You have the ability to create life, you have inherent value because you can create life. Shunning this makes you less valuable to the community. I don't make the rules.
You're making things up. Wether you like it or not, making babies is your calling. Fighting to defend my tribe so you can have babies safely, is a man's duty. Not everyman is out there fighting are they?
Its not my duty to birth children. Ok, how about i have a child that I don’t want and that I won’t love and how about i abandon it because i never wanted it in the first place. Is that good for you?
Who hurt you? It is your biological duty to do so. Yes, in the end you choose, but you were made for it. You're incredibly lucky to be born in this time and place where it is not only acceptable, it is practically encouraged. So don't have kids, you're likely to regret that though.
Exactly, i would 100000% regret my child if i had one. Exact reason why im not having them. I literally don’t have an interest in kids. They are for people who have love for them. I do not🤷🏼♀️
Ey, little story. When i was working at the movie theater, this bitch had three little devils. I said have a good day, she left silent and so... so... SO QUIETLY PISSED. Her eyes had regret, her cheeks said i made a horrible mistake and her aura said she wish she could go back in time and not have these little bastards. Oh and the aisle they were on was littered with peanuts and popcorn
Ewww omg dude I don’t blame her. Listen to this, my friend, had a baby a year ago. I saw her about 6 months ago and she literally admitted to me that she regrets motherhood and her child. She told me she wants her life back. Why should i have a child just to make myself unhappy and resent the kid? That isn’t fair to myself or to the kid. Please scroll through all these comments. So many men are commenting saying that a woman’s duty is to bear and raise children. Absolutely disgusting. These men are exactly like Andrew Tate if you heard of him… absolutely disgusting how people are calling me selfish because I don’t want to commit to something that is a HUGE responsibility.
Curious when you say bashing. Who is doing that bashing? Who’s business is it anyway? I am sure my parents would like grand kids someday but they have never said a word about it to me.
On another question someone posted about kids, i commented and someone else commented to me and said im selfish and heartless for not wanting kids. I listed 20 reasons why, he said they are not valid
Ah, of course it's him 🙄 Yeah, that's pretty stupid, I'd ignore it. You'll still be contributing to society via your job. Not nearly as much by any standard but it's better than nothing. I wouldn't say you're heartless either, that's a big assumption to make.
I think having a career and being financially stable is the most important thing in life. I can contribute to society by helping people and their animals…
Yes, in life. You will always be a single person doing the best you can and that alone is admirable of anybody. A mother can create many fully fledged human beings who can all contribute in society, the work of many vs the work of a single human being. I see your point also which is why I said it's better than nothing. You're working on yourself, you'll be helping others too. That's also important, you're right.
It's more common for men to not want kids than it is for men to want them. So I find it hard to believe that women not wanting kids is villified by anyone but religious extremists and baby crazed women.
And you don’t hafta. That’s why I said encourage not force. Women who are married with kids report to be happier and have more purpose. I’m a widow when i I lost my husband I certainly lost some purpose so I get that. If you want women to be happy you’ll encourage them to do the things that bring happiness. Don’t force them to do anything but encourage
Yep exactly. If you scroll through the comments, tons of narcissistic mysoginistic men are commenting and saying that a woman’s duty is to birth children. Scroll through all these comments. Another guy told me that a woman is incomplete without kids. Absolutely nasty thinking! Men don’t need to go to war either. That isn’t their responsibility, it’s a choice. I understand if they don’t want to risk their life and die…
Incels? on G@g? NEVER seen that before 🤣🤣... some people are like one dimensional bots with middle ages mentality... A man / woman is an individual who has their own life and standards... Some people ( including women lol ) choose not to have children for many reasons... They realize it's a big responsibility and they're not sure about it or they simply don't have the capacity for it and choose to live their life light and peaceful.. And at current times I'm pretty sure less people is BETTER for society and earth lol... And hardcore gender roles are kinda outdated.. I wish these people would realize that humanity has moved on and not everyone is a stupid farmer lol...
To discourage it becoming the norm, since that would be the end of our species. The extent of "bashing" should be limited, but the behaviour also can't be encouraged.
You are calling kids as gross lol wait till your dog eats its own shit and tries to hump you 😀 PS kids grow up and possibly stop being gross but dogs can't.
@Aakash_Hangargi lol, not all dogs hump not all dogs eat their shit. Dogs who eat their poop, it is called a condition which is called copraphagia. Humping, can be fixed with training. Dogs are cute, kids? Nah, not so much!
@KrakenAttackin yep i would! Since i care about myself more and i value my privacy and money to myself. I value a career over kids. Kids to me are a nuisance and would hold me back. No thank you.
