“Boss chicks aren’t feminine enough”. Guys, would you date a boss chick?

[Pinay_ako]

Ladies, what is a boss chick to you?

[RavVid]

Are Strong Independent Women (SIWs) boss chicks? I don't know but close enough I think. Mostly I prefer outer suburban girls as they more femme and cooperative.

Recently i did take out two SIWs and I am never going to do that again. They were inclined to power play. As much as their bodies were in good shape I lost interest in exploring either of them.

One of them had me helping her find her car for an hour as she randomly ran in different directions she thought her car might be. Would not accept my advice that she had parked on the level above and said "You can't tell me what to do".

As much fun as it was watching this, eventually I peremptorily told her to follow me and she reluctantly did, complaining "You will get lost" the whole time. After I led her to her car, she said "I was hoping you'd be wrong" in gratitude.

I think she was angry as an SIW, that men have a specialized spatial processing center in our brain that women, SIW or otherwise, just don't have.

I'll stick with the suburban girls now.

[fonduegirl]

She sounds stupid. We should always get help we need. It's not even about men and women.

Imagine you go on a tour. And instead of following the guide, you say you've done your own research and you don't give a F about the guide's instructions.

If you get lost, which you will, it's your own fault.

[strateguy632]

i'm sorry to hear that. luckily actual bosses n managers usually separate job from relationship. they know they are not at the office.

[RavVid]

@anon1903 It was crazy - she was paniced crazy. I do think it was a problem to her that she was geo-locationally when the man she was with wasn't. Strong emotional reactions can make you silly.

[RavVid]

@strateguy632 thanks but no big deal.. Actual managers are different.

[fonduegirl]

I don't think we had strong emotional reactions to blame. More like, getting carried away with the notion of supremacy.

[fonduegirl]

Of course they are! They get paid for it!

[fonduegirl]

Lame joke.

[RavVid]

@anon1903 I would sat the notion of supremacy was a strong emotion

[fonduegirl]

Agreed.

[Tomisworthless]

Modern day women are trying to become the men they want

[fonduegirl]

Romantic relationships are in fact overrated.

[fonduegirl]

Don't get me wrong — they are important.

But nobody really dies alone.

And a lot of people in marriages and children, THEY STILL LEAD A VERY LONELY LIVES.

[Pinay_ako]

Yes 🙌

[Haha456]

A man who won't date a woman smarter or makes more money than him is just an insecure man. Not a real man. A lot of boss chicks that I know of look hot af because they can afford spa treatments, nice cosmetics, manicures. The unattractive shabby girls tend to be the ones working in fast food or supermarkets.

[DermalPunch]

Why can't you be a boss and be feminine? Being driven and goal-oriented doesn't mean you need to emulate a man.

[magiusX26]

exactly but these days many believe one IS the other of those 2.

[Tomisworthless]

Ambition is a masculine trait and women are becoming masculine without realizing it. Being a boss bitch who doesn’t need a man is a women who herself already the man

[DermalPunch]

@Tomisworthless wow! You're wrong.

[DermalPunch]

@magiusX26 yes, I blame feminism.

[magiusX26]

@DermalPunch as do i, as well as a few other such mindsets likey derived from feminism too.

[Tomisworthless]

Feel free to believe what you will !

[coachTanthony]

If she looked like that sure but most boss chicks don't look like that.

[fonduegirl]

What's a boss chick?

[fonduegirl]

You seem to know.

[coachTanthony]

@anon1903 Someone who is in charge (professionally) Could own their own business or be a VP at a company.

[fonduegirl]

What's wrong with that? We all eat, we all consume things, shouldn't we all earn too?

[coachTanthony]

@anon1903 Never said anything is wrong with that. Many though are masculine in those roles and tend to take that masculine energy home with them. Men don't want masculine energy it's unnactractive.

[fonduegirl]

How's leadership masculine?

If that's not what you meant, do elaborate.

[coachTanthony]

@anon1903 Women with too much masculine energy shows excessive masculine energy traits such as competitiveness, aggressiveness, and dominance which bode well in the workplace. She is often very independent, goal-oriented, and directive. She is usually not very emotional or expressive and can be quite harsh and unyielding. All these are great for VP of a company but not attractive to a masculine man.

[fonduegirl]

Excessive of anything is problematic. Again, has got nothing to do with women in particular.

[coachTanthony]

@anon1903 masculine women are excessive in their behavior that is why we don't like em.

[fonduegirl]

And who conducted that study? Oh that's right, a misogynist.

An overgeneralised statement. Aww.

[coachTanthony]

A preference is not misogynistic…grow up

[fonduegirl]

Preferences can be unjust. You should know better.

[fonduegirl]

Preferences are biased.

[coachTanthony]

@anon1903 Yes when women say men they don't want men under 6 foot that is unjust but still their preference. No such thing as equal opportunity dating.

[fonduegirl]

That's unjust too.

[fonduegirl]

I'd say if a girl judges a guy over his height, something he has no control over by the way, she should be dating a pole instead.

[coachTanthony]

@anon1903 I disagree. We all have preferences and shouldn't be judged for them.

