Do you agree with this video that if you ask women any of these 5 questions on a dating app she will ghost you?

[Anonymous]

The 5 questions are:

1. How was your weekend?

2. Can you tell me a little bit about yourself?

3. Would you like to talk offsite/what is your phone number?

4. What are you doing today?

5. Are you available for a date this weekened?

Yes

No

[Guy13]

Yes. Specific questions with action answers for clear decision making is required. Open ended questions fail. People are lazy…

[TheSpaceGnome]

Women who scoff at/ghost over any of those but 5, aren't even worth dating,

[Middleman]

Only people who have low self-esteem would ghost some of these questions. 1 & 2 are quite normal questions and I myself have asked question 3 & 5 a few times before. As for question 4, for someone who's trying to help break the ice (in getting to know someone the first time round), a better line would be 'So what are you to?'.

The trouble with dating these days (that I see) is most people only care how they look on the app or IG or what stuff they've posted on the app instead of dealing with some of the more important stuff which is their actual physical life and relationships (which they've seemed to have forgotten). I've seen so many young couples or friends whip out their phone at the restaurant the moment they stop having things to talk about (or so it seems) and just stare at the phone. If you were going to do that you might as well have done that at home instead and not come out. The whole idea of getting out socialising is to enjoy each others company in the presence of each other during the moment it allows. So try to put the phone away.

[APrettyLittleLady87]

1. How was your weekend? > nothing wrong with

2. Can you tell me a little bit about yourself? > nothing wrong with

3. Would you like to talk offsite/what is your phone number? > what for. It is logical to expect whoever asks for this to be shady as you're on a dating app... use it.

4. What are you doing today? > nothing wrong with

5. Are you available for a date this weekend? > If someone asked me this after first connecting I'd laugh as it shows a lack of consideration for others.

[TheSpaceGnome]

5 I get why thats bad, but 3.. you do realize that most dating sites/apps limit communication/connections between users behind paywalls and horrid filtering mechanics right?

Posting another method of communication in a message is a surefire way to not miss out on someone who you think is a catch. It's the smart choice, and to see it as "shady" is just absurd (and outright dumb tbh).

[APrettyLittleLady87]

@TheSpaceGnome "behind paywalls and horrid filtering mechanics right?" those exist for a reason. I've been on eharmony for a year now just for the heck of it. Would you like to know how many times I've gotten notifications about members being banned by eharmony for their harmful antics including trying to embezzle money (the last one included a warning don't send people money).

[TheSpaceGnome]

Meh, I'd rather manually avoid bots and scammers than deal with communication restrictions and paywalls. They basically make the sites unusable.

[APrettyLittleLady87]

@TheSpaceGnome And most guys, as the video says, want a phone to send dick pictures as they're losers who can't land one at the bar.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Sorry, but only losers go to bars xD

Women who drink alcohol at all, aren't worth my time.

Plus hitting on strangers a person knows nothing about, is for retards.

Better off meeting someone online while gaming or on a completely free social/dating site, at least then I can filter for shared interests and talk to them before meeting.

Also most guys have a phone for, you know, calling people.

[ChrisMaster69]

Number 3 is the killer, who would ask that?

it’s an app to learn about someone and let things develop, you do not come out with shit like that.

number 5 is just desperate.

From that 3 and 5 are definite reasons for anyone to walk and ignore the person.

Anyone not realising that will happen with 3 and 5 deserves it.

[MCheetah]

1. How was your weekend? - No.

2. Can you tell me a little bit about yourself? - Maybe.

3. Would you like to talk offsite/what is your phone number? - No.

4. What are you doing today? - No.

5. Are you available for a date this weekend? - Maybe.

So, option B.

[Wubs3000]

if these are the first forms of contact then 3 4 and 5 will get you ghosted. If you have talked a bit before then they are all fine except maybe 4 which is weird wording. Just rephrase it like, "How is your day going did you do anything?"

[Anonymous]

1, 2 and 4 demonstrate a profound lack of conversational skills, so not terribly surprising you're not getting good results with them.

3 is good. If you're not getting a response to it, you have a girl who isn't interested or a profile that isn't real.

5 is an excellent question, you're better off asking something specific (hey, would you be interested in meeting up for drinks at XYZ bar at ABC time on Thursday?)

[Asker]

simp and white knight. Just lol at even assuming this is me.

[Subarugirl]

No, but if I were on a dating app and someone started asking me for personal information like my phone number right off the bat, I would not continue conversing with said person.

[Sour-rose]

Number 3 will do it for any lady over 18. The rest... not really? If you ask me what I'm doing, I'll say what it is. Buuut if the conversation goes dry as a skinny white girl's butthole, I'm done.

[CA4444]

Nothing wrong with any of these questions - if she’s interested in you she will respond

best ‘pick up’ lines are jokes, bringing an interesting topic can be good also

[Anonymous]

1, 2 and 5 sounded like a joke lol

I don't see any problem with those questions.

Just that if it's your first time dropping in a message, number 3 can scare some girls off.

Now, 4 and the rest are pretty okay, in my opinion

[jhl_x]

Her interest in the conversation is determined by what she sees in your profile, specially compared to all the others.

[bakajana]

I would respond to it but for the 3 and 5 I should have to get to know that person well and have talked with them for some time before anything

[Valso]

I've never used dating apps/websites. Never needed them, really. The only app I've ever used was mIRC in early 2000's. Back then mIRC was as popular as Fascistbook nowadays.

[Part2603]

Believe it or not, I exchanged phone numbers with a girl on here. Terrible idea.

[John_Doesnt]

How big are your jugs?

Are your jugs real?

[TheFlak38]

I ask her if she likes anal and get blocked instead of ghosted.

[BrandonMarvel]

Yes because the vagueness of the wording of all of these questions

[Sarahplus2]

these 5 questions are stupid.

[MarilynMonroe20]

I respond to all these questions.

[anon1903]

This are general questions