As a girl, do you believe in casual relationships?

[simon]

Personally, as a guy, I don't believe in casual relationships nor I like it... But I'm really curious about girls opinions. Girls, do you believe in casual relationships?

[Zackareen]

I have boyfriend, about to become a husband, but it still have sex with other guys that he doesn't know about. It usually happens by accident, ships in the night but sometimes when my libido is high the irrational desire for sex overcomes common sense. When that happens my perversion kicks in and I seek dirty sex, I have sexual daddy issues that makes me want men that are the polar opposite of men, men that are overweight and old enough to be my grandfather. Those kind of men automatically make me feel submissive and I turn into a $/ut for them, after its over I feel disgusted with myself, well disgusted until the next time. The thing is sex is an irrational desire, so don't look for logic in it.

[Tim2nice]

Don’t feel disgusted at all. Having sexual desires is very normal and fulfilling them is good for your health and that should be at the forefront of your priorities. Don’t give a damn what society thinks. I’d actually advise you to speak to your soon to be husband about those desires because it’ll become a problem for you in the future. Tell how you feel and let him decide wether he’s ok with that or not. He should be if he loves and wants the best for you. I love my wife and I couldn’t care less if she likes gang bangs. Seeing her happy makes me happy. You should negotiate this before you commit yourself.

[MrNameless]

You need to tell him asap. The fact that you are having sex behind his back with other people is just awful. Having the desire is not wrong, but acting upon it in an exclusive relationship, makes you an awful person.

[MrNameless]

@Tim2nice She's already having sex with other guys dude.

[Yyyyp789]

Personally I don't because I'm at an age where i wish to settle down with a man who is actually looking for something serious as well and that we are on the same page in this regard. It also messes up my mind by keeping it "casual" because you tend to spend time together and by this it means it causes feelings to naturally flow (for me at least) which is why I rather stay away from a casual relationship as it conflicts with my personality, emotions and mental health.

[Clueless27828282]

humans need humans. Sincerety is very hard to find that’s why people think that the worst relationship is better than no relationship. That’s why it works. It is not better that real relationships but it is better than being lonely. Of course you can be alone and happy. But it is not possible for a long time.

[minervaMJ]

as a girl this is true for some girls, they do like flaunting that many guys flock around her and sometimes they genuinely do have great personalities. but in the end of the day i believe you should be true to yourself and stabilize your beliefs about what you like ad what you dont. might sound old school but stability shows your mental state is improving

[WhitneySnow]

I think you can date someone casually but I would never get sexual with someone who I was only casual with. I don’t judge those who do though (some of my friends do).

[MissBoogus]

I mean, I believe in them cause they happen… all the time. I’ve never done it, my boyfriend did it lots. I think if it’s fun and everyone’s safe it’s fine. Heck I let my boyfriend do what he wants so yea I believe, I guess.

[eastcoastgirlie]

That really depends on what you mean by casual relationships. If you mean going on a few dates with different guys. Yes. I have done it and open to it in the future. If you mean dating and having sex with several different guys then no.

[IslaTheWitch]

I think, for now, I don't believe in serious long-term relationships.

[On_cloud_wine]

Apparently no one dates anymore, so I must be the rare type because I don’t believe in casual relationships

[HelpfulWoman]

i believe they're a thing and plenty of people are good with them. not a type for me.

[A_Bell]

I used to when I was young, but now I can't imagine being in a casual relationship.

[EmmaMary]

No I don't... Not that I need to being married.

[Nikki1989]

When I was much younger, I did, but there comes a time when you have to take life far more seriously.

[Radiate143]

No. They lead to pain in the end. For either one or both parties. Bad idea.

[Tim2nice]

What pain?

[wiltingrosepetal]

-One catching feels, the other feeling nothing
-Ghosting
-Misunderstanding boundaries
-Getting attached unreasonably
-Break-ups
-Cheating
It's kinda the same logic that makes trio friendships fall out. One person ends up getting left behind

[Radiate143]

@wiltingrosepetal exactly!

[Yyyyp789]

@wiltingrosepetal

I agree

[Tim2nice]

@wiltingrosepetal yes because none of that can happen in a relationship or even marriage.

[Radiate143]

@Tim2nice the difference is that at least with marriage you have a comittment. With friends with benefits you have pain and nothing to show for it. It's stupid.

[Tim2nice]

It’s the other way round for many. Relationships can be a pain whereas friends with benefits you just meet up for sex if and when you need or want without having to share boring responsibilities

[Radiate143]

@Tim2nice the boring responsibilities you speak of are what build families and societies. With that kind of attitude, it's no surprise our society is falling apart.

[Anonymous]

I tired it after a 11 terrible relationship. It wasn't for me. I just felt used.

[Anonymous]

Are you referring to one night stands or friends with benefits?

[overthinkergirl]

yeap i believe in casual relationship

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't know, I haven't been a girl, yet.

[lilaccc]

sorry but what "casual relationship" is it like?

[Anonymous]

Lots of girls believe in that.

[Jazzy54]

Nope. Not for me.

[Minahh]

I don't