This girl I like has a boyfriend but I think she may like me, can I get peoples opinions on this?

[Anonymous]

My reasoning for this is the following. She talks to me first 90% of the time, if i "ignore her" she comes and finds me. She seems to say very caring statements. Her friend/co-worker literally spoke to me for one hour about her and other topics but states she had a boyfriend, told me very personal things and also sounded like her boyfriend is not putting much effort into there relationship. i'am in no way trying to steal her from him but what i really care about is why did her friend/co-worker tell me personal stuff like ger financial situation and how it's kind of a one way relationship. I would appreciate any advice. Maybe she is just very friendly girl, i'am not too sure.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes friends overstep their boundaries, and I think that’s what happened. She’s being a blabbermouth and saying all this stuff that’s not really her place to say. If I were you, I wouldn’t put much more thought to it because that could lead to something else like trying to open the door to dating, and you don’t wanna venture down that road while she’s taken.

[Asker]

i was very confused why her friend was telling me all this information. i'am not the type of guy to open the door down that path. If she is in a shit relatioship then that is for her to end it. I'am bummed she has a boyfriend but i was shocked at what her friend was telling me. really.

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly her friend was out of line. I’ve had friends do this numerous times and I think it’s because they’re lacking things in their own lives to talk about that they just want to gossip. It’s wrong.

[Asker]

I kind of want to tell her (the girl i like) what happend but then sometimes i think "oh maybe she did this on purpose". I don't really know. I mean even if she is in a bad relationship i cannot do anything about it. Today i went to where she works but i was in and out quick, she told me happy new year, but i didn't really stay for conversation. I don't know if i should continue to talk to her like normal or kind of cut the convos down.

[Opinion Owner]

Personally I wouldn’t, it’s better to just cut down on the talking I’d she brings up her friend rather than risk getting in the middle of anything.

[Asker]

thanks for all the advice i appreciate it

[Yesdarlingmoon]

you make her feel safe, you're probably her comfort person. it may be platonic.

[Asker]

Would you have any clue why her friend/co-worker told me all this personal information about her, etc?

[Yesdarlingmoon]

it could be two things; in a friend to friend way just giving you an update about the troubles in her life cause they may the friend type to talk too much (which i may kinda doubt thats it tbh but I don't know, if they seem that way thats your answer) or she told her friends about you in a non Platonic way and they r hinting to you that things aren't going well so you may get the idea to make a move on her.

[Asker]

Well in all honesty I'll just be myself and see where it leads too. I don't want to be awkward and stuff

[slatyb]

"You THINK she has a boyfriend?" Ask her out. Duuuh.

[spartan55]

Don't be a POS. Wait until she is single

[Asker]

i'am not like that. yeah i will have to wait but why was her friend telling me all of this stuff, just seems weird.

[spartan55]

Her friend had no business doing that and you should have recognized that.

[Asker]

I didn't like what her friend did at all actually. It's disrespectful

[spartan55]

I agree.