Girls, why do women get breast augmentation surgery, then complain about men staring at their breasts?

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This seems like some kind of twisted mind game to me. If you go through the trouble to do all of this surgery, don't you expect attention? Wasn't that the point?

muscularbumblebee · Accepted Answer

I’m probably going to get hate for this but oh well it’s my opinion.. I agree with this sort of. I mean guys shouldn’t be staring obviously but as a Bisexual female if I saw a girl with big boobs and half of them showing I’ll naturally glance.. not obviously but come on it’s literally in your face!

Women should be able to wear what they want and not have to worry about stares I agree but but at the same time if you know you have big boobs either fake or natural expect a few looks if you’re going to wear a low cut top.. if it’s really small on the other hand I think it’s fine to show off. I mean it’s not double standards in my opinion as a small-boobed girl myself. Guys just don’t really look tbh unless there’s something to show

gabby100 · Accepted Answer

Funny, you should ask this. Yesterday got to together with some girl friends for a natter and a coffee.
This question was brought up , one of the girls , had , had it done. She said i did it for me to make me feel better. But all i get are guys eyeing me up. We all laughed, . What do you think would happen. Another one of the girls has quick big boobs, She said oh you get use to that, i have had that problem since school. Guys look at your boobs , your ass, legs up your shirt. At your age i would have though you would be use to it by now..

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

I don't agree with the women who say that it's not for the approval of others.

Scientifically we are social creature.

Factually : if these women lived in a world by themselves they would not feel the need to improve their appearance or need fashion and its competition against others...

Also, looking is everybody's right.. of course no need to do it for 4 minutes straight but , just take one good look or a few if you can'tbelieveyour eyes..
Some of these same women would look at a stranger's cute dog 🐕 or at a person wearing really cool ooutfit. None of their business? Yes but something doesn't have to be your business to simply observe it.

How tf else do people compliment without looking.. and we can look around and observe our surroundings , this is for safety...

Also women are often paranoid.., not because he stares in your direction means he is looking at you, get over yourself , sometimes people zone out, sometimes they look at something behind you. So if we stop assuming or being entitled, the world will be a better place

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

I understand your premise, particularly when she is wearing a low shirt (showing off the girls) she does want attention and staring is a normal human thing to do. If a guy, respectfully compliments her rack, or tells her she's really hot, and then moves on with his day (ie doesn't linger or try to grab her or assume negative things about her character) then I would put that in the realm of 'good attention.'

From the female perspective, I will say that, many guys hugely underestimate the extremes that the few bad apple men do to make a woman uncomfortable. In fact, some rotten guys like making women uncomfortable because it gives them a power trip. While it's not a thing most guys do, it's the complete lack of deterrent from bistander men, which makes women dislike all the men sitting there uselessly watching him harass her.

A simple stare here and there is normal, but I'm talking about the men who literally follow women for blocks or stare and rub their junk in front of her, or call her a slut from across the street. Some men tell themselves it's okay to get right up in a woman's personal space, or they try to touch her and that's the sort of attention women are proving to society is 'wrong' and not 'normal male behavior.'

People like attention. They like compliments. Someone acting like a perv and stalker isn't OK. I dont care if he or she wearing a low cut or tiny or no shirt. That's not how you treat people.

sage2021 · Answer

I agree with the asker of this question otherwise girls/women wouldn't wear such revealing clothes to show them off. Of course guys are going to stare at them! Sometimes they might stare trying to figure out if they are real or not. If you don't want guys to stare at them, then cover them up with some nice, non-revealing clothes. Why do you think Hooters restaurant is packed with guys, and the waitresses all have to have big boobs so they can get good tips, and the restaurant stays in business.

Nxtawm · Answer

I can’t say for all women but most do it for themselves which is a thing that has been said so many times but for some reason a lotta guys still can’t seem to comprehend that a women could do something solely for herself. When a girl gets breast reduction surgery, it’s mostly due to one of these issues, her backs hurts due to how big they are, it makes her insecure/she doesn’t like the stares, she doesn’t like how they sag, or she wants to fit clothes better. When a girl gets breast implants it’s mostly due to one of these reasons, she’s insecure, she doesn’t feel feminine enough, she thinks she’ll look better with bigger breasts, or crazy idea, she just wants bigger breasts.
For those who did want more attention since there always are a few, it’s the difference in the type of attention. I don't know if it makes sense but there’s a difference in people staring at you compared to only staring at your boobs. And there’s also the unwanted attention of creeps

Dinklex3 · Answer

What? Lol.
Because we want to.
If we get a tummy tuck after pregnancy does that mean we want people to stare at our tummy? If we get chin reduction does that mean we men to stare at our chin?
Us getting something done does not mean we want you to stare or want some random man's attention.
I plan on getting a breast lift whenever they start to sag. It's not to "get men to stare". The point is because I AM unhappy with a certain part of my body and I'd like to get it fixed. I'm not doing it for your attention. At that point I'll be married. I'm sure my husband would be against it, but I'm doing it for MYSELF and would get it done regardless of his input. NOT because I want men to stare at me when i get it done. Doubt they'd even be able to tell.
Most ridiculous and shallow minded comment I've read today so far.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Because they are idiotic hypocrites. If no one looked they would be bitching about having spent money on boobs because no one notices them. To protect their vanity they have to act perved on when men look, but in reality they love it! LOOK AT THIS GUYS!!

imsocool1806 · Answer

honestly i think each women has a specific breast size that fits their body - and getting surgery to make them bigger or smaller in face would make them look abnormal/feel horrible - I don't know im just a small girl in a big world lol - i agree with you tho but i think a lot of girls just don't see that when they go to get it - they refuse to take responsibility for this problem - it's not you guys' fault but also some people can be super disrespectful so i get why women get mad at it

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Yeah women totally can't get breast augmentation for themselves it just HAS to be for attention because we would DEFINITELY put ourselves through pain for attention from pathetic men who think it's okay to blatantly stare and oogle over a strangers body parts

Anonymous · Answer

Ok. This will be a shock for you but you need to know the truth. Girls do whatever the heck they want to their bodies. Not for please people but to please themselves. They don't wake up and think "um I'm going to have this serious surgery to please people but ten I'm going to be mad because they are staring! Yay! I'm so happy, gonna grab a latte"
It's insecurities problems or they just want bigger boobs just for THEM.

Msputiton · Answer

They didn't get it because they want men to stare. They did it because they were insecure about them. Same with a guy who gets penis surgery.  It so when he goes to use it he feels less insecure

dustybiker · Answer

Decent men look, they just learned to look without being noticed or be an a-s about it, and don’t blame others for their problems.

Selena1987 · Answer

I wear a beautiful T-shirt because I myself like it or I want a special person see it, all the people around me in public aren’t important
I did it for myself and for that special person
I’ll do breast augmentation for that reasons too

annabananna · Answer

Staring at someone’s privates is bad manners. I would never stare at a guys junk if he happens to be hard in public.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Because they do it for themselves not for attention from guys

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Paleo diets or anti depressants or birth control can all make your breasts bigger

vvsoberanes0724 · Answer

Ok look here this is what I think we get them maybe because of the internet and it makes us feel flat and just bad about ourself's that doesn't mean we want people to stare at them so just don't look and it's just rude.

Subarugirl · Answer

Why do women exist at all of not to be ogled and objectified by men...

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

nobodys gonna get mad at a quick glance, but when ur staring like a creep or looking back multiple times ur js a creep.

736_switch_blade · Answer

Nothing like naturals

UpdateGloomyNights_ · Answer

because we love our own body

Anonymous · Answer

It’s rude to stare, period.

siseñor · Answer

why do you exist?

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