What’s the point of life? A great career? More money? A corner office? Having abortions on demand?
No, the meaning of life is creating new life — it’s the only thing that really matters. Anyone who doesn’t like or want children likely has deep seeded issues.
A woman without a maternal instinct is wholly unnatural.
@Brittanyroseee certainly no one is forcing you to like children or have them. The worst are people who don’t like them but have them anyway.
I was expressing my opinion that I think it’s a bit queer not to like children. And I use queer in its original meaning.
I never said that the only value of a woman was to reproduce but it is the most important one — it’s the reason all of us are here. And a man’s job is to support his wife and children but certainly he has other values. but none as important
Great! Then don’t date someone who doesn’t want kids. No biggie! And i can find a man who doesn’t want kids either😁they do exist! My brother and sister in law hate children, instead they have a cat and 2 dogs!
Both women and men are meant to have kids. It's seen as weird cuz they're litterally going against nature so probably why people hate on those that choose to be childfree.
I don’t want to be a mom. Do you not understand that kids are a HUGE responsibility and a HUGE commitment? I don’t want to commit my life to that.. sorry!
You don't like kids. So safely assume that you don't like yourself when you're kid.. than why don't you kill yourself when you're kid? Bkoz you don't like kids. Just curious.
@Mafia24 ok, how about i have a child I don’t want and won’t love and i will end up unhappy and i will abandon it. Do you want me to do that? Cuz I definitely can!!!
@mafia24 by the way my friend had a baby a year ago, and she told me she regrets her kid and motherhood. Im not gonna put myself through that. You can have kids, but I don’t want them sorry
@Apple1996 how about i have a kid I don’t want and won’t love just to please society and in return make myself extremely unhappy then abandon the kid. How about that. Does that sound like a plan?
I think it's not correct women love children and this is their nature and we can't deny it, if any woman want to become free of kids, I think it's a matter of time till she realize what she missed
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You have the ability to create life, you have inherent value because you can create life.
Shunning this makes you less valuable to the community.
I don't make the rules.
I don’t give a fuck. Im not a breeder cow.
There is no rule stating i must birth crotch gremlins
The rules don't state you have to. But that your inherit worth is tied to it. A woman is incomplete without children for that is her purpose.
That is completely false. I can be complete without brats. I hate infants and kids. Never liked them. I don’t have to like them either sir.
You remind me of andrew tate..
You see women and reproductive machines, not people with feelings
You're making things up.
Wether you like it or not, making babies is your calling.
Fighting to defend my tribe so you can have babies safely, is a man's duty.
Not everyman is out there fighting are they?
Its not my duty to birth children. Ok, how about i have a child that I don’t want and that I won’t love and how about i abandon it because i never wanted it in the first place. Is that good for you?
No, i will not have kids. Im not gonna make my life miserable
Who hurt you?
It is your biological duty to do so. Yes, in the end you choose, but you were made for it. You're incredibly lucky to be born in this time and place where it is not only acceptable, it is practically encouraged. So don't have kids, you're likely to regret that though.
Exactly, i would 100000% regret my child if i had one. Exact reason why im not having them. I literally don’t have an interest in kids. They are for people who have love for them. I do not🤷🏼♀️
Just because woman are able to produce children doesn’t mean they need to…
“Making babies” is not my duty or my calling lol. Having a career and making money is my calling 😂😂😂fuck them kids bro
The simple truth: because it's counter-nature.
People are naturally inclined to like kids and to make kids.
The biological purpose of an adult if to ensure their offspring.
I don’t like kids and i really despise infants. They are not cute. Their gross
I like animals:)
Kids are animals.
No their not, their crotch demons
I won’t ever have them!
Natural selection, then.
My friend had a baby last year and told me she regrets it lol
Remove the baby from her, and guess the response.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1vcqMD5duiQ
Someone needs to have the same pain as that parent... so make babies so you can suffer with parent. :D
I literally feel like a lot of parents are stressed and hate their lives 😂
Mom’s literally admit they regret motherhood 💀
Shiiiiiet, i bet they do. Being pressured into such a thing because everyone told them it be great is so full of shii
Having a child looks like hell. Why would i want to do that?
