Guy likes girl
Girl liked guy to an extent
Girl flirts & teases very heavily
Guy gets taken back
Girl escalates it just to reject him to his face in her own car
Guy gets 😡 & holds a grudge against her since
Guy run into her by accident & tries to get some answers
Your thoughts on the drama? & how it could get worse?
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It sounds very silly. Why not just cut her off? If a man gets overly dramatic towards me, or people in a friend group keep creating drama instead of being direct and upfront. I feel a lot better from having done that.
She initiated it
She literally started talking about me in an "XXX" manner the moment she saw me after 3 years
Still.. why waste time on someone who doesn’t know whether or not they want you? Find someone who knows they do.
We had an argument 3 years prior where I insulted her & she was livid
I don't know whether she was getting back at me
Oh I see. I don’t know. I tend to be a very direct person. I have trouble understanding people who are indirect or passive aggressive /game players
She flirted/teased/made explicit comments & gestures to my face
She was my therapist by the way
Your therapist? That’s inappropriate behaviour then
Yes, she was 31/I was 19
That’s weird
Had another therapist do the same (I was 17 then)
Show would always tell me about her husband /home life/political views & even invited me at a night party
Hmmm sounds weird. You must be handsome I guess.
I guess
That therapist looked like "Naomi Watts" from the ring... just curvier & younger
Are you handsome?
I was told by numerous people
How strange. I’m vaguely pretty, but I’ve never been hit on by a therapist. Maybe I’ve had a few male nurses flirt with me when I was depressed and spent time in the hospital, years ago and on work placement.
I’ll bet you feel like throwing cold water over women, saying; ‘Calm down!’
Those nurses wanted to take advantage of you
& I have gotten several "offers" by randoms
Oh they were just flirting harmlessly. Offers for sex? Ok. I’ve had some too. I can’t say several, but enough. But I’m not that sort of person. Anymore.
I've been gawked at from toe to head by woman & I did have 2 encounters
I was 17 then
You’re probably handsome then. Some women get stupid around hot guys.
Ok. Fair enough 😊
Yes
Just don't know how seeing her again might go down
Why do you want to date your therapist?
Because she was my first crush that I felt very attached too
She literally was there everytime I showed up for therapy.. by chance running into each other or being paired
Well, that’s a therapist’s job.
But it got very explicit from her end
Well, I guess you can try
Maybe
Just out of curiosity
Do you get hit on very often? Are you always paranoid about someone trying to corse you into anything?
No I usually hit on people myself. Why would I be paranoid? If I’m interested in the guy, unless he overdoes it and spooks me, then I enjoy the attention and romance.
I’ve met some weird, creepy men, but I’m nearly 35, so that’s to be expected by my age.
Is her name Karen? Id stop talking to her entirely.
She sounds very toxic doesn't she
Yes, she sure does.
The whole teasing/making sexual comments and gestures & pulling back