Girls, Why is it she can talk to other guys and be herself but with me she is quiet?

[andre-48]

I've noticed she will make a small conversation when the 2 of us are alone. But she seems so quiet. But with other guys she can talk so easily and seems more confident.

But she doesn't have a problem with walking over and standing somewhere that puts her in my vicinity.

[Kori1236]

She could be nervous. In a group she doesn’t have to directly talk to you, but it includes you and her in a conversation. So it may be easier for her to speak with you.

[andre-48]

Why would that be the case?

[andre-48]

She seems more herself when talking to other guys. I've seen it in person, but with me she seems a lot quieter with me. She and I have spoken a few times before. She has sat next to me before, stood in group situations with her feet pointed/angled towards me. Even the other day I noticed she was standing somewhere nowhere near me. Then she randomly started moving towards me and randomly stood somewhere closer to me, almost next to me.

It's just hard cause she I acting so quiet towards me. Almost I think she is avoiding me. But then she says things to me like " how did you go with trivia?"

[Kori1236]

That still sounds nervous and she’s attempting to come out of her shell but is unsure. Just give it time and don’t rush things.

[andre-48]

Why would she be nervous around me? It's like she has gone into her shell a bit around me

[Kori1236]

She may be interested in you and trying to navigate her way around that. Or there’s also the possibility that you don’t vibe but your familiar so she gravitates but doesn’t engage in much conversation

[andre-48]

I do actually like her too. But when she and I cross paths we always look at each other

[andre-48]

Do you behave like this towards guys?

[Kori1236]

No I’m more direct, if I like someone I just outright tell them. I don’t have time to play games lol

[andre-48]

She just seems nervous to the point like she doesn't like me all. But then when we're alone she asked me " how did you go?". Meaning how I went in the trivia game. She was at the trivia game too but in another team. So I know she tries conversation. But at the same time she is way more laid back with other guys at the group but me it's different 😔

[Kori1236]

I don’t know. Like I said it could be she likes you and is just shy but trying or she’s not interested and trying to make conversation. Just let things progress naturally. You could try asking her to coffee or something

[andre-48]

I noticed a while back out of nowhere she willing came over to help me with something, then she started standing next to me and angling her feet pointing towards me. I have noticed recently we've made some eye contact that has lasted slightly longer than normal.

[Kori1236]

Those are good signs. You could be upfront with her and ask her out

[andre-48]

But if she is just trying to make conversation wouldn't she treat me the same as everyone else. I also messaged her and I noticed she read my message i sent the night before at 5am. Then she replied at 3pm later that day. So I know I must has crossed her mind if she remembered to reply to me like 10hrs later

[andre-48]

It's just hard to ask her out, cause with her quiet behaviour towards makes me feel she doesn't like me

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you make her uncomfortable and it would be easier for her if you just go away but she is too nice to say that.

[andre-48]

I've only been nice to her. She even came over and stood closer to me. I was walking to the toilet and she was at her locker and she looked at me as I walked past her. She then said to me " how did you go?". She was referring to the trivia game, she was there too but in another team