What does it mean when a cute skinny girl smiles at me?

[Anonymous]

I am fairly fat and ugly. But this cute girl smiled at me. What could this mean?

[Anonymous]

As a "Cute" & "Skinny" girl (myself). I would be uncomfortable. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone, who compares me to myself as something more perfect... As if they would rather be me, or even envy me. Dating a person, who fat shame themselves while staying next to me... I could never satisfy them with enough love & trust in a relationship. Their Ugly appearance isn't the problem, but rather a person's personality is very Toxic.

I also hated it as a child when being bullied... I know a cute & skinny girl can still get bullied too. Back to what I hated; I hated when other people decided who I like & who I didn't like. Even when they get a crowd of people to tease/humiliate me in public about "assuming" that I had a crush on this guy... When I did not. No matter how many times I told everyone how I feel... No one accepted my true feeling, & who decided that they knew me & my feelings? Seriously.

My advice to you is: Don't assume that this cute & skinny girl has a crush on you. Especially, when you just in a toxic way called yourself fat & ugly. Do you only want someone, who is cute & skinny to love you? Then expect them to be cute & skinny forever? Do you truly feel more confident staying next to a cute & skinny person, or is that confident feeling that you are getting right now... The REAL F* reason that you smile... Was because someone was Kindhearted towards a Fat & Ugly person like you. As if you don't deserve a friendly smile from another human being.

I know your pain of insecurity. I may not be fat & ugly, but I am very insecure. I'm always alone, & no one truly interacts with me unless they carried an ugly heart. Then I'm begging God to make this terrible person leave me alone, so I can have my peace & quiet again. However, if someone were to interrupt me from my peace & quiet asking if this seat was taken... Then sure why not have company from a stranger?

If they were curious about me & begun talking to me while showing a friendly smile... Then I am truly shocked. SPEECHLESS! Actually... Why me? You could say that the first time I walked into a room... I was a beautiful girl, but reserved & not even smile. However, the moment you express yourself & smile, or even if you were to laugh... That individual, who was just looking around their surrounding & saw you laughing for the first time & enjoying yourself as if you are now having a great time, & to them that looks like fun. You seem like good company, & and you are also kind too. Which makes you cool.

You just need to be yourself. Don't let people judge your appearance & don't be afraid of rejection. It will always hurt like getting stabbed with a knife to the heart... It will never stop, but at the very least you could do at that moment is to take the 2x movie tickets you bought when you invite that friendly cute girl to watch this new exciting movie that came out... if she doesn't show up... you should buy all the snacks you love, & enjoy the movie alone, or with a good friend. Go have fun. Be the reason why you can Smile. Then go on a date with another girl... doesn't have to be a date either. Just look around your environment see a girl, and start interacting with her... like a new friendship... maybe you both will have a great friendship that could be a relationship. Why does it have to be this cute & skinny girl who just smiles at you? Seriously, You can fall in love with anyone... Even have a little Crush on a guy... Bromance!

No more fat-shaming yourself. If you accept that you are ugly... don't expect someone else to take full responsibility for telling you how beautiful you are, or if they still love you Day 26. Insecurity can be very toxic over time if you can't accept yourself... Why would the person you love believe that you truly accept them? If you did have a cute & skinny girlfriend... What if she went bald, gained weight over time, lost a tooth, or needs one of her legs cut off to save her life... Do you think she is still cute with only one leg?

Forget about whether or not this cute & skinny girl likes you. What you should put your focus on is loving this girl, who smiles at you... By accepting her still if she lost an eye and got a fake one. If she has imperfect skin cut her wrist or thighs... if she was poor... Seriously, cute & skinny... you don't have to be a confident guy... just stop fat-shaming. You basically admitted that if a fat & ugly girl smile at you... You don't think about how beautiful her smile was, or if she could have a crush for you... Because she isn't the "cute" & "skinny" girl. Seriously which girl will you prefer if the cute & skinny girl, or the fat & ugly girl? If both girls smile at you & had a crush on you... would you talk to the pretty one first then go to second best... Sorry that I hurt your feelings to the girl who is ugly & fat compared to her... I was being a D* chasing the skinny girl... no you aren't that fat... you are beautiful to me... yes she is a cute girl, but you are more intertesting than her... Do you see my point? You need to fix your point of view on that cute & skinny girl that you are crushing on... You need to convince her that you see her differently than other guys do. Also, who cares if a cute & skinny girl smiles at you? What if she wasn't that cute & she was 200lbs... & she was the one who smile at you?

[Cynicaldreamer]

That you shouldn't overanalyze or assume anything. Lots of people smile as a courtesy, because you look their way, or even en passing, such as walking past them.
For example, at my job, they encourage us to smile at patients and our coworkers if you're within looking distance of them. It makes you appear more approachable and friendly.

I'm not trying to burst your bubble; I'm just being realistic. You should have said hello to her when she smiled at you and asked how her day was, or attempted to start a conversation with her.

[SnowedIn]

It means she smiled at you and is a thoughtful human.

[Subarugirl]

It means she smiled at you, some people are just smiley. I smile at people at people all the time for no reason other than politely or because I’m in a good mood