Whats more satisfying for a unattractive girl to react to the seldom times decent looking guys approach her?

[Anonymous]

There are a few times out of curiosity I’ve approached heavier girls and even though they were traditionally not very pretty there was something intangible about them I found attractive.

Surprisingly these girls were actually extremely bitchy when I gave them keen but innocent attention. The attention wasn’t sexual but of intense curiosity that might become sexual.

Anyway they got bizarre deluded sense of pride that they just had to play “hard to get”. Yet I would have no problem walking the second I felt a shit test happening. Admittedly attractive women are much more likely to get away with playing games with me (but I know where to draw the line). But it’s like a unattractive woman thinks that acting bitchy somehow puts her on par with the very pretty girls she is so jealous of.

I remember years ago I went to get a few drinks with a girl I didn’t find attractive at all. I’m not sure how it started by she ended up going mega bitch and saying something really nasty.

Then next day she messaged me and apologize profusely. She begged me for a second chance. I told her I felt better she apologized but I wasn’t interested in hanging out again. She sadly wished me best of luck and I did likewise.

But anyway why do these unattractive often self sabotage the few rare opportunities they do have to date a decent looking guy who gave them attention? Does the feeling of deluded pride of being “able to turn someone down because I think I am hot and have options” more satisfying then actually having a real tangible rare opportunity with someone?

I know no fat guy would turn down a woman who is a 7 or above. But why would a BBW woman turn down the same vice versa?

Have a sense of pride and act bitchy about it

Take the chance of being really happy/lucky

[kylee2437]

They probably sense that your compliments aren’t necessarily meaningful and also sense that you feel like you are better than them. Just because you don’t find them attractive doesn’t mean you are better than them in any means. There’s nothing worse than a person that throws around compliments that they don’t really mean and only say to seem like a good person

[Anonymous]

I guess it’s high chance because of this “The attention wasn’t sexual but of intense curiosity that might become sexual.” Coming in too strong might make anyone uncomfortable and get their guard up.

[Guy13]

To her if done in class she will be pleased. I assume you will be happy with a positive reaction too.

[Anonymous]

Unattractive to whom?

You?

[Asker]

Of course you would say that to dodge the real question I am asking.

[kylee2437]

@asker it’s a genuine question. You are just mad that you are getting rejected by women you aren’t even attracted to. That’s what happens when you are an insincere douche, it back fires on you

[Asker]

@kylee2437 looking at your profile you actually look precisely like the type of woman I am describing.

Also in the real life example I gave above really did happen. She did literally beg me to give her a second chance. She realized she ruined a good opportunity when she woke up the next day. She said “I don’t know why I act that way. You literally did nothing to deserve being called (what she said).”

So no your ego protecting theory that “I am mad that woman I don’t ever find attractive reject me” is absolutely false. Rather I wonder why these fat women self sabotage themselves in exchange for a brief sugar high moment of feeling “hot enough” to reject someone.