Do you think most girls are taught at a young age how to treat a guy? If you have been taught, please share. Why do think this does or doesn't happen?

[Rab1901]

Most guys are taught from a young age to "treat her like a lady."

Do girls have something equivalent to this? Why or why not?

I have 3 younger sisters and 2 brothers by the way, and I love all of them, but I really don't think my sisters learned anything, and I don't really understand why my sisters weren't taught to treat guys well when my brothers and I were taught to treat girls well just for being a girl.

I don't see why girls with bad behavior should be rewarded, and they end up not knowing how to treat guys at all.

It's seriously like guys are overcompensating for the bad treatment of women from the old days, and the ladies are acting entitled. Maybe my experience is different though. Please share if you agree or disagree with me.

Yes, I think they're taught at a young age

No, I don't think so but I was

No, I don't think so, and I wasn't either

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I think I'm confusing some of you because of my wording.
What I am wondering about is not really about treating everyone well.

I do think everyone should be treated well, but I'm wondering if any girls were taught to treat guys well but differently for being a guy and why guys are taught to treat ladies well but differently because she is a lady, and what I find off is that guys are taught to basically treat her like she can do no wrong, and I don't think that's right.

[DizzyDesii]

My mom and grandma baby their men. I’m not the type to cook your meal, fix your plate, serve it to you... nah. I’ll tell you to go fix a sandwich just like i can. We can split the house chores. But i am pretty nurturing when it comes to just showing care emotionally and physically in a loving sexual nature. Im not too crazy about cuddling but i like to share a couch and one of us throw our leg over the other. He can rest his head on me but when it starts to get too heavy on my chest or lap, i’m gonna ask him to gimme some space. I’ll talk to a guy respectfully as long as he shows me the same in return but I am sorta bossy so ig it wouldn't hurt if he's the submissive in general type. But he needs to be dominant in the bedroom. In other words, i watched how some men took advantage of women in my fam. After my first boyfriend took advantage of me, no other has really had the chance. When I move, you move

[Anonymous]

We had a school meeting in 6th grade so Middle school about relationships and not to rush being intimate. And also to treat people w kindness and respect.

The teachers had no idea that girls were active in flirting sometimes online or if they did they didn't get specific lol. So that made us even more curious back then.

[Tommy789]

I can see Your point, I see a lot of women who act entitled. Men get accused of acting entitled when upset over being rejected by a women. I blame society for a guy being hurt over rejectión because society tells us that we are losers if we don't. Society has strange expectations. Women perceive a man being upset about being put in the Friend zone as feeling entitled to a Woman. As a Man I don't think that is the case, I think it is because a Man feels embarrassed and humiliated because a Man feels like He is socially unacceptable because the woman rejected him. In other words it is not so much about being entitled and has more to do with Self esteem.

[Wubs3000]

I don't know if they are taught to treat a guy in the same sense we are taught to treat ladies

But they are taught to fear us and to keep in mind rapists and predators

[dustybiker]

I think you might only be seeing in woman what you want to see. We are not all alike. Not all men are alike. I was raised to respect everyone unless disrespected first.

[Dinklex3]

I was taught to be kind to people in general, male or female.

[dustybiker]

Same.

[BlueScorpio]

Confused, when I was growing up my mother told me to respect everyone regardless of gender and to keep my hands to myself unless someone was trying to harm me.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, they're not. But I don't think they should be. Because the ones that are tend to be too timid and they don't know that they're allowed to say No. So they get coerced into a lot of things and are controlled by their boyfriends.

[Jammaa]

Interesting

[Jamie05rhs]

@Jamamaa Yeah. That's the way I see it, anyway.

[Idkiiii]

Some girls I guess. Some others not so much.

Some girls still believe they are social gods who have everything sorted out, and that they are capable of reading a guy's mind. (If your like this, I hate you.)

[Anonymous]

The only thing I was told was, "never trust men."

[Jammaa]

From mom or dad or both?

[Anonymous]

In general, girls who are raised with good fathers are taught how to treat a guy, the others typically not, and they are the ones that tend to gravitate to lower quality men who treat them badly and it perpetuates the cycle.

[aria7Sara]

I was taught to respect and to have respect for others.