% with everything you have said 😌
Thanks, I'm more like aged whiskey today🥃🥃 lolol drinking and cleaning and cooking... Although probably won't even be able to eat the chicken I made cuz I made it way too spicy than what I can handle.. Still cooking like my family here 😔, they would enjoy it, I'll probably have to eat the leftovers from yesterday or the pork loin gonna make
Don't worry sponge, i can be you're whole family or at least i can eat as much as them 😂😂
How's you're mom and sisters, also daughters and scooby? Are they all good sponge? 😁
I must meet you're mother to see how did she bring an awesome rare lady like that and why she became so special 😊
When it comes to a role model and the wise things you say, i consider you as my big sister becane i don't have brothers and sisters, that's why i always end up agreeing with you on the majority of things, not because you have nearly the same views but also because you're my big sister when it comes to experiences but still i'll bite that naughty spongy forehead so i relax 🥴
They're all good I guess
Stay home safe and warm spongy forehead 😌
Don't know if it's cold there but here it's too cold with heavy rain
Actually the weather here not too bad, but yeah last day off, so stuck close to home... Cleaned and cooked, OMG the chicken turned out yummy, haven't eaten yet but did try a bite just to see lolol I'll probably have that and the Spanish rice I made for dinner.. Save the pork loin roast I made for tomorrow
Well done master chef 😌
No master chef by any means lolol
Well yes you are 😁
Nah but I'm an okay cook lol least won't have to cook this week, which is good cuz who wants to cook after busting ass for 10 hours... Yesterday went too fast, gotta head out in 30 to go to work😔 at least feel better than I've been feeling, and down 5 more pounds, even with all my food posts this weekend🤣
Don't bust you're ass off naughty sponge,. enough busting 🤣🤣
You made me hungry as much as you have posted all these meals being cooked and made me pay lots of money so i eat delicious food the past week 😁
STILL you're lucky to be far away so you don't see me daily at you're house sponge 😬
Really? What'd you eat? I had chicken and potatoes for dinner.. Tried to have a drink, but just so tired, it was a long, stressful day... 10 hours felt more like 20
All kinds of delicious meals 😋
When you're tired you won't enjoy you're food, you have to be comfy and happy than focus on you're eating so you get the pleasure from every bite 😜
it gets them attention, and even money. while that really is a desperate way to get money and attention, it's still a way nonetheless.
Meh, why the hell you gatekeeping anyway? Jealous much?
In younger women it's more a power trip showing their "better self" to an ex or their detractors. In young mothers it's more empowerment to show they've "still got it". Likewise in others it's more to show a person or group, than to show off to everyone.
Which is why I tend to laugh at people who go on about it, as no doubt it's their ego which has been hurt more than they say.
I'm not jealous🤣🤣 I'm jealous because I'm trying to tell women they're more than boobs and titties, yeah okay lolol keep thinking that, don't mean it's true. And women can get attention without baring everything. I get way more attention than I want, just dressing normal, I don't seek attention to validate myself, so what exactly am I jealous of🤔 lol
@Brainsbeforebeauty Between me and you, I think your understanding of people in general intimidates those who are already terribly insecure.
@TommyMountainFigure maybe, but then that's their issue not mine... I can only be me, and hey, I like me lolol
@Brainsbeforebeauty I have no problems with it either and I like you too :)
@TommyMountainFigure aww thanks π€π€
Other than them being attention seekers... Why indeed?
Oh because they're proud of their body, 🙄 and obviously you have to be naked to show that 🤦🏼♀️🙄 lolol
@Brainsbeforebeauty
Of course! I never thought of it that way!! π€£
That's cuz that's a bs excuse🤣🤣
You can tell I have a figure just wearing leggings, a shirt and zip up sweater, 🤷🏼♀️
@Brainsbeforebeauty
But of course... I suppose you could also put it down to my pregnancy as well. π
You're pregnant?
@Brainsbeforebeauty
I was confirmed as being "6 weeks" pregnant as from last Monday (14th). with a possible "due" date of Nov. 8th.
As you can perhaps well imagine, we're all completely and utterly ecstatic here.
Oh YAAAYYY!! CONGRATS🎉🎉🥂(well no alcohol for you little momma, but don't worry, I'll celebrate with a drink for you 🥃, well when I'm off work that is) Seriously though, so happy for you❤️🤗
@Brainsbeforebeauty
Bless You and Thank You so very, very much indeed for all your love and kind wishes, it's so hugely appreciated. β€β€β€
I'm now going to try acquiring the taste of some Non Alcoholic Beverages!
Oh, and do feel completely free to drink my "quota", but please, no overdoing it... Thank You. π
Lolol okay, I'll just have one for me and one for you🤣🤗
They are confident with their bodies and want to show them off. Like if I had a better body I'd be showing it off like that too
Would your husband be okay with you posting naked puffs of yourself online?
*pics not puffs 🤦🏼♀️
Honestly it doesn't really matter to me if he's okay with it or not since It's my choice if I want to post those type of pics
@Apple1996 you clearly have no respect for you're husband or kids and on the top you don't have respect for yourself since you're last photo where you're nipple was visible and erected under you're shirt and you didn't give a f*ck...
