Talking to the girl you like, when you’re generally quiet?

[Anonymous]

Just like the title says. There are a few ladies that I just vibe with. The ones I tend to find attractive l, seem to be a lot harder for me to talk with. When I do talk to a lot of times it is short. I know to ask open ended questions. When I try to do so, they still give short answers. Well another random question: When di you ever just come out tell a girl you like them and want to take them out? I have a hard time even thinking about doing this, especially when I don’t know much about them.

[cjdiqnrncoqbeofna]

Hi! i'm quiet too so I get your struggles! it's totally normal to be a little nervous when it comes to talking to someone you have a crush on, girl or guy. it's easier said than done, but just try and notice things about her and bring them up in conversation! like, is she into movies or music or sports? just act interested.

about the second question: if you don't know much about her, a good way to come out and ask would be like "hey, do you want to hang out sometime? you seem really cool." I know that's pretty effective. just don't resort to texting her 24/7 because it's easier than face to face. you'll figure it out!!

[strateguy632]

short answers from pink ate "polite get lost" find another to ask out for drinks.

[Crankor]

Don't talk to them like your interested is what I'd say.