At what point girls start seeing guys as a potential date or partner?

[Anonymous]

I hangout with a lot of girls, but they never fall for me, never ask me out...
And my best friend is always with me, girls just thrown themselves at him.
So I am quite jealous of him for this reason.

[Slingblade1126]

My wife and I just talked about this a couple weeks ago. We didn't work together (worked in different departments) but would see each other throughout the week and had a friendship for a few months before I asked her out. She saw me as dateable when she started finding me attractive, obviously. I was funny and she said she felt comfortable around me. She saw me as a potential partner when she saw how I was the same way while out with her in a social setting but noticed I was also romantic and treated her like a lady, mainly meaning with respect. See saw me as a life partner when she saw how hard of a worker I was and how close I was to family and friends, she said that showed I was loyal. Being hardworking showed I can be serious and a good provider as far as a family goes.

[Asker]

Nice...
Wish I get some of that🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

Currently just running after money and getting stable.
+ I am in a place where people people kill themselves more then nature's causes so need to get a nice place, job, money, and survive in my country's dying economy 🤣🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

I mean... if you're on a date isn't it because you already think the person might be a potential partner? Maybe I'm old fashioned lol

[Opinion Owner]

I did not read that description until JUST now. My response makes no sense given that context

The answer to that question is a lot more complicated, but I think your main problem could be cured by just asking someone out instead of playing the friend and hoping to be asked out...

[Asker]

Old fashioned is better

[Anonymous]

I mean, which one of the girls are you interested in?

Try to show here that you're into her.
If you don't give here any hints, she won't ever know you liked her and you'll be stuck in the friendzone forever.

You can always make the first move and ask them out too

[Asker]

Done that, told her that I kind of have a crush on you...
Or I like u, can we go out sometime?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, the clearer the better so she'll have no doubt that you like her.

And yeah, "I like you, how about we go out sometime?" sounds good

[Asker]

So I have done everything 🤣🤣.
I could to, you know get someone.
You know if I don't find one, it's not the end of the world for me.
I can travel the world, alone, or get a dog, or cat then just ride with then through the world. In place of a partner, animals will be better, they don't need jewelry, makeup, clothes (well I will buy them clothes, what if I went to some cold place, I don't then to get cold)
, And they never are picky about food. 🤣🤣🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Ohhh I see haha, I get what you mean. 😂

You'll find someone sooner or later though, sometimes it's just a question of the right time or timing. 😄

But yeah lmao, animals are as well a lot more loyal than many humans xD

Regardless, wish you the best in your life ^^

[Asker]

Exactly, but I am just giving up after 1year.
Cause after age of 23, everyone will have some kind of past which will bring baggage.
And I don't want to be some's 2nd choice, or a target for a gold-digger.
Or more over I don't want someone to force them to be with me, and then go out to cheat on me😐😐.
(Actually I am just scared that, if someone don't love me and just being with me to make someone else jealous, and then cheat on me with that person)

[Guy13]

Gotcha !!

[Opinion Owner]

Yeahh, I can understand why you'd feel hesitant. Unfortunately, it does really happen sometimes.

But if you still didn't completely give up on dating, I guess my best advice would be to before getting together with anyone, try to get to know them as much as you can.

Ask the right questions and observe how they treat others (their friends, workers, family), this way you'll get a good insight of how they think and who they truly are. Just don't rush in.

Nowadays, seems like the best friends to lovers trope is the best lol

The best solution to prevent yourself from getting into a relationship with someone that has ulterior motives or does not really love you, would be to get to know them very well, as who they truly are.

Hope it may help ☺️

[melanieeeB]

Potential date - when I find him attractive
Potential partner - when we vibe, he fits the things I'm looking for and I can imagine a future with him

[msc545]

As soon as they find out how much money they have, what they look like in person, and how tall they are.

[FilmGuy93]

In my observation, women seem to know whether the potential vibe is there right off the bat.

[Wise4myage]

Id say at least a few months of dating.

You won't get anywhere expecting girls to ask you out.

[captain_voidwalker]

Potential date only if your hot.
Potential partner only when you bank account exceeds thiers 10 times over

[Guy13]

No woman is going to ask you out 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

Ohh when I do they just say that you are a nice guy, you can get anyone else

[Guy13]

They are not interested in you and are being polite. You have to seek them out and eventually one will give you a chance. The girls you "hang out" with are likely not going to be the ones you date. They already know to much about you.
People who think you might be interesting but don't know everything are the ones who will go out with you...

[Asker]

Well I tried online dating no swipes
I tried to make new contacts and ask them out. But no one ever said yes.
They are alway like I love someone else.
Or I am sorry I am not the one.
Or its not you it's me, I don't want to hurt someone like you.
Something along these lines.

[Guy13]

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[Guy13]

www.meetup.com that was weird.

[Asker]

Lol I am not looking for properties 😂😂 need at least 4 years to get my own place

[Guy13]

The second one. something on my end with the other link...

[Asker]

Oh nice ☺️👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[Asker]

Get a good beautiful place for yourself, with a market nearby and a restaurant, and which is close to city