I don't have respect for you anymore!
@TonyMetal___86 everyone only noticed my nipples in that pic cause I'm attractive they wanted to say that I was attention seeking when I'm not. If I was fat and ugly nobody would have even noticed my nipples.
So it's either hey you attention seeking hoe or ew your gross and ugly. There is no in between for women they can't just post a pic of themselves without getting a negative response
@Apple1996 believe me i had respect for you without seeing you when i 1st knew that you were a devoted housewife and loves family and kids...
Recently you're comments made me change my opinion about you, don't know if you were like that from the beginning or have changed with time for some reasons...
Personally if you didn't showed up like that, i wouldn't have given you a negative opinion, no one is perfect, if you're chubby so what? If you're ugly so what? Who cares! What matters to me above all these is that you're a good mother and a loving wife and you physical looks, well you ain't ugly be sure!
I respect every girl who appears in modest outfits and respects herself, what if she's a wife and a mother who have kids? She must think before she acts...
Anyways why do you care about how people think about you, just love yourself the way you are, make you're husband and kids happy cause that's what's important...
@Apple1996
Lmao... how can I miss her nipple pic. Lol. Where's the pic ? Don't bother about this oldies just a butt hurt. Ignored her.
@Playboy2424 the pic is long gone
@Apple1996
Okies... where I can see ya pic?
I'm your fan grab ya boobs π
"Honestly it doesn't really matter to me if he's okay with it or not since It's my choice if I want to post those type of pics.". @Apple1996 That's really disrespectful. I'm sorry, but I have to call you out on that, my friend. This is your life partner we're talking about. And not only that, but he puts a roof over your head and pays your bills. And not only that, but he puts his life on the line to go to war and fight for all of us -- including you, your babies, and even the rest of your family.
Please think about this.
@Jamie05rhs I cannot see how it is disrespectful. Any pictures out there of me is the real me like how I dress/look in real life. And I wouldn't be talking about my husband like that he is in the army for a different reason than you might think. For sure he puts a roof over my head cause if he didn't he'd be paying me child support for 3 kids... Anyways yeah I don't get the disrespect thing if that's just how I already look day to day when I'm out and others see me
@Apple1996 The point is you completely disregard his feelings on the matter. That's the disrespectful part. That's not how you treat someone you're in a relationship with.
@Jamie05rhs it's something we talk about. There is no ignoring anyone's feelings. I'm just saying that it doesn't matter what he thinks cause if he didn't like it then he could easily choose not to be in a relationship with me
@Jamie05rhs well said...
@TonyMetal___86 so what would you want your wife to do? Just never take pics?
@Apple1996 No, he can't just "choose not to be in a relationship with [you].". That's the most absurd thing I've ever heard. He already CHOSE you. And you have CHILDREN together.
@Apple1996 she can take photos of herself as much as she wants but if she wants to post a photo of herself than she must be wearing something modest and all her private parts are well covered...
Also i won't be with a woman who says that my opinion doesn't matters or does things against my will...
She can't live her life as if she's single cause marriage means that we are one and believes that the man is the head of the house, if she doesn't have respect for me and my views than she can't be with me...
There are some things in life which doesn't need to be told, such as appearing in non respectful outfits in front of people and strangers, i do not have to tell her that she can do this and that, a respectful lady knows how to act without having her husband telling her if she can or can't do it...
In you're case, it's not only about the husband cause you have kids too, are you happy if someday you're kids grow up to see that their mother cheap and showing herself in a disrespectful way to others?
Love you're body the way it is and do not wait acknowledgement from random strangers on the net...
If you're husband and kids loves you the way you are than this is more than enough...
Simps 😂
Being given attention and feeling valued are basic human needs/instincts, we're pack beasts.
Getting attention with your brains is extremely hard. You can be an award winning physicist with great accomplishments, but without charisma, no one gives a fuck.
This is what works for them to be given what they need.
However, we did evolve to realize there's 1000s of girls with bigger tits and a cuter face within 15km. That devalues their feeling of importance, as being "like others" is the exact opposite of the wanted result. So, they take to the illusion that there's "more to them" than their bodies. What? Let's not think about that and don't make them think about it.
😅😅
...
Right!! Lolol but guess they don't get there's "other" ways to get attention
They want attention from guys (and sometimes other girls)
They should realize There's other ways to get attention
They really should
Sex sales. The more followers you have on social media the more you get paid per pic on instagram, some of these ladies are escorts, strippers, dancers, wannabe trophy wives or wannabe celebs hoping to get their first dm from a photographer, director, or celebrity. Not gonna lie she looks good though whose the surgeon 😂. Get the coins girl get the coins ok
I think they see you as insecure because you are pressed over these women not wearing clothes. Me personally I don't care. If they look good salute girl let me know who thr surgeon is and y I ur workout routine 😆 🤣. I met a girl at a party who was so pretty. We chatted, she told me who did her cosmetic procedures, I went lol. I'm curious what's your issue what them not wearing clothes?
They love the attention. But hate the men. 😱🤣🤔 Why dress with so little and expect men not to look at your nudity? Stop being a prude and admit you dress that way to get attentoon
Hahaha right!!