[23liz34a]

@coachTanthony when your preferences are unrealistic and put down other people, of course you get judged for them. It's a bit hypocritical how you say you shouldn't be judged for having preferences, yet you judge others

[coachTanthony]

@23liz34a Who are others? Who are they? Who have I judged? Or do you just make shit up?

[MidnightOwl57]

"boss chicks" "women with masculine energy"
So many stereotypes here

[coachTanthony]

@MidnightOwl57 LOL they exist so not sure what you are referring too

[SaoirseS]

@coachTanthony. Interesting thread. I don’t know what you mean by “masculine energy,” but if it has anything to do with taking responsibility and accountability then I’ll gladly own it. Having good people and fostering a collaborative work and home environment isn’t exactly masculine.

[fonduegirl]

@SaoirseS couldn't agree more!

[MidnightOwl57]

@coachTanthony
No such thing as a masculine woman. Anyone, who either has two XX chromosomes or identifies as a woman, is a woman period. The idea that all women have to behave a certain way and men in another way, is just social conditioning. No behaviour, talent or hobby is intrinsically attached to either sex

[fonduegirl]

@MidnightOwl57 preach.

[coachTanthony]

@MidnightOwl57 LOL. The planet is full of them.

[TruthBringer]

No I wouldn't.

Simply because their priorities are often not what I seek in a woman. I date women who prioritize companionship and family over trying to grind up the corporate ladder or revolve their lives (or even their identities) around their career. These are often women who try to compete with a man's masculinity and authority. If you think you can compete with a man and take on masculine roles, then remain single or date some effeminate loser who likes to get dominated. After all, you "don't need no man", right?

Good luck trying to date a dominant masculine guy who got his shit together, you're only going to clash with him. If you manage to get him to commit, in the first place. Often these men find feminine women who are willing to submit.

And I do the same. I only date feminine women who finds traditional family values more important than trying to please the feminist movement. I only date feminine women who finds having children more important than slaving away at a job for an expensive Louis Vuitton bag.

And I am happy to say, I have found me that woman and life with her could not get any better.

[TruthBringer]

@Gentleman900

"gOd hElP tHaT wOmAn yOu aRe dAtINg oR mArRiEd tO"

Ah yes, the classic ad hominem approach because someone got his feefees triggered😂. Jokes on you, mate. My girlfriend (who is with me for years) is very happy to be with me and actually shares my views in life.

"lIkE wOmEn cAn'T hAVe pAsSiOn oR aMbiTiOn"

When it comes this little strawman argument of yours, where you're putting words in my mouth: I never said women can't be ambitious. I simply stated I would not date a woman who prioritizes a career over starting a family. It is no secret that women who choose a career for materialistic things over creating a family are generally more miserable than women who put less emphasis on grinding the corporate ladder but rather place more importance on creating and maintaining their family.

Fun fact: Passion and ambition can be found outside of career. Meaning you can have passion and ambition for things that aren't work related, genius.

[TruthBringer]

@Gentleman900 Mad? Triggered? The projection is Palpable! 😂😂 Funny how you call me these things when it is YOU who came to my comment section uninvited and starts throwing ad hominems around. Marriage between my girlfriend and I is something we have discussed and planned for when the time is right for us. But good to know you're so triggered that you're not butting your nose in a relationship that is none of your business.

Tell me again how you're not triggered? lmfao!

Yes, women can have careers, I have family members who have careers. SO does my girlfriend. They don't place that over family and call themselves "boss bitches". There is a difference, buddy. Your strawman arguments don't work here.

Stay mad because a guy you don't agree with is in a relationship. Only envious and bitter people hate on other people's relationships and you seem to fit the shoe.

Pent up anger? Somebody is mad because he can't get a girl and has to white knight over the internet. So my guy is throwing shade at other men who are happily in relationships with women who happily share their world views. Stay mad, loser 😂😂

[TruthBringer]

@Gentleman900 The guy throwing shade at other people's relationships is calling other people out for not being raised right. The irony cannot get more intense than this 😂😂

You seem so fixated on my personal love life. A tell-tale of an envious person who doesn't have one himself. Like I said, marriage is something we both have discussed that we will do when the time is right. Now is not the time. Plenty of people who are together and marry when things are most suitable for them. And marriage at 25 for a guy is often considered too early even though I believe that highly depends on everyone.

I know it hurts your brain that an "asshole" like myself manages to get with a woman and keeping her happy for years while you're virtue signaling over the internet with no success. Keep on malding, my guy. Go sort out those issues instead of throwing shade at other people's relationships

[TruthBringer]

@Gentleman900 I didn't put my personal love life out there. I only mentioned my preference in dating and that I found someone who fits my preference. It is YOU who starts throwing shade at my relationship, start asking questions about details that don't concern you.

And even now you're still trying to dig for information like the CREEP you are 😂
If you actually had a healthy relationship like I do, you would know that communication and planning a future together is key. Whether we are married now or not is irrelevant and none of your concern. Plenty of people who aren't formally married living a happy life together. Go be a creep elsewhere, loser.

