Why do most girls’ give ultimatums to their men?

[Finchie40]

I notice most girls’ when they don’t get their way , they threaten their man with ultimatums , Why do most girls’ do this? What is her intentions of doing this? Basically if you don’t do this for me then I am going to get it somewhere else. When a girl gives me an ultimatum , I give it right back to her or I will straight out tell her she is best to go with the other guy she is trying to threaten me with , because the way I look at it is I am not your slave bitch , if you think you were put on this Earth to be constantly catered to , then go find yourself another man or go for that other man because he can have you. I hate when girls do this shit, but sadly it seems most girls’ tend to do it

[Nxtawm]

Ultimatums are them expressing their boundaries or if something is making them uncomfortable. It’s not a thing thrown around with little things like “take out the trash or I’ll leave” it’s stuff that has been bothering them for a good while and they may or may not have told you previously it bothers them. So now they’re bringing it back up more seriously. If you’re not willing to change, it’s good they leave since that relationship isn’t gonna go anywhere or do anything for both of you. It’s not about “getting their way” and wanting you to be their slave. They’re giving that ultimatum because they don’t want to fully give up on the relationship yet, they know it’s not gonna work unless something changes.

[DizzyDesii]

I used to feel bad about anyone in a relationship giving the other an ultimatum. But now a days a see it from a new perspective as a sense of self respect. Thats why i give dudes trial runs. If we ain't on the same page by this certain time or in general, ima bounce. We’ll survive 🤷‍♀️

[Pegases]

I mean it's pretty simple, to get what they want. Women have always done this. And men do it to in other ways. Women tend to withhold affection and sex to get their way. Men tend to withdraw attention and resources.

[chrissykerdock]

take it easy... go with the flow it's not that bad is it?

[Finchie40]

It’s bad, because if someone actually cares about you and loves you they wouldn’t be giving you ultimatums, People that give ultimatums are people that only really care about what is best for them , basically it’s their way of no way , People that have that type of mindset will never experience true love they will only experience what they feel is best for them , until it catches up to them of how much of a POS they really are All ultimatums do is push someone else away, because the other person feels they aren’t going to be told what to do , by being threatened. Most people want their cake and want to eat it to , and that’s fine and dandy for them but when it back fires in their face they are left standing there like a complete moron

[Radiate143]

Men do it too. They withdraw their interest. Women are vocal about it.

[Anonymous]

So you know most girls. That is a lot of women. 🤦‍♀️

[Juxtapose]

Because men let them get away with it.

[Anonymous]

Those girls are simply bitches