How do I stop being envious of "perfect" girls?

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How do I stop being jealous of girls who seemingly have it all and are perfect? Is there a way to stop being jealous of them? I've known a few women like this in life and they seemingly have everything! I don't want to be jealous and I know it's toxic, but I can't help but compare/compete.

magiusX26 · Accepted Answer

1st you need to realize perfect is not actually possible in a human being. everyone (and i truly fp nean EVERYONE) has flaws of some sort.

2nd you need to realize that everyone does not have the same prefferences or perspectives/views/sees others the same way. some do like short and done like tall, for example. the inverse is just as true as well as tgings in between the 2 opposites. as some evidence of this, look at lgbt as that alone shows not all men find women sexually appealing and not all women find men sexually appealing. further examples on prefferences are weight, race, hair color, fashion style, sound of voice/dialect, eye color, mental accuety, and breast size based, plus many other attributes.

3rd is you need to realize beauty standards change both over time and per individual. per individual meaning what words as something to enhance the beauty of one person will not always work for others.

4th is the realization that not all attention (even the attention you seek) is actually good for you. this is a sad part of how things like unwanted advances, comments, pictures (media) , reputation, and more at least partially (can) stem from.

pers0n · Accepted Answer

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Do not post that picture again.

Please refer to my terminated account https://www.girlsaskguys.com/user/guy__ and my recent MHO here What is the dumbest conspiracy theory you've heard?

We're brainwashed with trannies. Gross. All of them on your attached photo are males. And women starve themselves trying to look as "in shape" as them. This goes much deeper into occult but I will show you just a few of the world's top supermodels who got drunk. I know this could be confusing but I promise it will clear things up and you will 10000% feel great being the way you are.

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The "percect" girls are not perfect (and aren't even girls as I mentioned) they just use a lot of different brainwashing techniques such as dictating to you that "they are perfect and you're not."

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Pleaznhim4me · Accepted Answer

When you realize that there is no perfect girl. It’s all BS. It’s all In your head. It’s all money making propaganda sold by Hollywood and companies to make money. That the only person who needs to be happy with you is you and your partner that you intend on marrying. I promise they don’t want perfect. Men think real women with flaws are sexy. Any man that wants a perfect Barbie doll woman is usually a really strange, unintelligent and emotionally unaware person. If this doesn’t help talk to someone professional about it or find a women's group that talks about it. Seriously, society will never make you feel better. Even when they pretend to push “normal” people. It’s all BS. Hollywood rich and famous bleeding hearts are all plastic surgery, injected hypocrites. Selling things and making millions while causing women to feel inferior about themselves.

DermalPunch · Accepted Answer

First off, these "perfect" girls you describe don't exist.

If the women in this photo are what you view as perfect and having the best life ever ask yourself this: are you willing to subsist eat before a big show and take laxatives then be inspected like livestock before parading your naked body out for other people to judge you even more.

For fat hairy perverts to fantasize about you?

This is a spectacle to open the pockets of the weak minded with undernourished souls. Seek internal validation not external! ❤

mickmrly · Answer

One way to stop being envious of so called perfect girls, is to remember what they are trading off to become "perfect" in others eyes. Most women look nice, many are beautiful and some are even viewed as perfect. However, the difference between beautiful and perfect (and even nice and perfect) isn't really that much to be honest. So what if some women have a thinner tummy or some hourglass shape or some hip ratio thing. Most women look nice and have a lot to be proud of, whether they are trying to find a mate or otherwise. Its like if you had a really nice house but some women had a big mansion. They may have some fancier stuff and a bit nicer views, but all the good and bad stuff is still in both houses. There are still rooms, roofs, walls, trash bins and toilets and the other basic materials in the end.

Whatever advantages/looks these perfect girls have, I'm sure you would have at least a good portion of that already. Even if you have some specific problem/issue area, as a whole overall you should be quite close to these perfect girls in what matters anyway.

ZackBan · Answer

Why do you wanna stop?

You just said it makes you compete and that is a good thing no matter what you keep hearing in certain circles.

Envy is natural. I envy jacked guys it's not a bad thing it makes me wanna go to the gym.

Just learn to channel it.
Don't be discouraged or depressed by it but instead use it as proof that it can be done and find your place in the world.

