I started dating my boyfriend 4 months ago and we really hit it off. The chemistry and everything is there, and he's a sweet guy. The only thing is that he hasn't gotten a job yet and has been looking since we started dating. He just graduated from college, is living at his parents now, and is looking for a job as a financial analyst. I know it's tough, but I'm also getting tired of paying for every meal and for everything we do. Lately, we've been chilling at home watching TV shows to save money. I've been trying everything to help him find a job and we haven't heard anything. I've been spending all my time with him on the weekends since he is long distance so I haven't been able to spend much time with my friends since I work long hours during the week. I feel like he's holding me back because of the money and the friends. I don't know how much longer I can wait for him to find a job close to me. Plus, last night he went out drinking with his friends (his friends buy him the drinks) and it makes me feel like he's not working that hard to find a job. It's already been 4 months where I've been supporting him. It would be nice to be actually taken out on a date... I really love him but how much longer should I wait? Or should I take a break from him?
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