[Gentleman900]

I married one and I wouldn't trade her for a million "feminine women". My wife is career driven, strong, fearless, and definitely doesn't play any type of games if you know what I mean. That's what I love about her! My thing is, why not date a "boss chick"? Most answers would be "She's too strong", and "She emasculates me" and my response would be How? How can a girl emasculate you? If she does then that means you are not secure in your masculinity. Now, I don't have anything against the division. People have different tastes or whatever. The funny thing about it is, men use that "feminity" card to degrade women. Why do you think most men hate women who are considered strong? "Strongness" from a woman scares a boy. Keyword, boy. A REAL man who sees"s "strongness" in women shouldn't be angry at her or afraid. Don't believe me? I saw this video with this sista back in 2017. I would never forget this video. She was doing a podcast with a few sistas and brothas about relationship boundaries. The question was asked "How do you feel about second chances after someone cheated?'' One of the ladies said "No second chances for me. Once you do something I do not like, it's a wrap". Went to the comments and this guy said "The lady wearing the black jumpsuit (The outfit she had on) is too strong. It would be hard for her to find a husband". What ladies fail to realize is that men love soft women because they let their bullcrap slide. A boss chick or a masculine woman? not gonna let that happen. Why do you think dudes hype up pearl so much? okay.

[ShadezMcgee]

Oh, hell no. Hard pass on women like that. Those women are only good as partners in business, not a lover. I don't want to be in constant arguments or coming home to a continuous pissing match with a woman who has more masculinity and testosterone as a young man. Miss me with ALL of that.

Who in their mind wants to come home to a woman who not only acts like a dude, but can't turn it off or takes ages to calm down and relax? You as a man need to be twice as masculine as her to allow her to feel in her feminine. Who wants constant arguments, stubbornness, being bossed around and told what to do? No bigger boner killer of a woman than that.

[fonduegirl]

If a man doesn't want those traits in their partner, neither does a woman.

For the last time, this a war of sexes. Those traits are vile in ANY person.

[fonduegirl]

*isn't a war of sexes

[ShadezMcgee]

@anon1903 and you are implying that I am the exact same as the example I gave which I am not. I have dealt with women like this my whole life ranging from my own family to women I have dated.

They are not the most pleasant people to deal with. There is a balance and it is not easy finding women that are like that.

[fonduegirl]

"Who wants constant arguments, stubbornness, being bossed around and told what to do?"

That's unattractive in ANYONE. Why Target women?

[ShadezMcgee]

@anon1903 because the title of the question is in reference to a woman, number one. Number two, I am a straight man. That's why

[fonduegirl]

*straight men who hates women.

[ShadezMcgee]

@anon1903 once again, mistaken. If I hated women, I wouldn't have a girlfriend. If I hated women, I wouldn't have written myTakes and opinions defending them on decisions either.

So enough with the lippy responses. This is the second time within a two months you clapped out at me when I never addressed you all because of an opinion that I gave good stances and logic to.

[fonduegirl]

You do hate women. Unless they are exactly what you want them to be.

[ShadezMcgee]

@anon1903 incorrect again. Step back and read very carefully. I am not disagreeing with it being unpleasant in both genders. I responded according to the literal question posted by the asker and because of my sexuality being a straight male.

There are men here literally saying the same thing I just did on this thread. Do they all hate women? Bet money they don't. It has nothing to do with hating women, we just don't like those specific types, especially with relationships like I stated. Great business partners, not the best in terms of personality. I do not hate women.

You yourself even commented on the very myTake I made regarding women who define as "Boss ass bae amd how modern relationships" saying you respected my views. You clearly don't with the way you are coming at me now.

I do not appreciate your tone or your responses that are not only false, but also lining up with the very women that I defined in my original comment. You are being rude, aggressive, stubborn and refuse to listen to what I am saying.

So either be civil, or we are done here.

[fonduegirl]

You as a man need to be twice as masculine as her to allow her to feel in her feminine. "

Sweeping generalization.

I think in the myTake i agreed with, you were more tactful.

[ShadezMcgee]

@anon1903 so this is coming down to how I phrased it where you took issue then?

[fonduegirl]

Perhaps. I've known you for a while. Maybe we aren't exactly friends, but I haven't had issues before.

[fonduegirl]

If I sounded like a misandrist, I'd apologise too

[ShadezMcgee]

@anon1903 correct. All I know about you is the few back and forths we have had here. I don't follow you, but I know the type of woman you identify as.

And to be honest, the wording I used in my initial post was practically the same I used from the myTake about my whole stance on women like this and modern relationships.

I will not comment further on the misandrist point here, but I will say you have said things that honestly fall in line with one.

[fonduegirl]

I think we're done here.

[ShadezMcgee]

@anon1903 I would say so, too. Good day.

[strateguy632]

@anon1903 to ano content traits, yet many men are bosses (as lady complain no equality) and have girlfriends.

[fonduegirl]

@strateguy632 because that's the way it has been for years. It's hard to change traditions.

[fonduegirl]

@strateguy632 men and women have their differences. I admit men are better at a lot of things than I am. But leadership? Not a gender thing.

