I’d it okay to kiss a cousin?

[Counterclocking]

I have a female cousin and we do hug each other. I’m very comfortable with hugging her and I feel very comfortable with her hugging me. One reason I love hugging her and her hugging me is because she’s pretty. However, while hugging her I’d also love to kiss her because like I said she’s pretty.

Please note: I’m not meaning that I want to marry my cousin and have sex with her. That’s not my intention besides she’s married and has kids.
When I’d also kiss my cousin, I’d hope she’d feel very comfortable with it and that she feels loved. I also want her to know that I’m kissing her because she’s pretty.

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7 mo

I’m not talking about kissing her on the lips. I mean kissing her hair, head, sides of her head, forehead, and/or cheeks.

[madhatters4]

it's fine to kiss relatively as a sign of your familial closeness. but it sounds like you want to kiss her more due to romantic feelings for her. this is a murky area i would not get into. i think for the reasons you want to kiss her are not really ok.

[Counterclocking]

I’m not thinking about kissing her on the lips. I’m just thinking about kissing her hair, top of her head, sides of her head (including the ears), her forehead, and/or her cheeks.

I’m not asking about getting into a sexual relationship with her.

[Counterclocking]

Or instead of sexual relationship I probably should say sexual intercourse.

[DaBiggestBird]

Now that you mention the kids and marriage, that’s a big no. That’s like a kid putting their leg behind their dads car and getting it crushed because they didn’t want to go to school. Otherwise, yah

[Sparkie460]

It's fine to kiss your cousin. I don't mean like French kissing her but a quick kiss on the cheek or lips is fine

[Counterclocking]

I wasn’t going to French kiss her by the way. I’d like to kiss her hair, head, sides of the head (including her ears), forehead, and/or cheeks. But I’d like to give her more than just one kiss.

What about a giving her big smooch? Would it be okay?

[Sparkie460]

Give her a quick little kiss and see how she reacts

[Counterclocking]

One thing’s for sure is I’m glad she’s comfortable with me hugging her and she gives me hugs. Now, when I start giving her a quick little kiss, that’s a good way to start. That’s to see if she’s comfortable with me kissing her. If she’s comfortable with me kissing her then I could increase the smooch. I also want her to feel loved too.