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Last time he liked my story was a week ago.
He’s still viewing all of my stories and he’s often one of the first people to view them
Here’s backstory: He came to view my stories (my page was public) when he didn’t even follow me.
I followed him on instagram and he accepted my follow request and followed me back right away. Then the next day he liked one of my stories and I liked back one if his story updates. So far he’s liked 3 of my stories
He’s 33 years old and a med student
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What Girls & Guys Said
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Don't take it too seriously to mean something particularly deeper. I too have done what he's done when I came across someone's page that I really liked and never followed them before. Sometimes I did follow that person and they followed me back too, or all I do is just like to see what they post.
Have you two actually exchanged any messages and gotten to know each other?
We haven’t exchanged any messages and that’s got me wondering…
That's what I figured. He might also be a fake account out of some other country. They will do this a lot on IG, follow people at random, watch their stories, and like their stuff. With no real intention of getting to know you unless they want to hack your account.
He’s definitely real person. We have mutual friends
So maybe he just followed you and Liked your stuff to get your attention. Maybe they nudged him to. Not sure. But if that's the case then see where it goes. Just send him a message.
No I followed him after he came to view my stoties and he accepted my request right away and followed me back
Okay. So now send him a message.
Why? I feel it makes me look thirsty/desperate
Women always think that. You're the one wanting to know if he likes you because you obviously have some interest in him. Send the guy a message and see what he says.
But I believe if guy is really interested he will reach out
Sometimes. Maybe he's hoping you'll reach out too.
Why would he hope that I reach out when he could get any woman he wants lol (he’s handsome and med student)
When a guy wants a particular woman, she is who will matter to him. Not other women. Regardless of him being handsome or not.
But do you think he wants me?
Maybe. There's only one way to find out.
In the past I’ve dm’d guys first and got dates but they haven’t really lead into anything serious and I’m scared to me disappointed again :/
To be*
Losses happen. It doesn't mean it will necessarily happen again. But if it does, take it as something to improve on. It's not always the other person's fault for something not working out for us, or it may partially be there fault.
Update?
Likes don't always mean something but they are nice.
Maybe try leaving a comment on something of his, nothing flirty, just try to start a friendship or something. If that goes cold, you'll have your answer.
I personally don't makes moves on anyone I like but I might like their posts if I'm brave that day.
Do you think he’s interested?
It's too early to find out, which is why you're going to need to manifest a chance or two.
Figure out if he's single, while you can.
Why would he like my stories if he isn’t single..
Would it be desperate if I dm him?
Good point, we can hope he's not a player if he likes things.
Desperate? Really depends on how confident you are. If you're going to do that, you need to be okay with the chance that he might not actually be interested.
Normally I say stick to the comment section, but a DM, well, you'll need a plan going in.
A DM would intimidate me, and make me happy at the same time, but I'm pretty weird.
How confident are you in your looks and ability to hold a conversation?
Or you could just skip to the chase. I've gotten those before.
Maybe don't start with the "Are you single?" stuff because sex bots tend to try that stuff and it might make you seem like a fake profile, you'd need to do it in a more human approach.
Compliment a picture, or ask where you know each other, etc
I'm terrible at dating and dating advice, by the way.