I’m wondering if I said anything wrong again or offensive (my friend is talking to another guy and crushing on him while having a boyfriend)?

[xJayleenx]

So my friend a while back told me that she lost her virginity to her boyfriend in the woods and that she wanted to have a baby with him and then today she told me that she’s talking to another guy (while she’s still dating her boyfriend) and has feelings for this new guy that she’s been talking to for two months and she told me that she did not lose her virginity to her boyfriend and that she was just lying to look cool so I texted her saying” You told me you lost it in the woods and that you didn’t use protection Girl but then why did you post pictures of the park later that day 😂😂Like that proves that you were there And you told me you wanted a baby with him? But why 😭Girl don’t lie to me I might not be able to believe you again or when you’re serious 😭Well at least you’ll have no regrets now I don't know why you don’t break up with him you don’t love him “ after that I just send her a weird picture of us as birds lol. I guess I must’ve said something to piss her off because she deleted her messages and when I asked her what she erased she said that she didn’t want to start an argument again. I wonder did I say something wrong? The crying emoji thing was a joke I never use that literally. I’ve been trying to advise her to leave her boyfriend in a nice way but she doesn’t listen

[IMuser]

Just wondering, instead of being worried about whether they are hurt or not, you should be thinking about being in contact with them or not. If someone can lie about a relationship where they are supposedly in love, what about you? You are just a friend

[HighlyVolatile]

That sounds like a lot of drama to me that you could probably benefit without.

[xJayleenx]

Bro I am so confused right now lol

[xJayleenx]

Did I mess up or say anything stupid? I was literally just being myself that’s how I talk. She deleted her messaged though and apologized for lying but I don't know why she seemed to have gotten pissed off

[HighlyVolatile]

I don't see anything wrong with what you said. It's a perfectly reasonable thing to ask.

[xJayleenx]

After erasing what she wrote she apologized for lying and just kept talking to me normally asking about my pets. She was the friend that cursed me out and I blocked but I decided to give her a chance

[HighlyVolatile]

I see! Maybe just keep it light and casual with her if she's so dramatic like this. At the same time, you have to have some boundaries of your own. You have to be willing to lose in order to win.

[xJayleenx]

Ok thank youu

[ohshee]

Well that kind of happen sometimes but no matter what you said is still her choice and what she does you can either be a positive influence you can talk to her until you're blue in the face but she's going to do what she wants to do I mean I'm sure you've been through that before

[LovingLoverReturned]

You merely suggested to her. You never insulted her. You told her how you felt after she lied. Nothing wrong you said.. but it is best not to bring it up.. some people are offended by anything but she isn't necessarily offended... just possible she doesn't want to talk about it

[Sevenpointfive]

most girls have more than one guy they are dating. she's not married. you don't need to agree with her lifestyle to be her friend, but if your moral compass is telling you to let her go because you can't/don't/won't approve of her then listen to it

[xJayleenx]

Most? What has the world come to

[Sevenpointfive]

disobedience, immorality, dysfunctionality... lot's of things don't make sense anymore

[TheMajesticKing777]

You are basically talking to a brick wall, you go down your path and let her go down hers, if she falls in a hole, you said what you had too at the moment

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Sometimes no matter what we do, we can't help our friends, sometimes they got to find out the hard way and experience is the best teacher.

[SnakeBoop]

so you're friends with a liar? sounds fun

[xJayleenx]

Girl I don't know what to do lol I don't know if this is friendship weve never hung out

[SnakeBoop]

A liar shouldn't be someone you'd want a friendship with in any case

[xJayleenx]

She just lied today she hasn’t lied to me before that I have no idea what’s going on. Did i say something wrong?

[Bklynbadboy12]

She just a liar and a cheater