Are you OK with summer sexy outfit admirers from a distance, but uncomfortable when it gets up close and personal?

[laurieluvsit]

In other words, when guys or girls are looking from a distance and you maybe don't really notice or pay attention to it much, it's OK, but when they are near and it seems like they are staring at you because you are a buff guy or a nice looking girl with a sexy summer outfit on, are you more uneasy about it close up then when they are more distant admirers?

... am I making any sense? Oh well, I'm trying anyway.

Chime in if you can, please!

Yes, I understand you and do not pay much attention to those that are far away but am much more conscience of someone staring at me who is closer up.

No, I don't care who stares whether they are near or far

Laurie, you are definitely running out of questions again but at least you got out of the sex category for once... lol

OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Summer Sexy Stare-Down" Survey

[DoctorSex]

In my experience with high value men, including myself. Dressing in those types of sexually provocative styles will only get you the attention of the wrong type of men.
The method to which wise and high value men court women, seems to be an absolute enigma to modern women. It's a unspoken tragedy.

I work in central London where all the diplomats live, very close to the Israeli embassy in Chelsea and Kensington. I see the type of women that go in and out of the houses around there. They don't dress any of these women.

They tend to dress extremely modestly. Like a throwback from an ancient time. Their garments are very simple but the accessories they wear look like they were bought with bars of gold. They are just classy from head to toe and so unassuming. They don't attract attention to themselves and that's exactly how they gain my attention. (Visual attention, not lustful, just appreciation of class when I see it.)

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Lliam]

A big NO to 'C', Laurie. Keep 'em coming. 😁

As a guy, I never minded being checked out by girls. It's flattering and it gave me romantic options.

I don't understand why a girl would feel uncomfortable being appreciated. After all, she dressed to look pretty. But I can understand why being stared at like a piece of meat by a salivating wolf might feel creepy.

I like women who have more bounce in their step and sway in their hips when polite appreciation lets them know that they look good.

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, it is the wolf types that are not so much fun.

It can get scary actually as if they would like to find some bushes they can drag you behind.

[CA4444]

Yeah they look at you like if you were a piece of meat it’s actually scary…. ☹️ Barely has anything to do with what you’re wearing though they seem to see through your clothes lol x ray vision…

[Lliam]

@CA4444 and laurieluvsit, I totally get it.

Tall and tan and young and lovely,
The girl from Ipanema goes walking
And when she passes,
each one she passes goes, “Aaah…”

Why can't people just think "Aaah" instead of acting like jerks?

[laurieluvsit]

@ca4444
Yes! ... you get it too! :)

@Lliam
Can I give your Gold Star to someone who isn't a Master yet?

You're just hogging them all up with your great opinions! ... lol

[Lliam]

@laurieluvsit. By all means, mademoiselle. It's my honor. I insist. 😄

[laurieluvsit]

@Lliam
Wow, there is some chivalry left in the US... lol

[Lliam]

Laurie! You went ahead and selected me for an MHO anyway. I'm honored, m'lady. :-)

[laurieluvsit]

Of course :)

[susie22]

As long as it's "look but don't touch", I'm OK with it. I guess I'd say if I didn't want to be noticed I wouldn't wear anything noticeable or sexy.

[laurieluvsit]

Makes sense :)

[susie22]

I think it does. I hear a lot of girls that go out in some really revealing outfits, then bitch about guys staring at them. Not really sure about their thought process there, but it seems like there's a really simple solution if you don't enjoy the attention.

[laurieluvsit]

Agreed, I think some feel like they are suppose to act offended but maybe aren't so much... lol

[susie22]

Right. I'm sure you have girlfriends that do the same thing. Unless I'm totally off base here, I'm guessing most, if not all reasonably attractive girls know that if they wear anything approaching sexy that guys will check them out, it's basically human nature. So, I'm thinking you are correct that they give the impression of being "offended", but in reality they enjoy the attention. For me, I guess I'm just being honest in admitting that I do enjoy it.

