Guys, What can make a woman cool or extraordinary in your eyes?

[Anonymous]

Will it be how she dresses?

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How she behaves?

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What she does?

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The things she says?

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Or what else? But in your opinion what separates a woman from the REST?

[Shamalien]

She acts completely the opposite of all the dumb sluts you see on tv and in the media.

…whom all women are trained to imitate from a young age…

[Fireguy17]

Being independent, a sense of humor, rides a motorcycle, likes racing, great smile, awesome eyes.

[BullShark]

In my opinion, traits and hobbies not other girls have. Personally speaking, my biggest heartthrob are tomboys. Basically girls who work out and maintain themselves, and like playing games (not playing games with your heart, like actual physical games). Girls who can take a joke and have a sense of humor themselves, but also know when to pull back and not push it.

If she's a gamer, that's a bonus. And no, I'm not talking about those e-thots aka Twitch gamer girls who only exist because their fanbase exists of thirsty simps and most of whom can't play games for the life of them. I'm talking about girls who like playing video games because they like to, not to show off or impress someone, and are genuinely good at it too.

The only girl I knew who had these traits was a long time ago when I was still in high school and unfortunately, lacked A LOT of the social skills I have now. We would play Need For Speed or Tekken for hours, challenging each other, and she'd keep dropping hints from time to time as well, but as I said, I lacked social skills and was basically oblivious on how to respond to her advances at the time. By the time I realized and had worked up the courage, high school was already over and she was already dating someone in college abroad. Now they're both married and living together in New York. Sucks to be me, huh?

[Anonymous]

I think it's a mixture of all of the above and more. She can start off by being unique and confident. Full of positivity and life. Mental strength. A strong moral compass. Funny. Quirky. Creative. Compassionate. Selfless. An infectious smile. Loyal. Nurturing. Brave. Spontaneous.
Needless to say there are many ways a woman can be Extraordinary in a man's eyes. But having a good mixture of at least some of the qualities mentioned above would set a woman apart from the pack. Most people are so wrapped in social media and putting on a front for what their life is really like and trying to get those "likes". I think just being present in the moment is an extraordinary quality. Living for those that matter most and being true to yourself. Those are extraordinary qualities. Standing up for what's right, putting others needs in front of your own. Actually listening and having good conversation skills. All extraordinary. Not being superficial or materialistic. Being willing to have new experiences. Being willing to learn. Having humility and admitting when you're wrong. I could go on and on but I think you get the point.

[Datboi65]

How you carry your self. Two things I absolutely rate in a woman:

1) Humility.

2) Modesty.

If you have these 2 qualities, you stand out. The reason as to why is because women are catered to nowadays and they all think they are 9s and 10s. There's nothing wrong with being a confident woman, but you need to be humble enough to not think that other people are beneath you and that you can get away with anything. Modesty is very straightforward, it just means you don't dress in a revealing way to seek attention and validation.

I can think of a lot more, but I don't want to bombard you with details, so I would say for now you should think about these 2 qualities.

I hope this helps.

[Bricealan]

My Yoga instructors are the absolutely the COOLEST AND MOST EXTRAORDINARY.

One is a 'knockout' has a body that women die to have, she is a violin and cello professional, and also teaches those instruments, plus playing in an orchestra. She is a single mother and balances her work and her childcare in a way that stuns me.

The other instructor is 'stunning' and she is an RN and works at Hoag Hospital. She is extraordinary in every aspect of her life that I can see, and I wish that I had a partner like one of these to wonderful women.

[sepehril]

First thing a man notice in a woman is their appearance.

Some guys like slim girls like bikini models , some guys like more curvy. So you just can attract one of these two groups.

So if they like your appearance it's just the first step. It's like when you decide to enter one room except 100000 others.

Then the most important thing for a guy is to know the girl is like her back and stay with him for ever. and girls who don't care for the guy and wants the relationship for money or just want too look more successful than their other girl friends will not have a good relationship, because the guy can sense it and then everything is done.

If i like a girl who I'm sure she like me back because of me and it's not for money or anything like that , i do anything to be with her for ever and she will do it too.

[hahahmm]

The most valuable thing a woman can give a man is loyalty. And yet that is the last thing modern women want to give. Everything else a woman can give, he can get from elsewhere. Some women play this game of having 50 boyfriends (either at once or over time) but at the end of it all she will find out that men don't take her seriously because she has nothing worth taking seriously.

Of course both men & women have to be very careful who they take seriously & who they give their time to but younger people tend not to really understand the value of time so...

For those who believe in more traditional ways I wrote a bunch of my takes you may find interesting.

[Lionman95]

For me a woman is extraordinary when she gives me the feeling that she has an open heart for other people and really wants to get to know me or other people

I like woman that are different from guys and have their own views and interests. I prefer women that don't try to impress me and prove that they are equal.

