If u wanted a relationship you’d have no problem with society to telling u to close ur legs and wait for the right guy. If ur not ok with that u don’t actually want a relationship. Maybe u think u do but u don’t actually realize the sacrifices you’ll have to make to get it, especially if it’s not with some pushover guy who will shamelessly let u walk all over him. Which sadly seems like most men today. I've really come to the conclusion lately that most women don’t actually want long term monogamy. They want to fuck who they want when they want under the guise of a relationship. Women don’t want an intense emotional and sexual connection with a best friend for life. Otherwise modern women wouldn’t hoe around so much and especially wouldn’t be so opposed to people telling them not to.
to you relationships means having kids? Well not to me. not everybody is meant to be a parent.
03 ReplyU could get ur tubes tied like how women have been all telling men to do this whole time if they want kids since men don’t have a pregnancy undo button like women
Men have not been allowed to have sex without also possibly consenting to being a parent this whole time. So why should I feel bad now that suddenly women can’t too? Women didn’t care before when I complained about it. A little taste of ur own medicine eh?
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How is what u want and society telling u what to do the same thing?
13 ReplyI don’t care that there is a law that says I have to wear a seat belt because I don’t want to crash and die. If women want a serious relationship and not sleeping around will increase their chances of that then why r they so opposed to being told to not do that?
If I didn’t own a gun no. Just like how if I was a girl and I wanted a serious relationship I shouldn’t care if there is an abortion ban because me behaving in a way that is seeking a serious relationship shouldn’t interfere with that
1.6K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. This is profoundly stupid. Good troll attempt.
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So many words…so little sense. What a shame.
137 ReplyMade perfect sense to me. Maybe u need me to hold ur hand while u read it one more time? I know society trying to pressure women to act responsibly is an emotionally charged topic here.
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The fact that only you understood what you wrote and others did not should be saying something loud and clear. Why isn’t that registering with you? 🤔
If u actually want a serious relationship why are u opposed to being told to close ur legs and wait for the right person? There is clear data that shows that will lead to the healthiest, most satisfying, longest lasting relationships. I’m genuinely confused. It doesn’t make sense. I think most women secretly want to be whores but don’t want to have to be responsible for the negatives of it
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Have you ever considered that women don’t like being told what to do with THEIR bodies? There’s nothing worse than a controlling man thinking he has any choice in what a woman can do with herself. And have you ever considered that women that choose to have sex with different men DON’T want a serious relationship?
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You bring up the abortion ban as an argument, women who want abortions to be legal don’t speak just for themselves. They speak on behalf of the women who are raped or just don’t want a child. There’s no logic behind your argument whatsoever. I’m sorry that you think there is 😂
Yes so the truth comes out these women don’t want a relationship. Ok then exactly. Have u ever considered that men have had no right to have sex without possibly having a kid ever? So u sitting here screaming that u don’t doesn’t make me feel bad for u. A few years ago when I complained to women that I couldn’t have sex without possibly having kids like 3% of women cared.
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You’re literally making zero sense my dude. What exactly is it you’re upset about? That some women don’t want a serious relationship? Don’t feel bad for me, I don’t feel bad for you lmao.
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Just throw a condom on or stop having sex if it bothers you that much. Stop whining about what other people choose to do.
Oh so I can just throw a condom on or stop having sex but not u right? Ur entitled to condomless sex with whoever u want, whenever u want without the possibility or a child right? Not me as a man.
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Interesting reacting. It’s almost as if you don’t like being told what to do with your body. Thank you for proving my point! 😂🙄
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You should be grateful that all you have to do is wrap it up. Would you rather take a pill that alters your body instead? I took birth control, ended up in and out of hospital for two years due to a bad reaction that caused serious medical issues with my spine and brain. I had 8 spinal taps to correct the issue.
yeah… and women have been ok with that this whole time…. What don’t u get? Women have been telling men they can’t do something this whole time and now men are telling women they can’t do it either and somehow that’s unfair? This is not complicated in the slightest. Now way ur this dense
I’m not against the idea of male birth control pills. I’m actually reluctantly pro choice believe it or not I’m just having fun here. I still think a lot of women are hypocritical when it comes to abortion but whatever
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Because using a piece of rubber is nothing in comparison to taking a pill that fucks up your body. Suck it up. Cry about it. Men have always had control over women’s body. Women aren’t even entitled to a fucking hysterectomy without her husbands consent but a man can get a vasectomy whenever he damn well pleases. So quit being whiny and get the hell over it. Wrap it up or don’t have sex. Or go research how to make a birth control pill for men.
