Girls, when is it ok to talk about certain kinks with a girl he's dating?

[Anonymous]

[_Maya_]

Yeah because better they know about them sooner rather than later. I mean unless you can repress and forget them then you want to let them know at the appropriate time. Key word being appropriate. Don't lead with that just before first time being intimate with them. Not a good idea. In the same breath don't wait a year and then say oh honey by the way I get a wicked boner watch you take a piss. See what I mean? I had a girlfriend that had a kink and told me about it after a few times in bed. We talked and found a way to accommodate her wants.

[Asker]

my kink is probably something you'd either laugh at or cringe, it's one of those.

[_Maya_]

Maybe 😆

[Asker]

mine is to get kicked in the balls by a woman. I don't know why and where it developed. But nothing extreme i've seen guys do nasty stuff. A few simple moderate kicks. Doesn't take much to bring a guy down to his knees.

[Asker]

and nah I've never been kicked by a girl or told her openly.

[_Maya_]

Lol you should meet this guy then. While you are just honest and open about it he invents crazy stories.

How vulnerable are man in front of girls? ↗

[Asker]

thats not me, and i admitted my kink sooo lol.

[_Maya_]

I know it isn't you lol. Ages different. You were honest and straightforward with me. That dude is making stories up 😆

[Asker]

eh, if i bumped into you knowing the question i asked and the answer i admitted, i would probably ask you to kick me in the nuts and even pay you $300 for being such a cool sport about it. I'm just keeping it 100.

[Asker]

@_maya_ isn't going to respond now, i creeped her out lol.

[_Maya_]

Lol no it I'd like any other fringe kink. Some people are even into cutting. Imagine that! I look at it almost like a part of bdsm maybe. Not much different than getting whipped or spanked or whatever. You are just focused on a particular area.

[Asker]

Cutting or pooping or humiliating someone in public, drinking urine, weird rituals, nah i'm not into any of that. Just some light kicks by a girl and im good, i would thank her and shake her hand. Unless im on the ground in a fetal position and call her a bitch out of her anger then that's on me since I was the dumb ass that went forward with it. Maya you'd really reject a dude giving you $300 to kick him in the balls one time?

[_Maya_]

Yeah because I make more than that on a busy Saturday night bartending. I'm not into physical harm. Crosses a boundary of mine.

[Asker]

well now im going to walk into the bar you work at and tell a midget to wear boxing gloves and punch me in the dong, it will brighten your shift.

[_Maya_]

It will really brighten the night of the people that are tipsy. 😆

[Asker]

I'm sure you'd laugh if i got punched in the dick by a midget named Tiny Tim

[_Maya_]

😆😆

[Asker]

or how about this Maya, place a boot on a string by the door way and when i walk in, let go of the string and boot will nail me in the nutbag area then you can turn around, not give a shit and go back to work.

[_Maya_]

Sounds good to me. Remember the ice is for drinks and not icing your balls.

[Asker]

you mean i have to walk to the nearest 7/11 to grab ice? How much does it cost to get a glass of ice?

[Asker]

i added u by the way just now

[chevy1]

anytime they want to me but it is a good idea also to know them and go on dates first before kinks to me aswel but still nice to be told them