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Men, how would you feel if you’re woman was pregnant and got an abortion without telling you? (Page 2)
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I'd be annoyed for two reasons. Firstly due to her health issues our sex life is non existent at the mo. I'd wonder if it were mine. Secondly having had two kids in short time we've both said we didn't want any more, so no reason for her to not tell me
This entire anti abortion vs pro abortion debate is endless in politics, but in my mind, starting from today, ots on both people who have sex to be ready for a baby before dipping it in.
I know there are rape victims as well and I do not know any cures for their sadistic behavior. In those cases, it should be 100% woman's choice to choose the abortion. All other cases of consented sex, there should not be any accidental pregnancies.
The laws dictate it. It's fantastic now that it's moving to State laws. Don't like what the laws are? You move. Plus, you do the right thing. You wrap the sausage in rubber. Oh my, she's on the pill, plus you wrapped the sausage? Still got pregerz. What is that? You got the vasectomy? She will do what she does. If she wants to keep it? With libtardism 101, you now have the right to not pay child support. Everyone now indeed is god. Don't like it? Skip town. Have some fucking responsibility.
Without telling me? I would be livid. That would be the end of that relationship. That's a huge think to not talk to me about and I would never be able to trust her after that.
*thing. Not think.
I'd ask her who she is sleeping with besides me. Due to the fact that I'm very serious about safe sex.
She would get dumped im not for or agaisnt abortion but you can't just go getting rid of the sperm when we are finacially able to take care of it when in the realtionship.
I’d be pretty pissed that was after all my kid that you just had killed.
it honestly might be grounds for my leaving her to be honest.
If she did that and I discovered it, she would instantly be my ex.
Simple,
I've always been very old school minded & the women I've been with knew that. So it's like asking how would a guy who lived 2k years ago react to a woman sticking a sword in his son's belly. It ain't that complicated.
That said, I was also not the type to ever get a woman pregnant unplanned.
Angry/disappointed I would want to know why she felt the need to hide it when it is a huge decision in a relationship. There are thousands of people wanting to adopt.
Crushed & very resentful. Most of all I'd be disappointed in myself for having such horrible judgement in a partner. I'd NEVER love again after something like this:(
I equate abortion to be no better than a deadbeat dad who leaves his kids behind. I would hope I was smart enough to avoid those types of girls.
Outside those extremely hard decisions that come up from child birth that is.
It wouldn't be cool at all! Very upset that I had no say in or about OUR child.
Answer to these questions are very difficult and we may only be able to respond when we would be in this situation. Understanding the feelings of a father who has lost his child is not easy, also understanding the problems of a woman who caused her to prefer to have an abortion.
That’s a relationship killer right there on the spot. That can’t be ever forgotten good
Take out the good that was voice command error I was talking to somebody else
I would feel cheated, and disappointed, that she didn't include me in the discussion to have an abortion or not, and also, since she chose to have the abortion, why couldn't I be there.
I honestly wouldn't mind because I don't want to have children not yet at least but I also feel betrayed that she didn't trust me enough to tell me. I honestly felt like the relationship wouldn't last if it's gotta be built on secrets like that.
I would leave her. You can't have a relationship without trust.
Communication. Don't keep that kind of thing a secret, but don't let someone else control what happens in your own womb.