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, I am both a voyeur because I enjoy beauty, and an exhibitionist because I enjoy showing off mine at different times... lol

[susie22]

Lol, I guess maybe I'd fall into that category myself.

[soe11]

Respect you.

[susie22]

@soe11 Thank you!

[Emiliamazing]

We are totally fine with far away, super close up it gets a little creepy.

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, someone who gets it! :)

[Emiliamazing]

And also, I am proud of you for venturing out of your usual section! Something else worth noting is that it is way creepier to be sized up by a dude if you’re alone, at least in my book. From with my husband or some friends I don’t find it near as frightening.
And oddly enough, someone is close up and happens to tell you you look nice, versus not saying anything at all or saying something fairly repulsive, that’s OK too

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, exactly, I know what you are saying. Thank you for a great opinion :)

[Emiliamazing]

Just wanted to note the pink dresses are absolutely adorable :-) I’m not one for daisy dukes, but those pink dresses are awesome

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, pink is my favorite color! :)

[CA4444]

You guys are funny 😄😘

[Emiliamazing]

@CA4444 it’s refreshing to answer a question from Laurie which isn’t in the sexuality section! Makes for a little more lightheartedness

[Emiliamazing]

Thank you for the MHO! Have an awesome weekend, it’s almost here!

[laurieluvsit]

You're welcome, and thank you for another great opinion!

[Th3ft]

I mean I’m not super buff but I have been told I pout in a nice lumber jack look. And I have never noticed anyone admiring from but it wouldn’t bother me. I do get a lot more conscious though when there close up and personal.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Don't really care, close or far but up close I care more about personal safety so on guard for that.

[20yearsolder]

I'm okay with being checked out from near or far. I understand what you're asking, it's kind of okay for somebody to check you out for a distance but it kind of gets creepy when she get close.

[soe11]

I will not hypocritical opinion and view, my girlfriend and I wear whatever we desires depending on climate and weather without any uncomfortable feeling.

Above all styles of outfits she wear publicly with full of confidence and reluctant.

She got attractive and gorgeous body shape so why not so I encourage and appreciate her.

[Grl2live_nlearn4u]

If I'm with friends it's fun to tease. I wouldn't go out dressed for attention if I was alone.

[LazerBean]

If it was something that would make me feel extra uncomfortable if people were staring more, I probably wouldn't wear it at all.

[SaraSmith24]

I like that but I don't be close because my attract will decrease maybe. So look at me without my kid is here also 😂

[SexyAsian]

From a distance is on but up close if the linger to long it gets creepy

[laurieluvsit]

Agreed! :)

[Anonymous]

Weren’t you going to post one about lez sex (in response to all the BJ questions earlier?)

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, it's still in my 'draft' folder and is not a question but a more elaborate myTake.

Hold on to your... well, whatever you want to hold onto and I will get to it... lol

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao. Look forward to seeing it.

[Opinion Owner]

Hey is that post ready? I gave up porn so i could use some entertainment tbh.

[laurieluvsit]

I am maybe 70% finished.

When you see it, you will see why it is taking me so long.

It is a matter of time and focus, for which I am short on both at the moment :)

[Opinion Owner]

No worries. I look forward to seeing it lol

Make sure only girls can respond to it. I think a lot of the clam up when they know guys might comment on their posts.

[loveslongnails]

The closer a good-looking girl gets, the better. I don't care WHAT she's wearing, or not wearing!!!

[exitseven]

I just wear t shirts and baggy shorts so there is never a problem.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't care who stares, it's who touches me that I'm picky about.

[HandsomeAndBald]

the both are possible. Do you think I'm handsome or average?

[Zolly99999]

I don't care ( OK sometimes I like the attention)

[dailyoctopus94]

I'd be flattered if I were ogled more often.

[jimmy2]

They wearing them I look at them as long as I can 😆

[Nikki1989]

No, I don't care anymore. 😃

[nudeNhorny]

Admiring beauty doesn't kill anyone

[Cubus]

I have nothing against people looking at me

[Wise4myage]

Yes and no.