Is it wrong to lead a woman with low self esteem on for months and ghost when we finally meet and have had sex?

[Anonymous]

Tbh I in theory do feel guilty as this particular woman in question had done nothing wrong to me and it sucks massively she had to be punished and used as a scapegoat and emotional punching bag for two different women who broke my heart in late 2021/early 2022 but I saw no other option in terms of getting revenge and regaining my dignity and pride, I had to do it unfortunately. There was no other alternative that I could have used to punishment those two women who lead me on and broke my heart that wouldn’t have resulted in me being but before a jury in Crown Court. I suppose the moral of all this is that to any women reading this, your actions have consequences (perhaps not directly for yourselves) but certainly other women pay the price in future for your bad deeds.

[Pegases]

Someone hurting you previously does not justify you hurting someone else. This is actually the problem with most people in the modern day. Women and men alike refuse to take the time they need to heal, and go out and hurt people that did them no wrong as revenge. As if the person that hurt you gives a shit. In fact, they're probably flattered that they still impact your decisions. Healing isn't easy or comfortable, but refusing to do so hurts you more than you realize in the long run.

[CuriousMufuxka]

You made this shit up! I say in theory none of these events actually happened, well except for the punching bag part..

[ZS007]

Should this even be a question? It's obviously wrong. Other people deal with these kinds of stuff differently. People who know when not to cross a line and who have ethics. That's unhealthy for you and all the unfortunate souls who meet you.

[LazerBean]

I mean honestly if that's how you're going to treat an innocent woman then the two people who broke your heart must have been giving you what you deserved.

[DryGermanGuy]

You are one disgusting excuse for a human being. 🤮👎

[ManOnFire]

You are a complete scumbag to want to punish a woman for what others did wrong to you.

[Midgetmcwidget]

Yes it’s wrong on every level

[Anonymous]

I hope someone does the exact same thing to you.

[Opinion Owner]

I hope you understand that your actions also have consequences, and bad karma is making its way back to you 😊

[Asker]

My actions were revenge and totally justified

[Opinion Owner]

Nope they were not. Hurting an innocent woman who played no part in your issues is not revenge. You used her to hurt someone else. Your karma will come and I hope it hurts just as much.

[CT_CD]

No. You done what had to be done.

[panamared1]

ghosting is rude, at the very least say bye