[TruthBringer]

@ShadezMcgee Indeed, they are insufferable and that's often because of daddy issues they have. They poke you with a stick because they want to feel your dominance, even if they know perfectly you're more masculine and capable of demonstrating that.

I've dated a girl whom at the time I didn't know had daddy issues. It's only during the relationship I sniffed it out. She would often act rude, annoying and demanding only to start acting submissive and even gets horny when I lashed out at her. It's because she didn't get her dad to put her in her place that she seeks that thrill in men, only to be toxic.

Glad I ditched her and am with a woman who appreciates my masculinity without feeling the need to provoke me to compensate for her daddy induced shortcomings.

PS: Stop wasting your time on @anon1903. Like I said, some women crave attention and energy they didn't get from their fathers. This girl is an example, purposely twisting your words just so you continue giving her reinforcement.

[mobiusforniner]

I think this is a misconception. Professional women are still women. If they're more independent and strong willed, its because they have to be. But theyre still women. Indeed I dated one and perhaps, the most beautiful thing in the world was seeing her fall into love. To everyone else, she was brash and "bossy", yet around me she would whisper, giggle and tremble with excitement when I touched her hand.

If anything its just harder to impress them because immaturity and mediocrity need not apply.

[fonduegirl]

Precisely!

[strateguy632]

my experience too, except when we held hands.

[fonduegirl]

@strateguy632 what do you mean

[Gentleman900]

Thank you, my brother!

[Lliam]

Nah. I don't want to boss her and I don't want to be bossed. I want to be a team, working together and being concerned about each other's happiness. I want her to have tender, nurturing, feminine instincts.

But I actually like a woman who is smart, thinks for herself, has career skills and is capable of supporting herself, or even runs her own business with employees or has a job in a position of authority. As long as she doesn't try to dominate me or act masculine.

[backdoorman]

It depends on how we're defining "boss chick". If it just means a woman who is in a leadership role in her job, that has no correlation to how feminine she is.

But if we're talking about the ones who self-label themselves "boss chicks", in my experience most of them are unpleasant and unfeminine in their personality, character and attitudes. I would not date one of those women.

At the end of the day, I want a woman who is kind and humble, who embraces her femininity (not talking about looks here) and knows how to treat a man well and foster a loving and respectful relationship with me. Most self-labeled "boss chicks" don't fit that description.

[Peter_Penetrator]

It takes a strong alpha male to date a woman that has to be alpha at work. She has to bitch up to get into an above or level playing field with male coworkers or subordinates.


You must be truly alpha enough that she can come home, feel safe, and not have to deal with a weak husband. Nor does she need to come home and be the “father figure” to their children or even her husband’s mommy.


I can bet, that these “boss women” would love nothing more than to come home and drop that persona and have a true man make her feel like a sexy, desirable, sexually charged, feminine woman should feel.


It is very difficult, however, for her to come home after a long day and feel sexually attractive. This is where a strong alpha comes into play because he must work really hard to open her up and to just allow her to be feminine.

[TruthBringer]

And that's the thing. They are playing a persona. It goes against their nature. Sadly for them, the 'Alpha males' often seek out submissive women who don't bring them headaches. They go for women who are naturally submissive and supportive. No 'Alpha' wants to come home to an insufferable woman and bother himself with having to shed her defences. That's why you often find these women ALONE. And who are in a relationship? The ones who are actually feminine and value family more than some career.

[glennos89]

Definitly boss chicks are 100% a turn off for me. I like femine woman that are submissive.

Boss chicks are way to masculine which is everything Im totally not interested in dating with. Otherwise I would have been gay probably but the thought of dating a guy makes me wanne puke🤢🤮

So to all the boss chicks out there...

Dont contact me because Im not interested in dating a chickdude

# No offense by the way

[fonduegirl]

I don't like masculine men either. I do not know whether I conform a boss chick or not, but a masculine men is kind of turn off. Traditional roles are particularly harmful.

No offense by the way.

[glennos89]

We totally disagree tbh.

The way I see it is simple... I do think traditionallity is the way to go. You have male energy and female energy and together they are the Ying and yang.

Sadly society has changed the turn tables around in the way that females have way too much masculinity and males have way too much femininity. That's what causes massive amounts of people developing identity problems.
Males feeling female and females feeling male. Relationships have many problems and divorce is almost guaranteed these days. 30 years ago that was the complete opposite.

The biggest reason for this shift in humanity as a whole is mainly because people are being teached to step away from there true identity. You have males that aren't mentally and fysically as strong anymore compared to the past. And you have females who are getting teached that they should persue careers and material wealth instead of nursering and being family oriented. That's not healthy at all and its the fault of schools and politicians essentially.

If you teach children that are very young that they should feel and behave like a vegetable, then they will try to become and feel like a cucumber or tomato essentially. Children are the clue in the society as a whole. You can either teach them to be themselves ( a boy has a penis and is therefore a male, who can feel somewhat female aswell which is fine.
But nevertheless they are born as males and always be males in their lifetimes no mather what.

The basic difference between males and females are biologically visible.