You'll never be the single hottest girl out there but never the ugliest either it's all about getting to a place you're happy with who you are

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

There’s only one perfect girl, and that’s my Flower Girl. All others are impractical, imperfect, imprecise, improbable, and sinful. You mightn’t know Her, but even my Flower Girl is a bit like that, and I still love Her to Death. Don’t focus on what You can’t change, and focus on what You can, and use knowledge and wisdom to know the difference. Have a few best friends. Remind Yourself that all Y’all are congruent and equal. Do You have a talent? Good, use that talent to highlight Yourself. Alas, I reckon them ‘perfect girls’ still pay a lotta dough to look perfect, making all that shit just a bloody illusion. Don’t forget to take care of Yourself — exercise, nosh enough fruits, read, study, practise hobbies, love one another, and practise other spiritual things.

Pinay_ako · Answer

There’s no such thing as perfect. These girls have to have a specific calorie intake to maintain and tons of makeup, trainers, stylists to keep them that way. Look after bettering yourself instead of looking at other girls. At the end of the day, they’re just regular people like you and me when they’re using the loo. 🤣 so there!

Msputiton · Answer

First thing to happiness and not comparing yourself, or what you have to others.

Compare yourself to yourself yesterday

How did you improve from yesterday, how can you keep improving?

Tell yourself you are beautiful and perfect because there is only one you, and this is how you were meant to be

rtj1211 · Answer

Just remember that 'bodily perfection' isn't the same as spiritual beauty. There's lots of prize bitches with horny bodies at 18, and plenty of them are bitter, unfulfilled women at 45.

If you focus on being the best imperfect person you can be, if you really accept yourself as you are and believe that happiness is your expectation and right and if you are humble enough to face tough times without bitterness, then you have nothing to be envious of where others are concerned.

menina · Answer

I know how you feel. I feel the same way.
Well, these women don't have it all. They also have problems, and their problems might be more serious than yours. They might look great, but they might not be ok.
Besides, the ones in this picture don't look human, they don't look like most women. I guess you should focus on yourself, work on your well-being and your skills. Don't waste your time comparing yourself to them, you are you and I'm sure you're amazing. :)

SkyCastle90 · Answer

It really depends on the guy, his mental state, and maturity. It doesn't matter if you're the hottest girl alive, you can still be mistreated and cheated on if the guy isn't right.

Beyonce, cheated on.

Behati Prinsloo, cheated on.

Rihanna, domestic violence.

Cardi B, cheated on.

There are many, many more, but you get it. As long as you have good hygiene, healthy body and mind, you're golden.

babyzraling · Answer

Don't spend that much time on social media especially if those platforms are making you feel worse about yourself.

Spend your time with your friends instead. Or with a family. If your like to spend time alone then you can focus on improving your skills or killing time with your hobbies. I know this is somehow unrelated to your question but what am I trying to say is you shouldn't be comparing yourself to other people.

You should also stop focusing on those people if they only make you feel bad about yourself unless they inspire you to be better. Just be yourself and the best version of yourself, okay? I hope you will be that unbothered boss bitch and gain confidence. Beauty is all about confidence. K byeeee

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

First thing you need to do is understand that no one is perfect. Second, you said they "seemingly" have it all. But do you know for a fact that they do? I'm gonna go ahead and say no, you don't. You never know what someone is going through or has gone through. They may be looking at you and thinking the same thing. So my advice is to focus on things you have control over. And other people's lives do not fall into that category. Your only competition is yourself.

JDavid25 · Answer

Stop thinking of them as perfect, their breathe stinks in the morning, they drop dueces in the toilet, get eye boogers, and need to brush their teeth just like you.. I'm sure they have their fair share of problems.. Don't put them on a pedestal.. You have no idea of their life outside of your external lens..

Fireguy17 · Answer

Take the time and effort that you are spending on being jealous, and put it towards improving yourself.
No one is perfect, their lives aren't perfect, they just appear to be perfect.
It is an act, that is their job.
Don't worry about others, just take of yourself.

annabananna · Answer

Try to spend time not looking at them and find something you love to do that brings you joy and helps you feel confident. Ballroom dance has helped me a lot. Also, make sure you aren’t surrounding yourself with people that bring you down or make unnecessary hurtful comments.

