Why do a lot of guys talk about their privates or send photos of it on dating apps?

Anonymous

I’ve been on dating apps for over a year, I haven’t had a date in a year. Every single person I have matched with either talks about their d*cks 5 mins into the conversation or will randomly send photos of it when I’ve made it very clear that I don’t want anyone to send me d*ck pics but they still do it anyway. I asked one of them why and he said it was to get my attention. And some of these guys say they want to date or get a “girlfriend” but why? I personally don’t take any person seriously when they send me nudes. I haven’t even met any of them either.

I may sound salty as I’m sharing this, but I’m frustrated with dating apps now and a guy just send me another nude, I either get ghosted or they send me nudes. They ask me out but then never follow through and if I ask them if they still want to meet they will say yes but clearly have no interest (they make no effort and replies become very blunt). I don’t have any suggestive photos on my profile. I’m dressed in normal clothes. How do I get past this? I’ve tried changing the guys I normally match and it makes no difference

Why do a lot of guys talk about their privates or send photos of it on dating apps?
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