Women cannot get with the men they want, and tend to blame men thinking that there are not any good men for them out of the men they want. REAL ISSUE HERE IS... Women know what they want, but they don't know what men want or if they do they think they can change men to wanting what women want.
It’s just how many women have higher standards for the men they date then they have for themselves. Hypergamy.
Also many women “think” they know what it’s really like to be a man. But most of them are clueless. They don’t care either unless it’s about a man they are particularly interested in. Where men are expected to come to “understand” all women whether we have romantic interest in them or not.
With that said I am seeing a growing minority of women who are coming to realize that when men fail then women fail. They realize that all male bashing feminism has some dire side effects that ultimately harm both genders. They understand that most men are NOT culpable of all the bullshit “patriarchy” accusations feminists spew. Very few men have the power to be a Harvey Weinstein.
The problem is there just aren’t enough women like that. Too many of them are content with the sugar high of modern feminism. They don’t care about mens issues unless it directly benefits then somehow.
Women are trained by society to talk about how they care more about personality and character of a man than superficial traits. So many women hide this shallow aspect of themselves and will deflect from explaining their true reasoning for dating certain men. This is why you often see women make the claim that they choose not to date X guy because he wasn't truly a good person and just wanted to sleep with her.
A lot of women end up complaining about being pump and dumped or men only wanting sex because they keep going after high value men that have multiple female to choose from and see no reason to settle down with her despite her sexual availability towards him.
Many women lack the ability to self reflect and hold themselves accountable for their choices in life and will therefore blame all men for their poor dating choices and get affirmation from simps and women of how men ain't shit.
Rinse and repeat until they end up post 35 and get burnt out on dating and decide to gay, stops dating all together and become cat ladies or chooses a male who she knows won't leave her but she does not respect and is resentful that she had to settle for him.
I didn't understand a word that you're saying honestly. It's not a problem of women not knowing what men want but of women only liking certeins type of men. They only like a type of men and sadly for many it's the bad one, but they always only date those and are only interested in those, they're not insterested in others so I don't get what the "women don't know what men want" have anything to do with it.
They want the kind of man they're attracted to to treat them good, they don't want to date others kind of guys cause they aren't attracted to them.
They want a guy that treat them good but they also aren't interested in shy / introverted guy, they want an extroverted cool guy that treat them good. So I don't get the senes of what you're trying to say.
No. No self pity at all. I’ve always lived my life on my own terms and could care less if I get slut shamed and I’m my career men and women equally get paid crap lol 😂. I’m just saying sexism does hurt both sexes but at the end of the day white men still are seen as superior in society. That doesn’t explain the crazy “feminist “ progressive females you’ve encountered. I’m sure the sexiest pigs I’ve encountered would make me feel some type of way too if I let them. I really just feel sorry for them becuase there views are keeping them from being with someone awesome like me? Got to think of it that way. Those types of people will never experience true partnership. Not when they hate the women/men they supposively love.
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I have read through the comments, your replies and most of the opinions. You seem like the real hypocrite considering how you waver. Basically, you are saying "I can't get a date" without actually saying it.
If I don't know what men want, how am I happily engaged? I know damn well what my partner wants/needs and he knows what I want/need. I think what your question should have said is "Why don't I understand women?" That would have been much more appropriate.
You claim to know all about what we don't know, while claiming you do know. Talk about hypocrisy. This did give me a good laugh though. So, at least there is that.
I don’t think that’s entirely true. Women are only concerned with what they get out of a relationship with a man. They don’t care one bit about what they have to offer. They’re takers, not givers. This is because they’ve been told they are “the prize” for so long that they don’t feel like they have to contribute anything. Their mere presence is a gift from god. Ell oh ell! Spend an afternoon browsing women’s profiles on dating sites and this becomes perfectly clear. List after list of what they need, what they want and how you shouldn’t even waste their time if you’re not all that and a bag of chips. Ell oh ell! Nary a word about what they bring to the table or what they have to offer. In the RARE cases in which they list a few of their qualities, they’re usually highlighting traits that WOMEN value, not what men value. Ell oh ell! Not because they don’t know, but because they don’t care what men value. What men need and what men want is “toxicity”. The hypocrisy is absolutely real.
Humanity is full of hypocrisy. That’s because we used logic that benefits the way we as individuals want things and therefore we can always find another argument.
For example. I can make a strong argument pro-life and pro-choice. Strong enough Ide feel comfortable going to war with the other side over it. That being said I am currently siding with pro-life because I woke up and decided it would be better for me…
As humans we can justify anything and if there’s a justification to be made, especially today when people are incapable of having a discussion to share other sides without getting… passionate, we completely ignore the point the other side has regardless the possibilities.
The reason they can't get with the men they want is due to the fact that American women have an over-inflated sense of their own self-worth. Women who are 4 and 5s believe they are qualified for a man who is a 9 or a 10s. This is of course never going to happen. These types of men will lower their standards and sleep with these women. And these women believe that since these men slept with them, they must also be a 9 or a 10. Women also don't understand that physical attractiveness is the biggest factor when we look for women. Men do not care about your intelligence, education, career, and certainly not your being "strong" or "independent". An ugly but intelligent woman is just as worthless as an ugly and stupid woman to men.
The most hypocritical part is when they are low quality they think they deserve a high quality partner. When they have kids from a past relationship, have been promiscuous, have tattoos, etc. and then think they can have a good quality man that didn't make those same mistakes. They have no chance.
Go for someone of equal or at least close to equal quality as yourself.
I think most women know what they want, but don't know how to get it... and when they do get what they want they then realize its not what they needed.
Men tend to want what they want, and even when its not how they expected it to be... they still figure its better than nothing.
I see this a lot too, so you're not wrong. It really irritates me that a lot of women do this. 😑
That being said, I have seen some guys that do it too.
Not everyone is like this though, so all you can do is live and learn and try to keep watch for the early signs the next time.
It's definitely a hypocrisy, but it's also certainly not limited to just women. There are plenty of mentally ill perverts on the site complaining about how women are causing their problems by not wanting to sleep with them.
Both genders can suffer this blame game. You see it here daily. Doesn’t mean all men and single woman suffer it. Most know what they want and when they haven’t yet found it.
What this woman wants is a man who can speak/write PROPER English above 10th grade level. It seems to be incredibly hard to find on GAG.
Very real, yes.
You've the brain of a 4 year old, bucko.
People want different things and they don't always match what people are giving.
Your lacking social skills does not mean every man/woman must therefore drop their level as well.
VOTE C : Just admit that you don't understand women
There’s a difference between what men say they want and what they actually go for.
Yes and it's real for men too dang I just looked at the results and it said that 16% of people said that it's not real get your head out of the clouds people it is real this is the real world
I don't mind if a guy doesn't know what I want, as long he'll listen when I tell him. I also expect him to tell me what he wants, I hate uncommunicativeness when you could easily tell me what you want and I'll most likely do it for you. Avoidance like that is cowardly and selfish, mostly when they get upset with you for not just knowing what they're hardly trying to communicate.
It is natural to want what you believe you deserve.
I guess so.
Women say men shouldn't be friends with girls, but then they can be friends with guys
That is LITERALLY hypocrisy
They can change men... but only the girls willing to holdout for sex. And theyre pretty rare. Also red pill rage is "you're holding at for me (the beta) but you didn't for the other guys (alphas)." So the stars are aligning against promiscuous women
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