Girls, Is it a good thing if a woman likes a guys attention but doesn’t like the guy back?

[Anonymous]

Some girls use guys for attention but they don’t like the guy back. Is it a good thing?

Yes

No

[Jezzzter]

It depends if the girl is actively leading them on or not. Since you mentioned how girls “use guys for attention”, I’m assuming this is what you mean.

If the girl is acting all flirty to get the guy to continue complimenting and giving her attention, I think that’s very insensitive. He thinks she’s interested, and then when he finally makes a move, she might laugh or get upset with him. That’s gross.

But it’s good to remember, just because a girl is nice to you, doesn’t mean she’s flirting with you or trying to lead you on.

I know it’s difficult to distinguish the two sometimes, and I have trouble with that too, so I can’t offer any advice there.

But no, I don’t think it’s a good thing. It sounds hurtful.

[Asker]

I think you have actually given some good advice. If a guy makes a move and the girl pushes back then she’s not interested. Flirting is quite obvious such as hey cutie or something like that or you smell lol
thanks heaps