Why do women believe they are perfect just as they are and have unbelievable standards?

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CaptainOverthink · Accepted Answer

Not true for all.
But for the ones that do act or use that reasoning.. I think partly it has to do with social media, dating apps and other 'new' tech that ultimately delivers mainly validation. Also echo-chambers online where all people do is agree.
And then the way women in friend-groups often overdo positive comments on selfies and seem most-often unable to openly and directly pass on critique.

But most if all..
It's the fact that there are SO many thirsty, standardless men out there that will say and do anything to try to smash or get approval of girls. In today's world there will always be a cohort if men out there to take their shot if given the chance.
I'm not just talking about lonely men here, they di their part signaling with likes, comments and simping.
It's also fuckboys and other more succsessful men that could go around smashing but putting no real standards on the girl because all they saw was a nice butt and a pretty face and didn't care to digg deeper into anything but her kittypouch.
And honestly, if I was good enough to about like that I probably would too. It's nature, though not all would.

Women are the natural gatekeepers. Men needs to be diciplined into being picky if they are to be at all. We are generally too steered by our hornyness and too blinded by their looks.
Men that have healthy standards for girls must be good enough at holding high standards on themselves otherwise they probably won't get their first or second pick.

Life is not fair and never has been. Fairness is human creation and the closest you'll get to it is in sports and games.
In reality we work on our decided edge and improve upon ourselves for our own sakes, if we're any smart.
Men generally get no compliments, no encouragement and usually has none to tell them any better growing up. Most guys work from bottom up from the get-go. We are usually not born with looks good enough to charm our way into bed. Everything is earned by enduring pain, hardships and lonelyness. Most of us learn from an early age that we are in-fact, not perfect.

This is not a rant. And I am generalizing at 4 in the morning. G'night, peace out.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

This would be 100% factual if you prefaced it with something like "Most Western women" or the like. By making the argument too general and making it literally "all women" you open your argument up to a shit ton of 'no true Scotsman attacks. With that said, I'm not going to be like I'm sure others will do, and just say you're wrong because of some specific example that somehow is supposed to prove your concept entirely wrong. So I'm going to pretend we're talking about one particular woman... lets call her Stacy.

Why does Stacy think she's perfect and has unbelievable standards? I'd blame modern feminism... not equal rights and the right to vote type of feminism... I'm talking full-on female supremacy. She's perfect living in a world where women are so perfect that even all the sub-par men are now growing some tits and pretending to be women... doing shit like winning their scholarships by beating them at all the sports. She probably has a damn president that hires men just because they identify as women. (You see where I'm going with this?) In this society, she will rate herself a 10, the simps will rate her a 10, and all her female friends will rate her a 10. Nah man, hell no, she's actually a fucking 4. She has no idea that 6 figures from a man is kind of not the norm at just 21% of men... then add age, add height, and dick size... that % gets smaller and smaller... but for some reason, her dream man is the R&B dude on television. Makes me wonder if Will Smith has the mark of the beast with all the sixes, but he still got cucked and cheated on didn't he... and isn't his kid trans.

Yo I know this shit is long, I'm just free writing while I'm trying to drink myself to sleep because I got to get up in the morning. I'm just going to stop being all logical and shit and break my answer down to this...

It's because they're full of shit.

SakuraBlossoms87 · Accepted Answer

Most women don't have "unbelievable standards". The average woman wants a guy who isn't a douchebag and who'll contribute to a relationship and potential family.

There ARE women who have "unbelievable standards" but that's only because there are a number of dumb/desperate men who are stupid enough to put what are typically overly attractive but dimwitted shallow women that ultimately would contribute little to a relationship or a potential household than looks and cheap sex onto a pedestal.

Most decent / respectful women look for good personality in a relationship.

Nowadays, particularly in America, men look for a cheap screw & wonder why when 100 of their peers are approaching the same cheap-screw woman they're turned down.

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A friend & I did a social experiment on online dating last year.

I made a real profile & used my real photos. I am not unattractive but I am educated, successful and I would contribute actual value to a relationship beyond looks & sex.

My friend made a fake profile & used her modeling photos. They weren't overly revealing but still. And there was nothing on her profile except hi, will fill out later.

Statistically men - men oftentimes divorced so they didn't learn much - approached her 5 to 10 times more than my profile. And American men wonder why decent & respectful American women who'd contribute to a household want less & less to do with them.

xoxooxoxoxo · Accepted Answer

what u call unbelievable standards is the bare minimum

if u can't accept urself for who u are and be fine with it then u have a deeper problem because if u can't accept that people are okay with who they are and say well aren't u mr/misses perfect blah blah blah u constantly hate urself then and ur not okay with urself. enough of hating women and change urself. women have never been the problem if its a mental/emotional/insecurity problem that u can't fix urself. just because u can't provide to a woman and to insecurities instead doesn't mean its a womans fault. u are literally telling a woman she is PERFECT for not having to deal with any of this she literally deserves an emotionally mature person.

ilovelamp · Answer

Social media is one factor. Inflating ego's to be mountainous even if they've done nothing to earn it.
The other part of this is simply brainwashing. Through TV shows, programs, movies, magazines and more. The extremist "feminist" ideologies.

So you have women doing less and less, while their ego's are also being constantly inflated on social media, bigger and bigger.

