A girl invites me to her dorm to help her decorate, I didn’t make a move or anything, did I do the right thing?

[vcr123]

This girl I’ve been talking to on and off to for about half a year, just came back to school. She is an international student. She invited me over to her apartment off campus to help you decorate the living room with the lights and everything. I never tried to make a move or anything. We just talked about each others lives and got to know different things. I even went into her room to decorate. She said she needed someone tall lol to help make this possible 6’2 vs 4’11. She said that she wanted some ice cream to enjoy at home so I drove her to the store and we walked around I bought her some. We came back and I went home. Did I do the right thing?

[_Maya_]

Make a move as in try to get physical with her or just ask her out? If the first then yeah you did the right thing not trying to kiss or whatever. If the latter than maybe. It is hard to tell if she just views you as a friend or if she is trying to show she is interested. Is there any sort of flirting going on with her? Like the typical stuff you would normally get from a girl flirting? If there is then she may be looking for more than friends. If not she just views you as a friend. Only one way to find out...

[TheGuyWhoKnowsStuff]

Even if she wanted you to kiss her, if you didn't feel it was right for that then that is fine. Interactions between men and women aren't just about when she is ready or what she wants but about what you want to. When the time is right for something and you're reading the right signals, that is when it is the right time to make a move. Respecting her on this unofficial date is not a bad thing but you do need to express your interest in her so that she doesn't think you're 1. not interested and 2. gay.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, but next time, think about making a move on her.