Is it normal for a girlfriend to send and get kisses/hearts from male hunting friends?

[mackan91]

My girlfriend has a lot of male friends and few of them is from hunting classes. It is one of this friends I have seen "over the shoulder" when she got text from him that he sends hearts and kisses emoji to her and she sends back.

When I asked her about it she just said she always sends kisses and hearts to her friends (that is true) plus he is 53 (she is 37) so he is too old as she told me.

Should I be worried or is it me who not used to be with a girl that has a lot of friends from male hobbies?

Updates

10 mo

*Is it me who is over thinking? My girlfriend and i is very open with everything and tell how it is directly rather than go around with the question. That is why I am little bit split in this question

[DaveJord]

She is playing you, my man. Even if she says it does not mean this to her, it definitely does mean this to 99% of eligible bachelors out there. She may be stringing this other guy along, or she might be stringing you along. But at the end of the day, think back to what it meant to you the day she sent you a kiss emoji, and how it made you feel every day since that day she sent you one.

What you just learned is that you are not as special to her as you thought you were. And that violates trust and weakens your emotional bond with her. I dated a woman like her before, and it did not last one week past the time I figured it out.

She had all these male freinds, and every time I ask about them she got some what defensive about it, and then tried to play if off like I was weird, crazy, possessive, controlling and jealous. But none of that was true, she just wasn't taking any responsibility for her own actions.

But for me she was going out on "freinds" dates with other guys. Like her and a guy she used to date, going out to dinner as freinds and then say it was not a date. Either way it was free dinner for her.

[DextroShade]

No, not normal. Those dudes are trying to smash if they haven't already.

[provokeesmokee]

It could be innocent, but it's best just to talk to her openly.

I use 🥰 with some of my platonic friends. It's become shorthand for something like "thanks I feel supported".

But that is just between my friends and I. I don't know about her and the older man.

Just ask.
Even doing that might reveal more than you expect.

[far2gud4u]

So I wouldn't be paying any attention to the messages but her reaction when she reads them... That tells you all you need to know. If her face doesn't change then you have nothing to worry about... a huge grin however may be cause for concern...

[Nikki1989]

Yes, it happens. It is how you react to it that counts.

[mackan91]

Yeah I did and just asked about it and she said she used to do it and she reminded me he was too old anyway so I didn't need to think so much of it.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Better check that ho! Nah, just kidding. All I can add is don't get in a bad argument, for she has dicks to fall on..

[Tstrbrainer]

It is normal for other guys to hit on women irrespective of their relationship status.

I bet he wants more and she knows it too

[rachel776]

is she what they're hunting? 🤷‍♀️

[Iron_Man]

No, it’s not