Males can't be females and other way arro
But what happens these days is that you teach children that are how they feel, so males can become females..
females can become non binary, or either males or females becoming a animal, which is blown out of proportions by me ofcourse. But you get the point im trying to make...

[glennos89]

And that essentially will cause massive depression, identity crisis, high suicide rates etc... Relationships are failing most of times now, reproduction as a specie has declined massively over the years and everyone who logically compares the past ( 20/30/40 years ago ) with the current time we live in notices that things didn't become better over that time period. The world right now is more miserable then ever before and collectively as a specie called we became worse in many many ways.

Or do you feel the world and society as a whole right now is in a better condition then 20+ years ago? 🤔

[fonduegirl]

Totally disagreed.

[fonduegirl]

I'd rather be a failure than a slave.

[fonduegirl]

Or do you feel the world and society as a whole right now is in a better condition then 20+ years ago?

There's many things wrong with the modern world. But I mean bad economy and deforestation and pollution. The gender thing? I think the swap is fascinating!

[NathanDavis]

women that were bosses and owners, yes I have...

"a boss chick" though... that I don't know, first I would have to know what she think that means, and if it actually matches a reality... lol

[TheIrishWolf]

I don't know... I've never met a woman like this. But I'd assume other men in boss positions would have to take her on. There's a possibility she is high-performing and competes like other men in a world that consists of other high-performing men. But it really depends. Work could be left inside the work building.

As a man, id like to lead the pack.

[motownplayer2000]

No. I don’t want a chick that’s as masculine as me.. even tho she is a biological female. Because I’m not going to put up with that shit. I’m not calling myself an alpha, but that isn’t attractive to me. Not in the least. And I love it when chicks who are that way say if the right man comes along I can be feminine. It’s not a light switch you can’t turn it on and off.. but yea, if that’s the case, I’d maybe fuck her, but it wouldn’t go further than that. She doesn’t deserve to be wifed down.

[RingOfFire]

I have no problem with anyone pursuing any kind of career or role in life that they choose. I respect women who are in positions where they are "the boss" (if they are worthy of respect) the same way I do men in such positions. Everyone is entitled to pursue their own dreams and desires without harassment. But it is unattractive to me on a personal level as I think many of the traits of leadership are masculine traits and I am not attracted to men.

[shades777]

I don't think women understand this very simple concept, men do not date women based on the job or business they operate or whoever they are "bossing".


Thats a point we should stop on because it seems to be very difficult for women to understand this and I want to know why they have such difficulty understanding this

[fonduegirl]

What about them? What if they want to pursue it anyway?

Men might have been lusting over power positions because the alpha gets all the girls, but women don't feel the same way about men.

Women in power positions, let me clarify, enjoy power. There's a good chance relationships aren't their first priority. Hunger for authority isn't uncommon. It's not a gender trait either. Some have affinity motives, some like power. Learn to differentiate, sweetheart.

Summary : we don't do it for men.

[shades777]

Power and relationships don't mix because men aren't one of your kids you can tell what to do whenever you feel like it. What purpose does a woman having power possibly do for the society in a meaningful way besides buying the latest fashion accessories

[fonduegirl]

Why can't it be partnership? Why do men lead?

[fonduegirl]

As you said, relationship and work don't mix. So why are women expected to obey and fulfill men?

[fonduegirl]

Latest fashion accessories? Hahaha we aren't that one dimensional.

[shades777]

It can't be a partnership because we are not equal. I've yet to meet a woman who dated down and was happy about it so that means they usually date up, when means in her highes the guy she picked is better.
Does that sound like a partnership or an upgrade?
Men absolutely have to lead because no woman will accept a man who follows in the relationship, respectfully

[fonduegirl]

That's just your theory.

[shades777]

No i said relationship and power don't mix, there's countless examples of when women have more power in the relationship the relationship automatically fails, making more money doesn't always equate to more power but if she feels she has more power its going to fail, not if

[fonduegirl]

You talk like you've every woman on Earth XD

[shades777]

You dont to believe me, you can do a google search and see countless examples, I say this if a woman has power the man in the relationship had to have power as well or more. I can't see it succeeding but good luck on the power trip

[fonduegirl]

The said relationship fails because men feel insecure dating a person who earns twice. It's a you problem lol.

[fonduegirl]

I don't have to Google. I see people as humans and that's more than enough.

[shades777]

its not about feeling insecure its that the woman starts treating you differently, when a man isn't able to do the things he's suppose to do its a problem, if a woman wants to be the provider does she also wants to protect? at some point women are going to have to accept they need men and quit all this independent nonsense

[shades777]

How many boss "bitches" brag about successful relationships, happy men, and families? not really one of their flexes huh. 😂

[fonduegirl]

Providers? XD. What era is this? What economy is this? One person working for a family, how unfair is that?

[fonduegirl]

Your theory harms men too.

[fonduegirl]

If you have to brag about a relationship, I bet it's a fake one.

[fonduegirl]

Relationship isn't a flex.

[shades777]

You based that on what, my reply? How many dates would you be going on if it came out your own wallet?
I've been on zillions of dates which means I've spent a lot of money on prospects.

