Is it being responsible? Or earning more? Being emotionally more stable? What do u seek in a man.( be urself while answeing the question dont sorta lie to please others )
Women What differentiates a boy from a man as per you?
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A guy is a grown dude I don't see as man enough or uhm don't take serious enough to be honest. Someone I wouldn't waste much time on.
And a man is for me a grown ass person who has his shit together. Has respect towards himself and others (respect includes a lot of things like no reasonable hatred, especially against women what we have a lot on here, being able to communicate and stand your ground and also respect different opinions and just decent normal human behavior overall), intelligent, financially stable yeah sure won't hurt, independent and also self aware
Well legal age obviously and his attitude to stuff if something doesn't work out and his first response is to get mad. His level of maturity as a person as well as emotionally. Knows the true value of stuff regardless of outward experiences. He's willing to learn and ask questions accepts his faults and learns from them I guess. Doesn't make his partner second guess stuff. He's willing to commit to stuff. He's respectful, kind, comfortable with himself he doesn't need 500 females to validate him but he also isn t a douche about it. He tried to improve himself, he believes in hard work and he makes everyone feel comfortable being around him. He's not afraid to show the world who he really is. He protects his partner physically and emotionally.
Honesty it All boils down to maturity level. Maturity falls into the Bounds of being self aware of others and your effect on the world around you. A MAN is a Mentality. Being respectful of others. Admitting when you’re wrong. Being able to communicate on a level that is compassionate and endearing. But also not taking crap from anyone who tries to disrespect your well-being. Or damage your mental health. Being self reliant but also knowing when to ask for help. Being able to hold a full-time job is more than just the money. it’s more than just a career. it’s you being responsible for what you know you need to do. And as for the boys the maturity is not there they feel no need to have a job no sense of responsibility no sense of others and respect they trying to be selfish and self-absorbed and only concerned about the next Dopamine cookie (I. e. doing something just to feel good) So honestly if you’re not mentally there you’re not a man. think about that
Emotional maturity, accountability, not shirking responsibility both for himself and for those who count on him to be a contributing member of the world. He knows that rules are necessary for society to function. He doesn't rebel for the sake of rebelling. He conducts himself decently and doesn't just do whatever he can get away with. He takes pride in who he is and acts like a man, not because anyone is trying to control him, but because he sees value and integrity in it.
It's being more mature, taking responsibility for things and another big thing is not being insecure. Guys who are real men don't pitch fits when they don't get what they want. Guys who are men don't let insecurity dictate the decisions they make. Guys who go around doing the whole alpha, beta, sigma card are children to me and not men. Boys need to grow up and men are already mentally grown.