I don’t want that commitment
Ey, little story. When i was working at the movie theater, this bitch had three little devils. I said have a good day, she left silent and so... so... SO QUIETLY PISSED. Her eyes had regret, her cheeks said i made a horrible mistake and her aura said she wish she could go back in time and not have these little bastards. Oh and the aisle they were on was littered with peanuts and popcorn
Ewww omg dude I don’t blame her. Listen to this, my friend, had a baby a year ago. I saw her about 6 months ago and she literally admitted to me that she regrets motherhood and her child. She told me she wants her life back. Why should i have a child just to make myself unhappy and resent the kid? That isn’t fair to myself or to the kid. Please scroll through all these comments. So many men are commenting saying that a woman’s duty is to bear and raise children. Absolutely disgusting. These men are exactly like Andrew Tate if you heard of him… absolutely disgusting how people are calling me selfish because I don’t want to commit to something that is a HUGE responsibility.
Curious when you say bashing. Who is doing that bashing? Who’s business is it anyway? I am sure my parents would like grand kids someday but they have never said a word about it to me.
On another question someone posted about kids, i commented and someone else commented to me and said im selfish and heartless for not wanting kids. I listed 20 reasons why, he said they are not valid
Who was it?
@letuswaltzforthedead go back on the other post. Look at painusNdeeAnus comments towards me
He literally said im selfish and heartless because I don’t want to contribute to society by having children
Ah, of course it's him 🙄
Yeah, that's pretty stupid, I'd ignore it. You'll still be contributing to society via your job. Not nearly as much by any standard but it's better than nothing.
I wouldn't say you're heartless either, that's a big assumption to make.
I think having a career and being financially stable is the most important thing in life. I can contribute to society by helping people and their animals…
Yes, in life. You will always be a single person doing the best you can and that alone is admirable of anybody. A mother can create many fully fledged human beings who can all contribute in society, the work of many vs the work of a single human being. I see your point also which is why I said it's better than nothing. You're working on yourself, you'll be helping others too. That's also important, you're right.
That's fine but don't complain about not being married... Those things usually come together as One.
I don’t want to get married!!!
Also not all men want kids! My brother and sister in law hate kids and instead have pets!!!
I think intact, multi (2 o 3) child families are essential. They are free not to do it, but I think Government out to induce it.
I don’t want a family lol
Im good on that!
It's more common for men to not want kids than it is for men to want them. So I find it hard to believe that women not wanting kids is villified by anyone but religious extremists and baby crazed women.
Sure don’t vilify but we need to encourage women to be moms again
Not all want that tho
And you don’t hafta. That’s why I said encourage not force. Women who are married with kids report to be happier and have more purpose. I’m a widow when i I lost my husband I certainly lost some purpose so I get that. If you want women to be happy you’ll encourage them to do the things that bring happiness. Don’t force them to do anything but encourage
Thats not true. I read tons of articles that single women with no kids are the happiest..
I wouldn’t be happy with kids. I would hate my life lol
This is demonstrably false every study confirms the exact opposite.
Completely not true. I know people who are 30s, 40s, and 50s with no kids and they are glad they are child free
Kids are not the goal in life.
People are smart for not rushing Kids in this economy why choose to live in poverty with children.
It's like when men refuse to go to war and such... Society and its " expectations "...
Yep exactly. If you scroll through the comments, tons of narcissistic mysoginistic men are commenting and saying that a woman’s duty is to birth children. Scroll through all these comments. Another guy told me that a woman is incomplete without kids. Absolutely nasty thinking! Men don’t need to go to war either. That isn’t their responsibility, it’s a choice. I understand if they don’t want to risk their life and die…
Incels? on G@g? NEVER seen that before 🤣🤣... some people are like one dimensional bots with middle ages mentality... A man / woman is an individual who has their own life and standards... Some people ( including women lol ) choose not to have children for many reasons... They realize it's a big responsibility and they're not sure about it or they simply don't have the capacity for it and choose to live their life light and peaceful.. And at current times I'm pretty sure less people is BETTER for society and earth lol... And hardcore gender roles are kinda outdated.. I wish these people would realize that humanity has moved on and not everyone is a stupid farmer lol...
Exactly!!!
My friend had a baby last year with her boyfriend. She thought it was something she wanted. She told me she now regrets it
Same happened with two people I know... I love kids but only for a couple of hours... I swear having kids is what makes people grow old lol
To discourage it becoming the norm, since that would be the end of our species. The extent of "bashing" should be limited, but the behaviour also can't be encouraged.
Because as a woman, you were put on this earth to bare and raise children.
Nope, its year 2022. Im not a breeding cow!!!
Nope, you are just a "strong, independent" woman, who will always be followed into the bathroom by your cats.
@KrakenAttackin that is the life i want!!! I love animals! I want both dogs and cats😍😍😍😍not screaming messy gross kids!!!
@KrakenAttackin why judge? I don’t want kids🤷🏼♀️ who cares!
