So if girls like attention from guys then why do they get turned off if a guy comes on too strong or kind of smothers them? Then later want attention?

[Anonymous]

[Zeppelinrocks]

I agree with the dudes on here. We want attention, but we don’t want to be smothered. Smothered means: more than one phone call a day, more than two texts if we don’t reply to the first, excessive compliments (especially if they’re only about our body), excessive servility (“I’ll pick you up, I’ll pay for your food, I’ll go grab your medicine, Do you want a back massage?” Etc). Just... chill. Give us some space to want you.

[Anonymous]

I personally want a natural growth of interest and attention. When one first meet and a man is very intersted it makes no sense to me, he does not know me so he is interested in some idea of me. I don't like that, but I like a normal 'want to get to know each other'-interest.. and then it can increase as we get closer and closer.

[BallyT]

Because attention is all what they want nothing more nothing less. Don’t pay attention to these insecure broads.

[HateMetaL89]

The keyword here is : emotional stability.

Not ignoring... not too much emotions.

[InfobotLives]

Attention can be attractive but desperation isn't and neither is excessive invasion of space.