i haven't seen her in almost 7 months but she's normally around this area May> Aug so unless she has other plans she might be back in this area and so is a good chance i'd see her again.
the whole ghosting seems so weird as i though we got along fairly well most of the time but i was never entirely sure what was going on between us and i still honestly not sure.
so if i see her again it might be weird or maybe it won't be that weird i'm not sure to be honest
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Whatever you do... just make sure it's weird... FOR HER. (as it should be).
Don't let it be weird for you. Have fun with it! You can... smirk at her; you can look at her and then spit on the ground in disgust; you can just look at her while slowly shaking your head. Anything like that. Something to make HER feel like a total jerk. Because she acted like a total jerk! (Don't you dare let this shit be weird FOR YOU. Nah man... she's the one who ought to feel weird. Help her to do that)
i get what your saying , i should try and make the moment memorable
Yea man. Have fun with it. If she ghosted you... then fuck her... have as much fun with it as possible (short of... anything criminal).
i might see her at this bar on st patricks day but will be random and no way of knowing if i'll see her or not , she was there a couple months ago and i like just missed seeing her that night. i don't want to put too much though into it as it may not happen but i kind of hope i do see her and find a way to make it fun
What you need to do, is to come up with your "plan." Know what you're going to do when you see her. Figure that out. Then whether you see her for St. Patty's day, or if you run into her by surprise down the road... you'll be ready. Because you really only get one shot. The first time you see her. So be ready.
i know , will think about it tomorrow
I hope you make her feel awkward as fuck. Maybe she'll think twice before ghosting someone. Make her regret it, and give yourself a bit of fun. Good luck. 🙂
i agree she needs to regret this and realise just how wrong this situation is and that she should of done things differently but i can only push her so much , but it is st patricks day so we'll both be drunk right?
indeed. It would be ideal for you to see her some other time. But if you're both drunk on St. Patrick's day... so be it!
i did see her there but only for a couple seconds , she walked by with a girlfriend and then was gone , never saw her again that night but its weird some of her other friends did stay.
might of still made things awkward , i checked out and hit on one of her girlfriend's and tried to talk to another one at the end of the night when we were all leaving.
but didn't get to talk to her
Well sorry you didn't get to talk to her. But depending on how "clearly" you two saw each other... you may still be able to contrive a nice awkward moment for here the next time you meet. Maybe not.
But I hope you had a good night anyway man
i guarantee things will be awkward whenever we do finally talk again , i'm pretty sure my attempt to talk to her girlfriend will have annoyed her and that my presence at that bar seemed to bother her , so just by being there and making contact with some of the people she knew might of got to her
hahaha, fucking right dude! This made me laugh.
Is this the woman who worked at the bar?