Why do sooo many men on this site say being woman - say 25 to 35 - is "wrong" & younger is better when things like global marriage is 28?

[BlackBeauty90]

Global marriage statistics of developed countries are around 28 years of age for women & 30 years of age for men. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/marriage-map_n_4326504

In developed areas - so major cities, industrial areas, etc. where education & income is more readily found than small uneducated poverty stricken villages - of "third world" countries it is between 23 to 25 for women & 25 to 28 for men.

Even in countries such as India (women 23.6) or China (24.9) has higher age range.

On the other hand

Some of the poorest, least educated, most corrupt and crime / violent countries & will probably remain in this category for a very long time have the lowest age for getting married. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_age_at_first_marriage

As example a number of African countries.

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Sooo what to say when reality & the world says the opposite to what such GAG guys are saying except, of course, if you come from povery stricken uneducated areas and are more adept at violence & crime or being indecent even than acheiving anything with your life.

[Oliverlogan263]

From what you're saying, it seems like those guys are just trying to justify their own preferences instead of looking at the actual facts and statistics. The average ages you listed from the sources seem reasonable to me. Most people nowadays want to finish their education, get established in a career, and be financially stable before settling down and getting married. Nothing wrong with that.

Those guys claiming younger is always better are probably just thinking with their hormones instead of their heads. Sure, when you're a hormonal teenager everything seems like it has to happen right away. But the real world isn't like that. Relationships take maturity to last. I'd rather wait until I'm truly ready to take on the responsibilities of marriage and family before jumping into anything permanent.

Sounds like those guys just want to convince themselves their opinions are normal. But realistically, the global trends show most mature societies aim for later ages as you showed. Maybe they should spend less time online wishfully thinking and more time bettering themselves so they can find stable partners when the time is actually right. Can't force these things.

[Anonymous]

Reality and ideal are often different things. It's a fact that women are most desireable during their early to mid 20s. It just is.

[elizamichale1]

Well i had my boys early when i was 22 but i got married only last year at 28

people here tend to behave quite differently tbh

[Anonymous]

They are just losers who stuck in their mothers' basements where they have no interaction with women

[HelpfulWoman]

This site doesn't attract many men worth listening to frankly. Most will be unlikeable social rejects/incels/wannabe pedos. And trolls of course!

[shades777]

i dont think what a man wants and marriage age medians parallel

[BLP11520]

Honestly some men here are wrong about many things.

[Worst]

Most men on here are borderline retarded