How come I can’t find a girl that likes to relax and unwind on a Friday night after a week of work , that likes to have a few drinks and just relax?

[Finchie40]

It seems every girl I date and start getting serious with ends up raining on my parade after I worked all week , Fridays , I come home and get shit done around the house and then I sit on my patio and crack a few beers and bullshit with my brother over the phone and I listen to music or make a fire , it’s like the second I am having fun and relaxing a girl that I am dating does not like me having fun? Why is that? What am I doing that is so wrong? I could be doing a lot more worse things but I am sitting on my patio like I am this horrible person for unwinding , I don’t go out , I barely like going out I feel more content and safe at home , and the girl knows I do this and she was accepting of it in the beginning but all of a sudden I become this asshole to her because I like to relax and unwind? What am I honestly doing wrong?

[Anonymous]

Well, if girls can't handle your Friday night relaxation routine, you gotta take things to the next level. Instead of sitting on your patio and having a few beers, why not turn it into a wild party? Invite all your friends over, blast the music, and start a bonfire. Make sure to have a lot of drinks and snacks on hand, and watch as your girlfriend's head explodes from the sheer amount of fun you're having. And if she still doesn't like it, just tell her that she can stay home and knit sweaters or whatever it is that she likes to do. You do you, buddy!

[Finchie40]

Oh yea I had friends over last night as well drinking with me and she still bitched , it’s like I can’t win , girls are never satisfied what so ever

[Juxtapose]

You're not doing anything wrong, she's being weird.

Think about it, if you couldn't get away with stopping her from having a relaxing Friday then why should she be able to get away with doing that to you? Make sure you stand up for yourself and set clear boundaries.

[BoobSlayer]

You should relax and unwind with a boob in your mouth.