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I recently found out that the girl I rejected connected/or became acquaintances with the girl that was pretty much the reason I didn’t take her seriously. I take full blame, and I feel terrible but I mislead her and played lots of mind games with her, which I felt terrible about that and took full blame for that.
The girl I actually like, it went no where. We talked a bit but she was just odd and kept asking his barrier. Eventually I just cutting communication.
I’m just wondering why they would connect when they don’t really live near each other, just have one mutual friend who knows about the situation that happened with the one I like (she’s friends with both). But the connection is not strong enough to all of a sudden connect.
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Your question is kinda confusing😅 but still I'll try.. I think if she became friends with the girl (together with whom you were a jerk to her), there's no way she actually should be liking her. She's probably doing her best to keep the negative emotions inside or trying to observe this other girl.
I myself talked/had a friendly conversation with the girl, my guy was jerking around with. I'm good with emotions and don't get miserable to just simply go all 'blaming n hating' the girl. I was never actually bothered by this other girl tbh. I know very well who's the one at fault. Personally i did it just to use her as a letterbox, ik he'd get my message through her. Also cuz I'm not intimidated by her.
But yes, every girl is different so can't know her reasons. All I can say is nobody could've guessed mine.
Can a girl do it to find more details on when I was talking to both of them? Or maybe their bad mouthing me?
'They' can only badmouth you if the other one also dislike you. You mentioned here of only one having a good reason of disliking. It's possible she could be doing it to take out the details.
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That is true. I made a mistake, but the one I really liked we didn’t end on the best terms. Isn’t It weird that the girl that got rejected connects later with the girl that was the reason the guy she liked didn’t like her enough?
It's only weird for you. She's entitled to NOT go your way, for once. You broke her, don't judge her now for her actions. You already have a lot to judge on your plate.
Yk tbh, it's WEIRD that you now shamelessly label her as the "girl that got rejected".. YOU only rejected her & that's JUST cuz she had the courage to make herself vulnerable to you. You're the one that was a coward to NOT straight up politely say no n instead go for mind games like an insecure incel. by the way, simply just knowing or admitting to your "mistake" (not even a mistake, u know what u were doing) doesn't make you any better of a person. The way you're writing here, after doing that, shows exactly the kind of person that you are.
It sounds to me like you’re saying that you were friends with 2 girls, we’ll call Lee and Karen. You were all a big group of friends. Lee and Karen were best friends. You liked Lee, but Karen fell for you. You were an arsehole, so you played with Karen’s feelings and ended up upsetting Lee too and turning her off you forever, because your behaviour was so cruel towards Karen and hurt/embarrassed/creeped them both out so much. The moral of the story? Is to be nicer to other people, then you won’t have to carry a bad reputation amongst the group. I was in Karen’s shoes a few years ago. I don’t know if the guy liked my friend or not, but everything else happened. I told all our friends and everyone except the guy that didn’t like me very much dumped him and I had nothing to do with it.