Ladies, if you catch your boyfriend crying alone would you consider that feminine and break up with him?

[Anonymous]

saw this post on fb she got hella back clash

[Goth_cat]

Most of us dont really consider the word 'feminine ' as a bad characteristic. Moreover crying is natural thing done by both women and men , there's nothing feminine or masculine about it as such. If i caught my boyfriend crying id simply be there for him , no judgments. At the end of the day he deserves better than a woman who's too immature to see any sense vulnerability in another individual.

[whereismyjohnny]

I wouldn’t consider it feminine. I hate the fact that guys aren’t “allowed” to cry or if they do they are considered weak and not manly enough when it’s a completely normal thing. Having said that, I wouldn’t break up with him if I saw him crying. Instead, I would try to talk to him and find out what upset him and comfort him.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Jesus fuck I'm glad she left the guy so he can find someone who will treat him right. She sounds like a fuckin' nightmare.

I'd be in that car listening to every story and getting us ice cream on the way home. His favourite flavour. My treat. And whatever he wants - if it's homecooked, I got 'im. If it's take out, I got 'im.

It's important to me to support my partners when they need it - especially if they're going through a loss.

[1GoldTwins]

I would try to listen to him. I want to know why he's crying. It's a pity he didn't come to me for comfort.

[_deeznuts]

Crying shouldn't be considered feminine at all, and I would never get angry at them or break off the relationship for crying.