I have a few questions about this, and I would like girls to answer (guys can comment as well).
- How flexible is the law that when a girl complains about her boyfriend to a guy friend, she has zero romantic interest in him?
- Does it matter what kind of complaints the girl says about her boyfriend? Is it possible that the girl may be trying to hint at the guy if she complains only on one particular thing? For example, how he doesn't communicate or doesn't give enough attention or doesn't know what she's going through, or etc...
- What if she is also giving pretty positive signals to the guy while from time to time complaining about her boyfriend? Pretty strong positive signals...
- Would girls ever drop hints and send signals to a guy that they are interested in, about how bad her current boyfriend is? If so, what does she expect the guy to do?
GIRLS, PLEASE HELP ME COME TO A CLOSURE/CONCLUSION WITH THIS PROBLEM. SHOULD I BE OPTIMISTIC OR DO YOU THINK I AM FOREVER "JUST A FRIEND"?
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My Ex did that alot. I wasn't friendzoned. she just knew I actually cared about her and she could turn to me if she had problems. I never told her to dumb her Boyfriend or to cheat on him. Any "friend" who tells a woman that is trying to hook up with her. And thanks to that she knew who to be friends with when she was with me and kicked anyone out who did that to try to hook up with her.
All the advice I ever gave her was actually from her. What does she feel like doing, what does she feel about it. Its her life and they were her problems and its not someone else's job to dictate her dating relationship when they are infact not part of it. And with that she figured out what to do on her own and how to value "friend zone" guys from guys who are trying to hook up with her.
Even today that we are not together she still comes to me for advice. her BFs hate it, they all try to remove me from her life with their advice. I'm just valued more because I'm real then their little games.