So I think taking adderall when I was a little girl messed up my self-esteem, or held me back from growing up properly. I remember when I was little, I liked boys. It wasn't until I was in junior high/high school I still liked guys but I would think they wouldn't like me w/o makeup. I mean I have boy-ish features, but what I really hate is my eyes have no definition. My eyelashes are straight, I think due to ethnicity, and I have circles under my eyes. So my eyes don't look feminine at all. But I look pretty feminine with makeup on. So due to my adderall giving me anxiety, I didn't date until my mid 20's.
2 of the guys I dated saw me without make up. & even though they weren't the best relationships/ guys. They still wanted me back after I broke up with them. But they would also mention that I'm not that attractive too. All I'm asking is that if I wasn't parented correctly when I was younger, should have I been gay?
I mean I don't feel gay, and I don't want to like girls. But I'm not the most most feminine girl either. But I think my adderral that caused me anxiety, just made me grow up different socially. So I'm just not sure what to do.
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Just because you don’t wear makeup doesn’t mean you should be ashamed of trying to find someone to spend your life with. All guys are different not all men will like you and that doesn’t make them bad. We’re all looking for something different, which is why we have soulmates.
As a individual it’s your choice to wear makeup or not. Some girls love it and others not so much. Don’t settle for someone whose abusive or you’re just simply not happy with. Love isn’t something that can be forced.
Ofc you can. If you find someone who loves you they don’t care what you look like. You don’t decide if you’re gay or not.
I don't see why not