Your point at the end is correct. I personally don't think parents should dictate what kids should wear, unless it's giving lessons on etiquette for a big dinner, business meetings, etc. There are people who find all of that stuff very important or impressive, so it's good to know, but if it's not required in the moment, then it shouldn't really matter.
Parents want what they think is best for their children. It's their own perception of what is best and not an actual understanding of the culture their kids are hanging around. Going even deeper some parents want their kids to find someone that is highly respectable in the community, well off or rich, and they feel that if their kids dress nice, they will have a better chance at attracting those types of people. Again, it's just their preconceived notion of what is best for the kids and not what actually is best.
I will say this though, time moves extremely fast. I wouldn't think about it too much, unless it's truly affecting your mental health, health, in general. Then I would be polite in asking them to chill for a bit, and I say that because people don't live forever. it's not worth it to hold small things against people we care about, or let the small things rule our perceptions of them. I truly hope you find a comfortable balance. I think everyone has a clothes phase with their parents and what they should or shouldn't wear lol. It's normal. Take care!!
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