Why are lots of girls I've dated so mean spirited?

[Anonymous]

Im not into the redpill women are horrible narrative. However my last 3 previous girlfriends have all been major bitches. For instance they would do stuff like tell me that "im dumb as fuck" or that "im a fucking cheapskate". Even after multiple times of warning them to stop. My current girlfriend who is super nice says that those girls I've previously dated are whats called "modern women" because they were spoiled and entitled. I don't really believe that all women hate men obviously because I have a loving girlfriend now. But that doesn't change the fact that it seems like the large majority of them have unreasonable expectations from a man and when he doesn't deliver they throw a temper tantrum.

[OlderAndWiser]

The question you ask perhaps could be answered, but I don't think an answer would be helpful to you. The more important question you should ask yourself is why you dated three women successively who were very unpleasant and self-centered. You did SELECT them as dating partners, right? And continued dating them after their abrasiveness became apparent?

[Asker]

Yeah they didn't act like that at first. Not until about after the second month. They were initially super nice. Cause they know if they pulled that bullshit initially they would get rejected. Its not until they got comfortable around me. Also I broke them off pretty fast after they exhibited thier bad attitude change.

[OlderAndWiser]

Did the relationships get sexual before the bad behavior surfaced?

[Asker]

yes sir. But i didn't treat them like meat I took them out on dates and treated them well. I just wanted them to return the favor.

[OlderAndWiser]

Perhaps the lesson to be learned is that you formed judgments about these girls too quickly and waiting a little longer would have given them a chance to reveal themselves. I know that rushing in for sex feels good at the time, but it almost always makes a break up more difficult.

[Sasha0426]

She’s right. Women these days always want but don’t want to give, you know what I mean? Seems like you just had bad luck is all. Sounds like your current girlfriend is a keeper.

[In_Trance]

because you choose the wrong girls

[Asker]

Yeah no duh