Girls, if you like a guy, but you find out he is taken and faithful, does it make you try harder with him or just forget about him?

[DonkeyDan]

So this is the scenario, you find a guy hot and you'd like him a whole lot, but he tells you that he has a partner and is faithful to her.

Does that make it a challenge for you to get him or does it, make you respect him and forget about it?

The question really is if he tells you he is faithful to his partner, does that somehow make you want him nore bexause you can't have him?

Makes it a challenge

Males me forget about him

Something else

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It's nice to see that people still have a moral compass.

[dustybiker]

I’m fiercely loyal when it comes to love. Learning someone was taken flipped my respect switch in me. Taken is taken. When they still flirted, as if interested, and not just friendly, that just became a huge red flag. First lessons in if they would cheat with me, they could just as easily cheat on me too. Who wants a person like that? I hadn’t.

[PrettyPriya]

I move on. I'm not the type that is going to complicate someone's relationship. I think that comes from me thinking about if someone did the same to me and how I would feel about it.

I just walk away from it. Doesn't mean I wouldn't think about this person for a bit, but I would never dream of acting on it.

[Chlo3_2001]

Leave it. Of he leaves for another girl or cheats, he is understanding faithful and will do the same to you, how you get a guy is how he leaves you. I also respect the values of a relationship. I know some couples are polygamous and welcome that thing but they're not things for me. I'm very much monogamous. Best to leave it and move on. Respect their faithful relationship.

[Genie23]

It's quite funny how my interest in him disappears suddenly when I find out that he's taken and then I start thinking of him as my brother. So, even if he gets single again in future, I can't ever go back to liking him again. 😐

[Harleigh90]

🤦‍♀️ Would depend on the guy. How our communication was with eachother, how their relationship was, connection. Lots of things would come into consideration. Not so much on being persistent with him, just knowing and respecting the situation.

[midnightmoon05]

I respect my marriage/relationship, as well as others…
I always communicate and include their spouse if we ever become friends.
I think women who do not respect themselves will do the same to others.

[Daniela1982]

What kind of bitch would still pursue a guy after she found out he was taken? If a guy would cheat on his SO for you he would probably cheat on you sometime in the future too. Come to think about it, maybe you deserve each other.

[whereismyjohnny]

I'll forget about him? There is no way I'll get in way of someone's relationship/try to ruin it.

[jennifer_bloom]

Some people believe you have to date a married or taken person to find an attractive person but I know woman who marry for the first time in their 50s to amazing people that are single.

[Tiptoetamm]

I respect relationships so I wouldn't go for him. But it wouldn't stop me from looking and thinking lol

[Squaresquirrel]

I will move on but secretly wish they break up. I know, I know!

[melanieeeB]

If someone is taken, he ist not available and I will let him in peace and fuck off lol