Thats something a woman has the luxury of they seem to not realize. I go on a billion dates if I didn't have to come out of pocket for them.

You can literally go on a date every single day of the week and when said man runs out of money get another simp to pay for a meal

[fonduegirl]

Isn't that unfair for you?

[shades777]

It is to a boss bitch because flexing is the name of the game if there isn't any inherent benefit to a boss bitch being in power, power comes with responsibility, do they employ anyone? train anyone? provide jobs?
what exactly are they doing thats helping the communities, Thats my point. Its pointless power, its a flex and nothing more

[fonduegirl]

Wouldn't you like a woman who has stable income and pays for herself or takes turns in paying for dinner?

[shades777]

oh you never dated a boss bitch have you, so you dont know the truth

[fonduegirl]

Bold of you to assume they do that. Or can't do that.

[shades777]

you assume when a woman has enough money she will pay her half of the date but she doesn't, I can see how you came to that conclusion but their money is there and will still insist I pay, isn't that great. So Im over the boss bitch, she acts like she's poor helpless woman when its time to cough up some dough

[fonduegirl]

*don't

[shades777]

No i got receipts

[shades777]

Being a man is a lot harder than you think cupcake 😂

[fonduegirl]

"oh you never dated a boss bitch have you, so you dont know the truth"

And what's the truth? Keep the mansplaining out.

[shades777]

I find women who likes a man for him and not what he has tends to cough up dough more than the free meal chicks, in my experience

[fonduegirl]

So u said so directly that if a person earns and doesn't pay, you hate them.

I've a few friends who refuse to pay for their boyfriends, but they always pay for themselves.

So maybe don't generalize?

[shades777]

My little sister is like you, all she dates is guys is gets free meals but nothing comes of it, no relationship, no sex. She just uses guys and now she's damn near too old to be acting like a child

[shades777]

I never said I hate them, I just approach them differently

[fonduegirl]

I find women who likes a man for him and not what he has tends to cough up dough more than the free meal chicks, in my experience

So say you hate freeloaders.

[shades777]

I've gotten better at detecting free mealers, and there's always a better quality woman whos bout it bout it

[fonduegirl]

Being a man is a lot harder than you think cupcake

Never said it wasn't.

[shades777]

no man wants a free loader, would you?

[fonduegirl]

My little sister is like you, all she dates is guys is gets free meals but nothing comes of it, no relationship, no sex. She just uses guys and now she's damn near too old to be acting like a child.

Maybe you should teach her more about men and communication or she's gonna get in real trouble in future. It doesn't sound healthy.

[shades777]

imagine this scenario that i doubt you've gotten to experience, you pay for a date and he leaves.

So I do some screening to eliminate that from happening. Almost all the risk is in the man, which is why the man has to lead, just like in any part of life, the leader is the one accepting the risk, a woman who can't accept risk isn't a boss

[fonduegirl]

no man wants a free loader, would you?

Nope. And I wouldn't say "I hate a man who can't pay" I'd say I hate anybody who expects me to pay for all the dinner. Much less personal and much less hateful.

[fonduegirl]

I've gotten better at detecting free mealers, and there's always a better quality woman whos bout it bout it

You shouldn't be paying for them. Period. Unless you're taking turns at it.

[shades777]

I had a ex-friend who married an old white doctor, she flaunts all toys and acts like she's rich, she's what women today call a boss bitch but when it comes to her passion music, she's too cheap to pay for production and always trying to be slick, but she's a boss bitch, make that make sense

[fonduegirl]

imagine this scenario that i doubt you've gotten to experience, you pay for a date and he leaves.

I can't. I've never paid for anyone. It's 50-50. Unless you're my family

[shades777]

You got all the answers don't you, lol, women who are free loaders only do first dates, sometimes second dates.
Im just confused on the buzzword because i fail to see where the boss part comes in

[shades777]

See so you don't know what its like to lead, therefore you can't truly have power if your not risking anything

[fonduegirl]

I had a ex-friend who married an old white doctor, she flaunts all toys and acts like she's rich, she's what women today call a boss bitch but when it comes to her passion music, she's too cheap to pay for production and always trying to be slick, but she's a boss bitch, make that make sense

Why are you friends with problematic people? So you can prove your theories?

[shades777]

women who seek power aren't feeling to take the responsibility of what real power entails which is why nobody truly respects these type of people

[shades777]

No you claim I don't have experience on the topic but I just showed you, you haven't used any experience from your life, just hypotheticals

[fonduegirl]

"See so you don't know what its like to lead, therefore you can't truly have power if your not risking anything"

Risking everything? Lmao, yes you'd feel threatened if a woman pays for herself. LMFAO.

[fonduegirl]

You got all the answers don't you, lol, women who are free loaders only do first dates, sometimes second dates.
Im just confused on the buzzword because i fail to see where the boss part comes in.

My mom dated one such gold digger boyfriend. It's not a gender thing.

[fonduegirl]

No you claim I don't have experience on the topic but I just showed you, you haven't used any experience from your life, just hypotheticals.

Your experiences don't mean every word you speak is true.

It's your theory. I'll admit — it's true for some people and can be applied to some women.