You are calling kids as gross lol wait till your dog eats its own shit and tries to hump you 😀
PS kids grow up and possibly stop being gross but dogs can't.
@Aakash_Hangargi lol, not all dogs hump not all dogs eat their shit. Dogs who eat their poop, it is called a condition which is called copraphagia. Humping, can be fixed with training. Dogs are cute, kids? Nah, not so much!
@Aakash_Hangargi i would rather clean cat litter and pick up dog shit vs changing a babies diaper and cleaning up after their messes
Just as well, you sound like you would be a shitty mother anyway.
@KrakenAttackin yep i would! Since i care about myself more and i value my privacy and money to myself. I value a career over kids. Kids to me are a nuisance and would hold me back. No thank you.
Because they want to control what we do with our bodies..
What’s the point of life? A great career? More money? A corner office? Having abortions on demand?
No, the meaning of life is creating new life — it’s the only thing that really matters. Anyone who doesn’t like or want children likely has deep seeded issues.
A woman without a maternal instinct is wholly unnatural.
You need help if you see the only value of a woman is to reproduce
I can’t help that i find babies and kids annoying as shit.
A career and being financially stable is more important to me than marriage and kids!
Im not a breeder cow. I will not be bearing children to please society
@Brittanyroseee certainly no one is forcing you to like children or have them. The worst are people who don’t like them but have them anyway.
I was expressing my opinion that I think it’s a bit queer not to like children. And I use queer in its original meaning.
I never said that the only value of a woman was to reproduce but it is the most important one — it’s the reason all of us are here. And a man’s job is to support his wife and children but certainly he has other values. but none as important
I can’t help what i like and dislike sir
It's okay if a woman doesn't want children. It's a. Option not a rule.
I like those who dont want kids. I dont want kids. So thats a match.
The world is already overpopulated.
The only people who do that are women who have aged out of their ability to have kids and regret it.
There are tons of women who don’t regret it😂i would regret my child if anything. I don’t like kids and i especially hate infant babies.
I'm not saying there aren't. It's just that the women who do are the ones warning about it.
Great! Then don’t date someone who doesn’t want kids. No biggie! And i can find a man who doesn’t want kids either😁they do exist! My brother and sister in law hate children, instead they have a cat and 2 dogs!
Good for them
Both women and men are meant to have kids. It's seen as weird cuz they're litterally going against nature so probably why people hate on those that choose to be childfree.
Still weird asf. It’s 2022, not the midevil times…. Women are not breeding cows.
If i don’t like kids, I won’t be having them🤷🏼♀️why would i have something that I don’t have interest in?
It doesn't matter what year it is we are still all humans
And? That doesn’t mean i need to birth crotch demons. You can, I won’t!
I will not be having children
@Apple1996
Absolutely... if you remove boobs & hole than you girls don't have anything to offer...
@brittanyrosee
So your mom did mistake by giving you birth? By your logic your mom should don't give you birth. No?
My mom gave me up for adoption @mafia24 LMFAO
@mafia24 having a child would be a mistake and huge regret for me
Ahh so you're product of someone's mistakes? Do you know your real mother?
Yes i know my biological mom and dad. My dad didn’t want me😂😂😂😂
I don’t want to be a mom. Do you not understand that kids are a HUGE responsibility and a HUGE commitment? I don’t want to commit my life to that.. sorry!
You don't like kids. So safely assume that you don't like yourself when you're kid.. than why don't you kill yourself when you're kid? Bkoz you don't like kids. Just curious.
@Mafia24 when i was a kid myself, i hated other kids and i disliked babies….
@Mafia24 sir, why does it affect you so much that I don’t have an interest in kids?
@Mafia24 ok, how about i have a child I don’t want and won’t love and i will end up unhappy and i will abandon it. Do you want me to do that? Cuz I definitely can!!!
@mafia24 by the way my friend had a baby a year ago, and she told me she regrets her kid and motherhood. Im not gonna put myself through that. You can have kids, but I don’t want them sorry
@Apple1996 my friend regrets motherhood and her child💀💀💀
@Apple1996 how about i have a kid I don’t want and won’t love just to please society and in return make myself extremely unhappy then abandon the kid. How about that. Does that sound like a plan?
You need doctor help...
Repeating same things again n again
@Mafia24 you need help for thinking women are only here to serve you by birthing out crotch demons
Okies. Thanks..
Now please fuck off.
Coz you know how women is, nobody want them in the work place.
I think it's not correct women love children and this is their nature and we can't deny it, if any woman want to become free of kids, I think it's a matter of time till she realize what she missed