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I've known my best friend for over a year now. We met at work and at first I was a little scared of her because she is so loud and says it how it is but she was the first person to notice me and make a effort to be my friend.
I love her like a sister and think she's amazing. She's so funny, kind and will do anything to help others. She's not had the easiest life yet she gets up everyday and tries to be positive and better herself and that's why I love her so much.
One of the best friends I've ever had and I really want her to be happy she really deserves it.
She's 24 like me and I know she really wants a boyfriend. she's asked guys out but constantly gets rejected. She nearly got with one lad but turns out he only wanted her for sex.
If I'm totally honest as cruel as it sounds she has a massive four head and big teeth and she's aware of it and very self conscious of it but besides that she's a beautiful girl. She wears a cap or a beanie whenever we go out but she's also very self conscious of her body because she's very skinny and wears big hoodies.
She ends up pulling more women on nights out then men unfortunately because of the way she dresses. I want to offer her a makeover but I don't want to try and force her to change who she is and she might not take it as me trying to help.
I've also recommend to her getting a full fringe but the hours we work it be so much maintenance for her.
She also really only likes the pretty boys and fuck boy's too and I've told her this but I also don't think she should lower her standards because she is a great person why shouldn't she be with someone who is also a catch.
She dances, goes to the gym, plays musical instruments and works really hard so you can't say she doesn't work on herself.
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Of course nobody is liked by EVERYONE so one thing to point out is that your friend will find a boyfriend at some point. I also struggle to find a girl and felt like I'm unattractive (and still hasn't completely get over it but I try) but that's not true. I love how she's asking guys out regardless of been rejected. I just can't express how much I love people who ask the ones they like out! So she should never get discouraged and keep doing that! Of course, there are always things we can work and change.
First of all let's start that that "she's loud". Yeah, the guys who told you that are right. In general, we want a sweet girl that's easygoing and not someone that feels like we have to "deal with". I don't want to feel like I constantly have to be careful of what I say or what I do so that's one your friend to understand and fix.
Second thing is the guy's she attracted to. Don't get me wrong. I said to another post that attraction is a BITCH!!! We are attracted to the "wrong" people because they are hot. It's not that every hot person is wrong but almost always the wrong people are hot af. These "pretty boys" and "fuck boys" are the boys every girl is attracted to. I'm talking about the tall, stylish, naughty looking, fit with big shoulders, blue eyes etc. guys. The equivalent of the "hot girlfriend" guys are attracted to. For that reason, your friend will either get rejected (because they can find hotter ones) or she'll get "used" just for sex like she already did. It's not wrong to be attracted from these people but your friend should really understand that (show her this comment and made her read it herself) and try to not be attracted from these people unless someone has other PERSONALITY traits that show that he's hot but he's not a "bad boy". That's up to her. A true "catch" is not about looks but about personality. We all think of our friends (I also have a friend that I LOVE as much as you love your friend) like they are a great catch and that they are awesome but we are not the ones to date them so be careful with the standards you approve your friends to have. I don't know how this sounds, no offense. I don't think that people should lower their standards but I also think that standards should be in things that do matter.
Third thing. Been super skinny (or even slightly skinny) would be a reason I would reject a girl even if I liked everything else about her. It just looks so so bad. And I know that with fat people (which been very fat is also bad), it's not easy to lose the extra pounds but with skinny people is so easy to put some muscle and some fat to not look so skinny that your friend should also do that. She'll also probably feel better physically (and probably even mentally). So please, please, please, tell her to do that! I know some people cannot put weight, DM me (I think you need to follow first) if that's the case, I'm willing to help.
Finally, a relationship needs maintenance and sacrifices. If she's not willing to spend 1 hour per month for a proper haircut, plus 10 minutes every day to make her hair, then how does she thinks that she'll be able to be in a relationship? Do you know what a relationship requires? We all hate doing some stuff but we have to! That's how things work. With this logic, I also don't want to work out and take care of myself. I don't want to trim my beard, I don't want to cut my hair, I don't want to work, I don't want to shower, I DEMAND to have sex 24/7 and do EVERYTHING I want, I DEMAND to have the food I want and when I want it, I want a girl to approach me and put my out of the hard place, etc. Imagine if everyone did that! We would be FUCKED! So your friend needs to put some effort. Remember that when we want someone, we see what he/she can offer us. That's how attraction works.
I don't think that your friend must feel like she needs to be a different person. The truth is that she must change some minor things and wait. The right one will come. Good luck!
I am also an acquired taste. It may not be easy but she will find somebody if she can be receptive. I dated someone who was just average in the looks department. We became friends and hung out a lot and after a while I began to fall in love with her. I think as time went by she got better looking to me.
Well, I'm single 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She also lives in the UK
A little far though :)