But you're making sweeping generalizations based on your "authentic experiences".

[fonduegirl]

Oh, and by the way, I don't have problem if I find a terrific guy who let's me work and would want to do home making. Because guess what, equal rights, equal fights. I will work hard for him.

[shades777]

great you win, ✌🏾

[fonduegirl]

I'll take that.

[Tomisworthless]

It’s true, I’ve never been in a relationship or been respected by women because they all see me lower than them in worth.

[TruthBringer]

@shades777 Absolutely well said! Men don't look for a woman's career (unless she works anything controversial like prostitution or having an Only Fans of course). That's something women tend to look at when evaluating men. The mistake they make is projecting their own preferences and mate choosing onto men, thinking that just because they like a high earning guy with a high degree, that men seek that in women. Men look for beautiful, fertile, feminine women who are going to be a loyal & loving companion and not a thorn in their side.

[shades777]

Exactly, here's my advice for women that are in their 20's find a man in your age range or 10 years older and settle down, after you've built a family then set off to build your career that way your family grows and you can also focus on career or business goals, women in their 30s can do the same thing, 40's well I dont have advice for you but i wish you well

[fonduegirl]

Nope. Romantic relationships aren't my priority. Neither is career. Neither will be kids.

My only priority is happiness. I get that from books. So as much as I want to thank you for your super considerate, Amazingly sensitive, totally down to earth advice... I can't.

[shades777]

then that advice ain't for you then lol

[fonduegirl]

Thank you.

[SaoirseS]

I’m a business owner, manager, and leader. I’ve never had to sacrifice femininity to do it. Nobody has ever referred to me as a boss chick.

[coachTanthony]

Doesn't mean other women have not sacrificed it. There are plenty of women out there who act like a man and have very few feminine qualities about them. Nothing wrong with it men just aren't attracted to them. Not sure why people can't just accept it.

[worldscolide]

Absolutely not. Why would i date someone who is essentially an insufferable person? Literally every person who has used the "im a boss chick" phrase, has been toxic as fuck.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Your job doesn't impress me. As long as she spends less than she makes her paycheck is of zero importance to me. If she's fun to be around, takes care of herself and isn't high drama that's what matters.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Bossy as in chip on my shoulder isn't attractive to me in a woman at all.

And again these idiots that push if a woman is a boss or a owner of something that must somehow mean they aren't feminine. Morons.

A woman can never be masculine, ever. Morons.

[TruthBringer]

A woman can never be masculine indeed. However, plenty of them TRY to emulate masculinity and that shit makes them toxic as fuck. I'm pretty sure THAT is what these men are referring to. A woman who isn't masculine but still tries to act like one. I would pass on such women and go for women who are comfortable in their femininity like I already have

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@TruthBringer: I don't adhere to social philosophy BS that if a woman is competitive in life that means she's masculine and if a man isn't competitive in life then he must be feminine.

It's just all complete BS that people make up to box people in.

As long she's a cool and decent person I'm good to go.

I wouldn't give a damn if she owned 100 companies.

[TruthBringer]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy Whether you believe in social dynamics and psychology or not is your business. I'm simply saying that a woman who PRETENDS to be masculine and is putting up a persona that is not her natural feminine side, that she is a toxic individual and no man worth his salts is going to bother with such a woman.

Like you said, it doesn't matter how many companies she has. What matters is how she is as a person. A "boss bitch" is more often than not toxic.

[bolverk]

No, its not just that she is a 'boss chick/babe', there's a better than even chance her personality will be obnoxious, and will think that because she's a 'boss chick/babe' that it makes her something special.

[fonduegirl]

Why the assumptions?

[bolverk]

@anon1903 Not assumptions I've dealt with the like.

[fonduegirl]

I'm thinking same can be said about macho men.

But overall, fair enough.

[Summeroflove]

Depends. If a woman has just a attitude like she’s got something to prove. Ehhhhhhh no.



Now if a woman is just genuine and maybe she’s a boss or something somewhere. No problem

[kakaling]

If she has two faces when facing the public as a boss chick, and faces her loves one like a child, and it will make me feels like the special one, then it's a yes.

[Pinay_ako]

Yes 🙌

[FootfetishistBoy]

So basically a boss chick is an independent woman? So if she has a husband or a boyfriend she could love him but not need him. I mean if she is hot, smart, nice and all why not? As long she doesn't leave me for no reason.

[ChiTown33]

Depends how "boss chick" she is. NOBODY leads me. But I have no problem following her if we're headed in the same direction.

If relationships are about who running s*** to her then I'll pass. I got no time for that nonsense.

[DextroShade]

Nope. Why would I want a chick who acts like a dude? I don't care about her money either because she won't be spending it on me and it only makes her more entitled.

[strateguy632]

wait what? i did date a manager lady. we lasted around 5 weeks repeated dates. she wasn't bossy to me just at her job.

[BeMuse]

What did trainies re-brand themselves to "boss chicks" after the bud light blood bath, because that's three gay men in the picture.