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If a woman doesn’t want your grubby little penis inside her without a condom, move on to the next and find someone who does want sex without a condom. It’s really not that hard.
U realize no birth control besides abortion is 100% effective right? It’s not as simple as wrapping it up.
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No shit but it’s still more preventative than going at it raw. It absolutely is as simple as wrapping it up so get over it. And yes you are complicating it. Because one minute you’re screaming about how women who have sex in a relationship shouldn’t be upset with the abortion ban and the next minute you’re screaming about women who would prefer men to wear a condom to prevent getting pregnant. You’re looking for an argument where there isn’t one. You just want something to be upset about.
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If someone wants sex but doesn’t want a baby then why the fuck would they let you hit it raw? ‘There’s no way you’re this dense’. Use your brain man seriously.
Ok fine u got me I see why women who want a serious relationship could also be pro choice. I’m half trolling with this tbh. I said earlier I’m actually pro choice but I still think most women are completely hypocritical on the topic of abortion.
Why should men care that women don’t have the right to have sex and not risk having kids if men have no such right and women don’t care?
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Just because a woman is okay with having a baby doesn’t mean she can’t advocate for women who don’t want a baby. There’s many reasons why she may be angry about it, she’s angry for the women who have been raped, she’s angry for the women who simply don’t want a child, she’s angry for the women who can potentially be charged with murder if she cannot prove her miscarriage was natural, she’s angry for the 11 year old child that was forced to give birth to her rapists baby.
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No one cares if men don’t care either. Women do have the right to sex so I’m really not understand what you’re trying to say.
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Are you trying to say then men shouldn’t have to wear a condom if a woman wants an abortion or something
No I’m saying that as a guy anytime I consent to sex I am also consenting to possibly have a kid. Where as women can consent to sex as much as they want with whoever they want and they never risk having a kid. If we’re gonna go with the attitude that casual sex is ok and not wanting to be a parent is ok then why is it that if a guy consents to sex he is also consenting to possibly have a kid? There is no 100% effective birth control. A guy could use a condom and give his girlfriend the plan b the next morning and she could still get pregnant. Maybe not likely for a single time but if u have sex 1000 times the odds are there
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If you’re not okay with taking that risk then what do you suggest the appropriate solution is?
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If even wearing a condom and using plan B is not enough for you then why are you having sex? I’m a female who doesn’t want a child and I don’t trust birth control or condoms either, which is why I don’t have sex. So what is your problem?
Make it so men can choose to not legally and financially parent a child they don’t want. would u be having sex if abortion was unbanned tho? No I’ll just wear a condom, won’t cum inside them. And mostly try to stick to other sex acts besides PIV. But it’s just a point I’m trying to make
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They already do that. Here do they do. My dad walked out because he didn’t want a kid and because he refused to sign my birth certificate he wasn’t obligated to provide for me. So it’s already an option in a lot of places.
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And abortion is legal in my country and I’m still choosing not to have sex because I’d rather avoid the trauma of abortion if God forbid I ever needed one.
Where do u live? I don’t think that’s a thing in any of the 50 us states
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The UK. If a man doesn’t sign the birth certificate then he isn’t obligated to provide for the child and the government pays child support until the child is 16.
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That’s an unwed father by the way. If they’re married then it’s more complicated and he is supposed to help provide.
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But there’s still ways around it so that even a married man doesn’t have to provide for a child if he doesn’t claim it. It’s a whole process but it’s possible.
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But in simpler terms. If the father isn’t married to the mother and isn’t on the birth certificate then he has no legal obligation to support the child. If the father is married to the mother then he is obligated to provide. I got it mixed up but the point still stands.
I mean that’s fair but here in America it isn’t like that and a few years ago when I learned about this and tried to talk to a bunch of different women about it all I got was hate. I’m just saying. Good talk tho!
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I’m pretty sure it’s like that in most countries in Europe, could be wrong but it’s definitely like that in the UK.
What? Really? How have I never heard this before I’m surprised
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