I prefer women that show feminine traits because I feel like I'm surrounded by women that they try to look like guys.

Therefore a woman is extraordinary when she knows that she's different and still is comfortable in her body. That doesn't mean that she has to be truly so but I don't like it if people are completely uncomfortable because they make me uncomfortable as well.

[Hairylegs222]

Some women impress me with their looks... Everything else it's a hit or miss. Unfortunately a lot more misses. I've never been impressed by a woman's personality, her actions, behavior, etc in my life. Always disappoints me.

What would impress me would be... she's hardly in a bad mood. Is still mature when she gets very emotional or upset. Is not afraid to be direct and says what she wants. Confident in her body and isn't annoyingly insecure with her boobs, face, etc. Not a hypocrite. Sweet most of the time to everyone, especially her man. Has a job, lol I'm not picky on what she does. She isn't a bitch during her pms period stuff. There's more but that's enough lol.

[MrCon10t]

An act of genuine kindness. So many women these days look really good, trying their absolute best to be. But so many focus on youthful beauty that will be gone soon. They wear 6 kinds of makeup and look entirely different without it. But when a woman does something truly, selflessly kind, I can’t help but be attracted. I think a woman who demonstrates a real capacity for compassion is really cool.

[DoctorSex]

Mastering the three disciplines of the feminine is at the core of the skillset every woman should know;

1. The art of nurturing

2. The art of Love

3. The art of Nutrition

These three disciplines are fundamental for attracting a masculine man.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[Guy13]

Graciousness is foremost. If you want a clear and simple answer to this question. If you want to see what men were intelligently designed for? If you want to end the incessant pontificating in the form of seeking then Search Proverbs Wife and there you go. It is written for each of us as in what to seek and what traits define Extraordinary Woman. Best :-)

[Wubs3000]

Be yourself don't try to be like other people to fit in to what you think most people will see as cool. If you have a strong personality, are confident, dress how YOU want, and just act like yourself and be confident in yourself, that will attract guys.

[Bmories99]

For me first its her personality and how she interacts with others. Dress plays a role I look at how conservative does she dress. How much make up does she wear. Then what interests her. Can she form her own opinion or does she just recall what's she's learned. These are the things that set a woman apart In my mind.

[MysticDevice]

When she doesn't care what anyone thinks of her. Not out of apathy but out of happiness or confidence. If she thinks for herself and doesn't't just take something at face value.

Being genuinely sweet and wholesome

Being super nerdy and dorky. Cause no one would ever pretend to be like that im an effort to attract anyone so when I see that I know she's totally genuine and not fake or stuck-up.

[Keepitreal007]

Wow, loaded question. Her personality is key. She had to be able to laugh and have a good time. Not take things seriously. But what takes it to the extraordinary level is being selfless. Always looking at how she can better our relationship in all areas. And yes, the man needs that same behavior. If your both selfless than there’s nothing you can’t accomplish together.

[bamesjond0069]

All of them but you basically put up the worst examples of things that would make a woman seem shitty.

Dress feminine. Behave feminine. Knowing how to shoot would be just fine though but isn't going to make me want her romantically. Saying probably anything from mean girls would be bad.

[HighValue]

Conservative morals, a good past, trustworthy, loyal, doesn't change her opinions every day based on whoever happens to be present for the current conversation.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

The one quality she must have is to be respectful, then humble and then be able to handle most of the situations.

Adaptive. Not to belittle people in general. Be respectful.

[ShadezMcgee]

How she behaves and if she follows through on her actions, in this case she says she will do something and then does it.

[Juxtapose]

Loyalty that will last even when she thinks she can "upgrade" to a better prospect.

Don't think us guys don't notice that you have guys already lined up when you dump us!

[Therisinghero12]

Someone who is adaptable enough to hang with and hold a good conversation with anyone about anything. Met someone like that once, never forgot them, I hope one day i have those social skills lmao

[Badboy132]

No social media or less than 100 followers or 100 pictures

[Wraven]

Being who they are without a guys perception, opinion, or suggestion for them to be anything that they are not.

[BHooper]

Her personality for sure. The girl I like I would never usually go for. But since I've gotten to know her more, she become super attractive to me and I find her extraordinary.

[chicosuave]

if she is nice and outgoing and doesn't take things to seriously.

[maximumpower]

Extraordinary? First and foremost - Responsible and independent. If not that, then she's just ordinary - irresponsible and dependent. It may sound harsh but it's true.

[FilmGuy93]

Good storyteller, interesting hobbies; things like that.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

At this point, being a millennial pretty much disqualifies women from being cool it potential relationship partners to me.

[Staximus]

I'm 45, can I answer this question without you getting all fucked off about it?

[Staximus]

When she can think for herself, is honest, a good person, has a kind heart

[Lycanthropic]

When she tells me she doesn't have Instagram or TikTok. Keeper right there.