Girls, do now a days most of you intentionally jerk around with good guys?

[Anonymous]

For some reasons I always had bad experiences with women my whole life, even though I never treated anyone bad.

My mother was abusive.

Girls told me , guys like me are only good after thirty.

Girls came for help fixing laptops , help with homework or studies but never wanted to go out with me even for a casual outing. Thwy said they would be embarrassed to be seen with me.

They invited me for parties then cancel and made fun of me , saying I am desparate. Even though they were the one inviting me.

I cook great. In few cases girls wanted to taste food by me but after all the cooking they never showed up. ...

I don't know what's wrong with me... why almost every girl I ever knew were always jerk to me. Again I have never treated them bad. After any bad signs from them I do cut them off my life and brake all contact though.

[devilish-cutie]

well you do play part in it however it seems that you dont

you should be more picky and choose better... for some reason you are more attracte to women that are bad to you

get in psychology and figure out what might be the issue with you, not saying anything is wrong but plenty of people have issues and it doesn't mean its your fault, id start with attachment theory - research about it. You said your monther was abusive and not you seek abusive partner as well, that is a clue to your issues.