Anonymous · Answer

You'll never be someone else. Sure, you can do all you can to be healthy and in good shape, but as long as you're comparing yourself to others you'll never reach a place of comfort with yourself. Plastic surgery is an 'option', but it's more of a cop-out than anything else. Self-acceptance is a wonderful drug. Once you start, it's hard to stop. There's power in being unapologetically yourself. There's a sexiness to that kind of confidence as well, to both genders.

kellytheman · Answer

Yeah it hard not to be jealous when someone looks perfect and can get by and handed opportunities because of how beutiful or perfect they are. You just have to work hard and don't compare yourself to them and try to be a better version of yourself everyday and perfect people soon have imperfections as time goes on and you might end on top from all your hard work.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

A healthy person does not need constant attention when they have family and friends that love them or a house of prayer where they can socialize with other believers. I do not feel bad at all about being an average looking woman.

nawtee_me · Answer

By understanding that no one is perfect. I’ll bet that everyone of those so called perfect girls has one boob a little smaller than the other one. Also I am sure that each one of them has their inner or outer labia that some men do not like the look of. They are not perfect they are just good at wearing mask.
Be who you are and be proud of it. That will bring with it a confidence that is very sexy and people will notice it in you….

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

What do they have that you don't... what do you have that they don't?

You figure that much out and you can change all sorts of things or continue doing whatever they're not doing while doing whatever they're not doing.

Summeroflove · Answer

I don’t know. But envoy isn’t good. You should focus on yourself. You are your own person and so are they.  Focus on you and you are someone’s perfect something

litty · Answer

You just be a little better than who you were yesterday. Whether that's staying on track of not eating processed junk food, or doing a push up, every little improvement will add up to be the best version of yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

You can't be as all those lame asses think they are perfect - which they aren't without their makeup and bull shit.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Just remind yourself that "being green with envy" is unhealthy for yourself.

MCheetah · Answer

Turn yourself into one of them. ... Then DESTROY THEM FROM WITHIN!

Daviddd5412 · Answer

They're probably not perfect maybe it just seems that way?

Iron_Man · Answer

Ask yourself what really make somebody the perfect girl, you’re dwelling on to many things that you can’t control live your own life make yourself the perfect girl

AndrésC64 · Answer

It's very difficult to do, but we need to understand that there's no such thing as perfection. That even as perfect as someone's life may look, it may not be so in reality behind the scenes.

Cumdripper · Answer

Just say Nigga just put your dick in my ass then you pull it out and cum in my face.

Grond21 · Answer

Comparison is the thief of joy. So stop watching them. Stop looking at their pictures, stop thinking about them, stop spending time with them

ZenJen444 · Answer

You got issues and need a therapist. You're insecure, weak, appearance most likely ain't up to par , and most likely don't have friends. No woman wants to he friends with a chick like this.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

By acknowledging that one person's perfect is another's butt ugly.

exitseven · Answer

nobody is perfect. Nobody has a perfect life.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Maybe you're perfect too and you just don't know it. :)

Pohjolan · Answer

Compete in what regard? Like no one except yourself is keeping you from getting in shape if you want to be in shape.

Anonymous · Answer

Try to avoid competitions where you're guaranteed to lose. Also, just focus on trying to make yourself hotter.

EaterPeter · Answer

Let me see you and see if I can help. Have a poll here and have your own fan base.

Zolly99999 · Answer

No one is perfect we all have imperfections..

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

They don't have everything. I would feel shameful complaining about something like that

MiseriaCantareAFI · Answer

Most of the "perfection" you see out there, is fake. There's no such thing as perfection

JohnK123 · Answer

R u sylacone? I don't know how u spell it lmao but if u aren’t then ur perfect

Anonymous · Answer

Why would u even envy those fake “perfect” girls when you're already a whole sexy motherfucker girlll

Anonymous · Answer

It's obvious for a girl to be jealous of a perfect girl. It's not toxic at all. Instead, try to be like them!

ThebestIndian · Answer

I believe jealous is good if it is healthy. Feel jealousy and work for good and become the best

spartan55 · Answer

Stay off social media for starters.

Smoothing · Answer

You just stop. Kaboom kabam kibosh. Simples.

Sixgunsound · Answer

There are no perfect girls.

Joker_ · Answer

just look at the women in that picture

Anonymous · Answer

Grow up a bit.

jjj101010 · Answer

There r no perfect girls or guys

jimmy2 · Answer

Well I don't think these girls have got it all

Anonymous · Answer

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