Further details outline in this~
https://www.bitchute.com/video/Hmo5ehaX1TwQ/

Vegasrunner · Answer

Excellent question. The first thing you have to understand is that women are painfully insecure and unless you've ever dumped an attractive women you'll never realize how insecure they are. Because they're so insecure most people are afraid to tell them unflattering truths (there's an excellent question on here that highlights this fact) over time this lack of truth turns to delusion and then it turns into "their reality" So over a period of time they become convinced that they're better than they actually are and of they think they're better they believe they deserve better. That's why average women believe they're going to get a top tier guy to be faithful to just them.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

"Tomisworthless" suggests that you have NO confidence or self-esteem. If so, then you probably feel that you fall short of ANY woman's requirements. That doesn't mean that their stardards are unbelievably high. Perhaps you should look nward instead of blaming women for your problem.

Pinay_ako · Answer

I never ever believed I was ever perfect nor I am now. I’m more flawed and far from perfection. My standards aren’t unbelievably high and my feet are on the ground. I don't know who and what made you come up with this ridiculous claim generalizing all women but whoever hurt you, hurt you bad for even thinking this way. If you keep thinking this way, no woman will ever take you seriously.

PraviteliNahuiValite · Answer

You're probably not intimidating enough by the sheer size of your balls. Learn from Angel Merkel. But be a gentle giant and use them like Big Mike says "I'm a lover and not a fighter."

Anonymous · Answer

Because they can plain and simple. I've explained this to women and men alike.

Women only find 10% of men attractive.

Conversely men find about 50% of women attractive and depending on the guy can actually be as high as 80%.

So being a woman when you know your dating options are 50 to 80% of the opposite gender you can afford to be pick. VERY PICKY!😆 While if you're a guy knowing only 1 in 10 women will even find you attractive (and by the way you can still screw it up by saying or doing the wrong thing. Because women are HIGHLY judgmental) you realize you can't be very choosy.

BlissfullyCurSed · Answer

Actually, there are more men with unbelievable standards than women. However, thanks to social media and dating apps, people have started nitpicking. Everyone's looking for perfection, meanwhile no one is able to live up to the standards of modern day. Don't dwell on it. You are fine.

burlen · Answer

It is inaccurate to generalise that all women believe they are perfect or have unrealistic standards. People's self-perception and expectations in relationships vary individually and are influenced by personal experiences, cultural backgrounds, and societal norms.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

Do tell: What do you consider unbelievable standards?  Should I translate that to: “I expect all women to fall for me; and since they don’t, I attribute unreasonable standards to them?”

Catsdaddy24 · Answer

Because they have been preparing for you as apposed to just being who you are as a guy, expectations should always be a failure to oneself as if they know exactly what is best for them, there's the obvious and then there nothing you ever knew was possible, that's what you live for, perfect = Ying and the yang

boombastik · Answer

Because they wanna be by themselves as far as I'm concerned. Many don't bring anything to the table but then expect you to meet everyone of their standards. But then they be letting the body count add up thinking nobody knows frfr

Spongebobssocks · Answer

You are basing all this on Youtube podcats and instagram/tiktok not real life. And they usually ask "who is you IDEAL partner" not what their mimimum standards are

Siri137 · Answer

That's a bit of a generalisation isn't it? Here's another one: why do men believe they deserve our attention in the first place?

Uannoyme · Answer

We do? News to me. I don't believe I'm even close to perfect, nor do any of the women I know.

fonduegirl · Answer

And your bold statement is based on your ex girlfriend, I presume?

slatyb · Answer

They don't. They just know they deserve better than you.

Rangers · Answer

Because for the past 20,000 years, all men have done is sacrifice everything for women, now they have a sense of entitlement but we keep giving it all to them

Unit1 · Answer

Too many spineless boys kiss girls asses insincerely. There is a reason OnlyFans is a successful business and generates millions of money.

BungusHighFivePizza · Answer

Because the next guy will still screw them if they had the chance.

msc545 · Answer

Arrogance entitlement and apparently a nearly complete immunity to the standards to which men are held. That's enough to make anybody believe that they are special in some way that mere males are not.

Anonymous · Answer

Most women are extremely insecure about most things all the time.

Jazzy54 · Answer

LOL not this woman. 😂 I’m well aware of my shortcomings.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

They don't. A lot of women are absurdly insecure and have basically no standards.

imogenwoods · Answer

some do, some don’t. don’t tar us all with the same brush.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Because they have spent to much time being brainwashed by feminists

Chthou95 · Answer

Social media and stupid ass simps are the reason. Women dont have to make improvements because the simps will be there to tell them they're perfect

Anonymous · Answer

Called freedom to think and do what you want.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are the females who have the right to demand from the males who are going to make living and they take care of his babies.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I know lots of women who are not high maintenance wannabe divas.

imawfulatusernames · Answer

What are you considering as unbelievable standards?

Usernamestinks · Answer

Because some men out them on a pedestal. They shouldn’t, they are human. Work on yourself!

Greenbins · Answer

It's social media, the internet and today's society... it's brainwashing women to believing they are perfect and all men are beneath them.

Anonymous · Answer

“We must deceive them, so as not to hurt them, and in that way, we honor them” -Ancient Greek Philosopher

sravmr123 · Answer

I believe it's due to the amount of attention they get from both men, friends & family.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think I'm perfect, I have wanted to kill myself many times because of the way that I look lol

mb120101 · Answer

Delusional if you think girls aren’t insecure

RavVid · Answer

Egoistic narcissistic delusion.

Agape93 · Answer

Unbelievable standards? Like what lol

TheSimFans · Answer

No some do but other do not. is all fake.

annabananna · Answer

Because my daddy told me so 😂

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, but they're pussies taste amazing

Abbielh93 · Answer

Stop tarring us all with the same brush…

Christoff92 · Answer

Generous Love and Appreciation

Deserter · Answer

Simps delude their thinking

Malwi93 · Answer

Only perfect women can be like that

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