the 3 of us actually met around the same time and are good friends. but the girl doesn't want him and I to be friends anymore. if we keep contact then she fights with the boy and he gets upset because he is crazily in love with her. but he also cannot just stop talking to me bcs we really are good friends
I think you both should stop being friends with the girlfriend. She's demanding something that makes no sense and is clearly jealous. She has the problem. But, he's mad about her, so, give him some space to have more time with her and keep quiet about your chats.
In time, I expect, he might discover her attitude is unreasonable and their relationship as well. Good luck.
u Everybody that’s in a relationship says the same thing it’s up to you and your friend. What happens to your friendship if the friend gets rid of you, then, after they break up, does he come back around for you again? It’s kind of a slap in the face double edge sword.
You really cannot do much. If I were dating someone and she asked me to ditch my friends, I'd say, "No." explaining that those female friends have had my back since middle school or earlier, in one case since I was four. If she pushed, I'd ditch her.
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YOU shouldn't do anything. The ball is in his court, and you need to respect the decision he makes. She either has good reason to ask this of him and this is the way it needs to be. Or she's overstepping her bounds, and if he's smart he'll figure out she's bad news. Trust your friend. If he doesn't figure it out then he did you a favor because he's stupid. And why would you want to be friends with someone so easily led?
Yes, your answer to this PROVES your quality.
There's nothing you can do besides tell him that his girlfriend's request is over-controlling and completely unreasonable. He needs to dump her before she tears his life apart.
Maybe go out as four people with an additional friend.
In fact, in some cultures this is seen as more appropriate.
Men aren't your friends and she knows that. If you got with a guy who was worth a damn he would be asking you to cut him off as well.
The decision is his. Seems very messed up though.
u U don't do anything here
He has no right to ask for that.
Its best to to not talk and respect his discicion.
Have a threesome
Nothing.
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