So my fiance wanted me to go hiking with him and one of our coworkers they I was ok with the idea and agreed
But quickly realized I wasn't a fan of hiking with them
They are both in better health than me they were wearing shorts and tank tops I was wearing leggings and a long sleeve tshirt and I was the only one with a backpack because I decided to bring like water and stuff because I didn't know how long we would be gone and yah I can Carry more weight but I'm not great for long distance because my stamina is poor and I fucked up my ankles so many times that if I'm not careful how I step I'll roll them again
Don't get me wrong I can certainly walk at a normal pace without a problem.
But they were both speed walking up steap hills and so I was starting to get out of breath which is fine I don't care other than I don't like people hearing me breath heavy. We walked over 10 k
And any time I'd slow down for a second one or the other would slow down with me and fiddle with some plants or start walking around me or trying to carry my back pack for me which I would tell them to fuck off o can carry my own bag.
Or whichever hung back would say your walking slow
I honestly just wanted to scream "than fucking leave me here I don't give a fuck I don't need your help your pity or you running your mouth I will take my own damn trail and you fucks can sprint for all I care." But I didn't I'd say I'm fine just hot it didn't help that I know our coworker thinks that I hate her and I don't hate her she just isn't my bestie is all.
I honestly just wanted to be left alone them constantly dancing circles around me was a big hit to my pride I used to love hiking when I lived in the desert but I just hated myself and them the whole time and couldn't enjoy any of it
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I think you might have a pride problem that you should work on because letting something so simple hit your pride means you are over prideful but either ways I believe they were just hovering around you cause y'all went together and y'all should stick together, after all some dude learned that the hard way when he went to the desert and had to cut off his hand cause he went alone and refused to tell anyone where he went but yea trouble in paradise lol
I just don't like people helping me it makes me feel week and I actually like being alone when I went hiking in the past I was always alone I never took anyone with or told anyone but I just felt humiliated
Why tho? So now walking fast makes you strong 😆
What type of logic is that, you are hiking with friends, it's not a competition, you seem to have been the only one seeing it that way and that's a very prideful mindset, next time just have fun and throw away all those competitive thoughts, the truth is not everyone can hike, it doesn't make you weak, it just makes you human that you have imperfections because the truth is that they most likely have imperfections on things you can do easily.
Now before you explode on me, I meant not everyone can hike as good as others, I'm sure you had good hiking experiences on your own
I was more annoyed by them floating around like buzzards repeating shit like your walking slow your slow.
If your so worried about my speed then leave I'm fine with being alone and I'd rather be alone than constantly being told I'm not doing good enough
Lol well their comments were unnecessary but you can ask them why they are rushing? That there's no prize at the end of the route ha
When someone offers to help carry your bag, let them. Hiking is all about teamwork and watching out for each other. Don't let your pride get in the way.
I didn't need help I was fine and gone most hikes alone I didn't want there help I wanted to be left alone and to stop being told I'm to slow
"I was fine.". There you go again. No, you weren't fine. You will struggling. And that's perfectly OK! You don't need to be Macha Woman 24/7, hon.
were, not will. Sorry