Any time I noticed a girl that I've been around a lot who completely avoids eye contact, and I notice the lack of eye contact and glances, it's been women who have like me, and women who I've liked me. And even if they flirt and I can just tell that the like me, I'll sometimes think "maybe she just isn't as interested as I thought". But I'll notice them looking away really fast if I catch them looking.
One girl I worked with would avoid eye contact excessively, and if I caught her looking, she would look away really fast. She was normally outgoing and had male orbiters everywhere she went. Trying to talk to her felt like trying to mix oil and water. When I got a new job, a few people told me she told them she liked me was really upset she won't be around me anymore.
I tried to talk to her and I told her I wanted to keep in touch, but she was always busy, and would barely respond. If eye contact is so awesome, why do shy women struggle so much with eye contact when they like a guy, and actively avoid eye contact? And why do they often reject a guy's advances? It seems like they be thrilled and relieved if he makes a move.
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Here’s my two cents. Sometimes eye contact makes us girls nervous. I’m not quite sure why as I’ve almost never avoided eye contact. I guess sometimes it makes girls feel insecure. Also, mostly the rejection is because girls think you won’t like them back after finding out some things about them or because they feel like they “don’t deserve” love.
If you know these things then stay close and be nervous with them so that they know who she is... is okay with you. Pushing is exactly the opposite as "I'll never be what he wants me to be" comes into play. WHEN one likes one of the fragile sweet shy ones it is damn frustrating... slow to trust but forever loyal types most often... Good luck !!