[AnusNdaPainus]

The problem is women think because we will have sex with them we want a relationship with them

and what do mean feminine enough? Because a trans could be feminine enough.

feminine is something you either are or aren’t

[Apple1996]

They do have a very masculine energy so I could see why men wouldn't be attracted to them

[MementoMori777]

I've never been with a boss chick but I feel like they are feminine enough outside of work, staying professional is a thing don't forget that

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Personally, I would not, because I find the attitude that comes along with "successful women" to be very abrasive, combative, and domineering.

[kellytheman]

Yes I have and I kinda disagree with it but I do admit boss woman can be more dominant than submissive in the bedroom which I kinda like. I love a woman that takes control. A boss woman can be feminine by wearing a short dress, wearing make-up, and have a cute or beautiful demeanor. They could be less feminine when they are bossy or mad at a employer but that's kinda her job being in charge.

[Ironic_Method]

I wouldn't date anyone that refers to themselves as a "boss chick".

[slatyb]

Absolutely. That's an absurd misogynistic statement. I've crushed on several in my life.

[BadApple69]

Sure I would date a boss chick… I would even let her boss me around. But in bed, I’m the boss 😉

[nawtee_me]

I am sorry but you don't mix work and play. If she can separate her job from her home time the yes I am all for her/it... Guys should be the same way for that matter, not just the boss chick...

[fonduegirl]

separate work and hoe lives meaning total submission to you or equal partners?

[nawtee_me]

@anon1903 equal... Leave the boss crap at work and come home to the family...

[fonduegirl]

Of course.

[Daddy_Satoru]

She's my boss. IDGAF if she's feminine or masculine just lemme work.

[magiusX26]

on face value, nope. too manly in my book. if i wanted that kind of outting i would go out with one of the guys.

[LiamJHayden]

Generally no. Not because of her position, but so far all the ones I have met are devoid of a sense of humor.

[fonduegirl]

Depends on what you find humourous.

[LiamJHayden]

@anon1903 I'm wide spectrum humorous. I am talking no sense of humor.

[fonduegirl]

Got it.

[AngryCarl2]

I wouldn't date my boss, but I would date someone else's boss. Femininity doesn't equal subservience.

[D_Bone_Steak]

A boss chick can show her skills with the blow occupation on my member... that's a job... a blow job... so let us watch her do a boss job.

Maybe I'll post it on onlyfans. com/D_Bone_Steak

[fonduegirl]

What's a boss chick? I'm sorry, we don't have Tiktok in India.

Do you mean feminist? Guys don't care and shouldn't care unless she's particularly hateful about men or obnoxious about her "womanly struggles".

[fonduegirl]

And I as feminist certainly do not care what some internet podcast thinks women should act like. Don't like us? Great. I don't care about you, and I don't expect to be taken care of.

[fonduegirl]

And who is this guy to define what's feminine and what's not? Who d1ed and made him the president of society?

[fonduegirl]

That was a little snarky haha. Sorry.

[ericclayton]

I think a woman who gets stuff done can still be feminine. Not mutually exclusive.

[inked2014]

Yes I would , a dominant feminine Boss Chick sounds good to me,

[inked2014]

A dominant feminine " Boss Chick" that is educated, confident and successful are very attractive and sexy. They are just so difficult to find.

[DaKnow1]

I only go for boss chick's. I don't want a prissy delicate flower. Get your money up, get your mental health up, be motivated. Take action. That's a boss. Strong independent women are the best.

[DaKnow1]

I'm gonna add that any man who is turned off or threatened by a boss chick, is probably a child (mentally) anyway

[Hanrej]

Unlikely. My experience dealing with women like that have all been negative.

[EaterPeter]

I loved some of them but do I date them? Some of them I might and rest I won't

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for likes!

[BryanMoore]

I've been waiting for a woman to boss me around for ages but I've been looking for a while!

[dudeinohio]

I can't see either way. Would have to be in that situation

[Shiningtempest]

@Pinay_ako I don't see myself dating a boss chick because there's no shared interest & incompatible lifestyle.

[Manuel2]

Yes

Her on top doing the work

Why not

[jshm2]

To be fair, most are probably asexual/lesbian anyway. But the few that aren't are more focused on their career than relationship.

[Vázquez613]

I don't have a choice.

[Pinay_ako]

Why would you say that?

[Vázquez613]

Most women don't need a guy like me they are independent and smarter than me. So I have just deal with it.

[invalid1]

As long as she is good at sucking and swallowing my cum.

[TheIrishWolf]

Wtf? 😂 😂 😂

[invalid1]

Forgot to anynomize 🤦🏻‍♂️

[invalid1]

anonymize*

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 too late now

[robocop666]

most men like tough women. There are other polls on this

[Curious_teen07]

Boss chicks rule.

[Bruins37]

Hell yeah I'd date a boss chick! Means she's got her life in order.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Are you getting some new career ideas? ;-)

[Grond21]

I would not. That is toxic femininity

[Grond21]

Actually, that is inaccurate. It is toxic behavior, based on an abandonment of femininity

[OddBeMe]

Married one. They’re pussy cats after work.

[Pinay_ako]

Champs

[admles]

I married one!

She's feminine enough for me!